There are indeed two sides. But please stop trying to pretend there are two roughly equivalent sides on this issue. (I was going to say ‘this debate’, but the trans side has spent years demanding that there be ‘no debate’.)
The TRAs send death threats, bully people out of their jobs and livelihoods, intimidate venues into cancelling women’s bookings, bring crowds to scream at women speaking, demand ‘rights’ that negate women’s human rights, and pour out a constant, endless stream of vitriolic abuse. Etc etc etc
Gender realists and feminists say ‘We need to talk about this’ and ‘children should not be sterