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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Chestfeeding' to be banned in NHS crackdown

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RoyalCorgi · 27/04/2024 20:35

Victoria Atkins is going to demand that NHS trusts stop using terms like chestfeeding, according to the Telegraph.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2024/04/27/nhs-to-limit-trans-ideology-with-new-constitution/

‘Chestfeeding’ to be banned in NHS crackdown

The health service is to limit trans ideology with new constitution

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2024/04/27/nhs-to-limit-trans-ideology-with-new-constitution

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IncompleteSenten · 28/04/2024 11:36

It's about fucking time it was stopped.

I breastfed. Well, for a while.
If someone wants to call it chest feeding for themselves then fair enough. They can use it when referring to themselves but they can fuck off with trying to make me talk about chest feeding my babies and any midwife or Dr who tried to talk to me about me chest feeding my baby would be told to pack it the fuck in.

Mammals have breast tissue to produce milk, not chest tissue.

Signalbox · 28/04/2024 11:40

On the face of it this looks good but if there is going to be a consultation before this is implemented it will really need cross party consensus to succeed because otherwise when Labour win the next election it’ll just get dropped and everything will carry on as before.

anyolddinosaur · 28/04/2024 11:55

As I dont read the Telegraph - who is being consulted and is there something I should be filling in?

Otterly2 · 28/04/2024 12:08

Soigneur · 28/04/2024 09:44

They said it to the press. Which is very different to actually taking some executive action to make changes. The people who write these documents aren’t going to update them simply because Javid gave an interview in the Telegraph. If you want to change stuff in a large organisation, especially one like the NHS which is effectively dozens of separate completely autonomous organisations (trusts) you have to put in a serious plan to change things top down.

A copywriter hired by a maternity unit in Anytown is not going to change a thing unless they are told to by their manager and so on up the chain.

Governing by press interview and sound bite doesn’t work, you actually have to govern.

I shall wait and see. The NHS is a behemoth infiltrated by women hating TRAs it seems to me. Changing this will take years.

Otterly2 · 28/04/2024 12:12

AirGappedServerScrapings · 28/04/2024 10:13

On the plus side, at least it's only the maternity, gynaecology, breast and cervix cancer literature they'll have to correct. It's not like they need to make any changes to the prostate cancer stuff, is it?

I wonder why.

Yes it's really weird isn't it?

Otterly2 · 28/04/2024 12:15

Helleofabore · 28/04/2024 10:30

I am also one who believes that it will all get changed back again once the government changes. There are now too many activists in position that will mean this will be rolled out with a change in government. It will probably be done behind the scenes.

After all, Starmer effectively modeled that no one should speak the truth about cervixes. He was very clear.

Yes he was and yet Labour devotees pretend that this was just a blip. The fact that he even felt that it was ok to say this is gobsmackingly awful.

Signalbox · 28/04/2024 12:18

anyolddinosaur · 28/04/2024 11:55

As I dont read the Telegraph - who is being consulted and is there something I should be filling in?

The article states that the "the proposed changes will be subject to an eight-week consultation". This makes me think that the chances of them implementing a new constitution by the time a general election takes place will be quite slim.

Otterly2 · 28/04/2024 12:19

OpusGiemuJavlo · 28/04/2024 11:32

None of your business.

Not every pregnancy is planned. If it is planned then there's nothing intrinsic to people who identify as "trans" that makes them immune to the human desire to procreate. Adults with the capacity to do so do not need anyone's permission or approval to get pregnant.

Health care services should not be limited in ways that make them less accessible to any category of person.

Health care services should not be limited in ways that make them less accessible to anycategory of person

Except the old fashioned kind of women apparently.

Sooooootired01 · 28/04/2024 12:20

@RainWithSunnySpells Thank you. I think I've heard it all now. Surely this isn't safe?!!! I have been told by pharmacists to avoid Strepsils whilst breastfeeding as just one example.

Datun · 28/04/2024 12:23

OpusGiemuJavlo · 28/04/2024 11:32

None of your business.

Not every pregnancy is planned. If it is planned then there's nothing intrinsic to people who identify as "trans" that makes them immune to the human desire to procreate. Adults with the capacity to do so do not need anyone's permission or approval to get pregnant.

Health care services should not be limited in ways that make them less accessible to any category of person.

Health care services should not be limited in ways that make them less accessible to any category of person.

Whilst I agree in principle, it's not that easy.

Trans ideology is sexist, homophobic and dangerous, particularly to women and girls.

Using language that perpetuates it isn't a neutral act. It certainly shouldn't be NHS policy, written into their literature, etc.

On an individual basis, one-to-one, yes. After all, I'm sure HCPs change their language all the time depending on who they're talking to.

I agree that if there are some women who will not access the services it should be addressed. But not by accommodating the ideology.

RainWithSunnySpells · 28/04/2024 12:30

Sooooootired01 · 28/04/2024 12:20

@RainWithSunnySpells Thank you. I think I've heard it all now. Surely this isn't safe?!!! I have been told by pharmacists to avoid Strepsils whilst breastfeeding as just one example.

The problem with someone with the ethics of Victor Frankenstein having any influence in medical circles, is that whenever any consequences of their dabbling/experiments come to light, they bloody run off.

Dineasair · 28/04/2024 12:46

OpusGiemuJavlo · 28/04/2024 07:22

@Dineasair I wasn't talking about the totally fucked up weirdness of male people inducing lactation. You are totally right that shit is unacceptable.

But if an actually female person has been so damaged by internal and external misogyny that she wants to opt out of the category of "woman" altogether then yes that's not healthy but in the event of pregnancy that person and their baby still deserves healthcare they can access and it's totally inappropriate to make access to the required healthcare conditional on overcoming and recanting from years of conditioning that female-coded words don't have to apply. I do not agree with that mindset but if that "gestating person" is going to be too traumatised by hearing words like "mother" "breast" etc accurately applied to their body that they avoid healthcare settings then that is actively harmful. The nurses and midwives need to prioritise the wellbeing of the baby and mother and if that can only be achieved in that specific instance by them being able to switch to sex-neutral language then that's the right thing to do.

Doesn't have to mean that any non-deluded women have to have their information in sex-neutral gobbledegook. It shouldn't be "normalised" and certainly should never be used to validate a male person's deluded attempts to mimic female biology. But the women who think they are men need it and banning it will harm them and their babies.

Nope, still disagree, this was a crucial part of the slippery slope that got us here in the first place, and led to men being allowed to suckle infants, it’s still validating and perpetuating a lie. If a woman who is living as a man and has gotten pregnant, the most female thing a woman can do, then helping her to deny her own biological reality helps nobody in the long run, far better to treat her mental health issues properly than to validate her delusion.

Dineasair · 28/04/2024 12:56

GoldenTrout · 28/04/2024 09:24

Seems to me another bit of pointless posturing by Atkins. Face it, chestfeeding is never going to catch on.as normal terminology.

Jesus! Words fail me. That doesn’t matter, it needs to be called out as an outrageously selfish and dangerous thing to do because it is a potentially harmful experiment on infants and it need to be banned.

Dineasair · 28/04/2024 12:59

Otterly2 · 28/04/2024 08:55

If they think that they are men then why are they having babies FFS?

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I know, the most female thing any woman can do ffs. If a calling her a woman is so dangerous for her then why the hell did she get pregnant in the first place? Pandering to this is what brought us to where we are.

Dineasair · 28/04/2024 13:07

GoldenTrout · 28/04/2024 09:26

Pity she's so incompetent as a minister, though.

As TRA posts on these boards go, this ones particularly transparent 🤣

JellySaurus · 28/04/2024 13:09

Health care services should not be limited in ways that make them less accessible to any category of person.

Woman-erasing language makes healthcare less accessible to a huge proportion of the category of person which is 'woman'.

If a woman wants to be related to as anything other than a woman, of course the same healthcare should be available to her as to all women, unjudgementally, in language that she understands and can relate to.

This is our business. Erasing women harms all women - including those who believe themselves not to be women.

And for the avoidance of all doubt, woman = adult human female.

OpusGiemuJavlo · 28/04/2024 13:58

@Dineasair "treating her mental issues properly" will take years, possibly decades and the waiting lists for mental health services are enormous. If you'd rather not help a new mum to get her baby latching on and suckling because of your idealogical objection to avoiding the word "breast" which will traumatise and upset her then you would be exceptionally unethical and shouldn't have that job.

It's not a "slippery slope" to help all women, even the delusional ones who think they are men. Feminism that excludes males because they aren't female is perfectly reasonable but feminism that excludes females for any reason (including that they are delusional) is not.

Topofthemountain · 28/04/2024 13:58

I feel so sad about where Coppafeel has ended up. They were an amazing support for a young colleague who had breast cancer and sadly passed away. They've lost their vision here in the pursuit of #inclusivity and #bekind.

OpusGiemuJavlo · 28/04/2024 14:02

@JellySaurus I was very clear that for everyone other than females who want to identify out of womanhood, language should be clear, unambiguous and use sex specific words without erasing real womanhood.

The number of women who need sex-neutral language is tiny but it is a genuine need, so language that a transman can relate to certainly shouldn't be the default but should br available when needed.

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FannyCann · 28/04/2024 15:04

It's not a "slippery slope" to help all women, even the delusional ones who think they are men. Feminism that excludes males because they aren't female is perfectly reasonable but feminism that excludes females for any reason (including that they are delusional) is not.

It is actually a slippery slope to harming all women who might want to breastfeed at some point in their lives, especially those who have gender confusion.

Widespread use of the words "chest feeding" means less exposure to the concept of breastfeeding. This is likely to further reduce breastfeeding rates, with both women and their male partners finding the whole concept alien.

It feeds into the euphemistic use of the phrase "top surgery" with these women being completely ignorant (in some cases) of the fact that they are signing up to a bilateral mastectomy and loss of the ability to feed their baby should they have one in the future.

Freddy McConnell, the "seahorse dad" who failed to persuade the courts to allow her to be listed as the father of the babies she has given birth to on their birth certificates, is in record as being surprised that she didn't produce any breastmilk and sad that she could not breastfeed.

Yes I am using correct sex pronouns. It is simply not appropriate to do otherwise when discussing birth and breastfeeding.

It also helps men who want to dose themselves with a cocktail of drugs and "feed" a baby the resulting exudate to co-opt breastfeeding for themselves. Because funnily enough when it comes to men, actual MEN, "feeding" a baby, suddenly they are more than happy to discuss their breasts and claim that they are breastfeeding.

Maternal and child health are too important and there is no kindness in polluting language so that no one knows what sex a person feeding their baby is or how they are doing it.

Otterly2 · 28/04/2024 15:43

It also helps men who want to dose themselves with a cocktail of drugs and "feed" a baby the resulting exudate to co-opt breastfeeding for themselves. Because funnily enough when it comes to men, actual MEN, "feeding" a baby, suddenly they are more than happy to discuss their breasts and claim that they are breastfeeding

Yes this is exactly right.

grievancegerbil43 · 28/04/2024 15:50

There's a real lack of critical thinking in the Coppafeel camp - this article is the most recent thing they have posted on Twitter, and it talks about a breast cancer charity encouraging people to check their chests. FFS

https://www.creativebrief.com/bite/fuel-your-imagination/coppafeel-brand-refresh-aims-to-reach-a-new-generation/

CoppaFeel brand refresh aims to reach a new generation | Creativebrief

The charity has worked with Livity to encourage young people to check their chest.

https://www.creativebrief.com/bite/fuel-your-imagination/coppafeel-brand-refresh-aims-to-reach-a-new-generation/

OpusGiemuJavlo · 28/04/2024 16:08

Sex-neuttal language does nothing to benefit transwomen - as you say if a male is fetishising the concept of himself with breasts then he doesn't want it anyway. It helps the women whose belief system you don't share. Plurality of beliefs is ok.

A health worker whose job is to support lactation and help new mums to breastfeed cannot be expected to dispell all the power of Stonewall, resolve the internalised misogyny and homophobia in the young woman in front of her, and enable her to accept herself as female. That worker can either use sex-neutral language and thus be able to help the woman and her baby to breastfeed successfully, or can insist on accurate sexed words that are so abhorent to the patient that she rejects the help on offer to the detriment of her own health and the health of her baby.

And if any of you really can't understand that I am not supporting this as something to be forced on all women, just for the tiny number that need it, and not for any men whatsoever, you must be really hard of thinking.

StarlightLime · 28/04/2024 16:24

insist on accurate sexed words that are so abhorent to the patient that she rejects the help on offer to the detriment of her own health and the health of her baby
Does this really happen? I mean, this hypothetical woman has just given birth and is about to breastfeed (whatever the word used to describe the process).
Will she really implode at the use of the word "breast"? I get that they want the language changed to that of their choice, (of course they bloody do) but I doubt the repercussions of not doing so are at all as extreme as is touted.
Compare it with the distress of women having to collude with this and find themselves in the farcical situation of not being allowed to talk about breastfeeding with an actual breastfeeding counsellor; why should the 1% (or less) be accommodated at the expense of the vast majority?

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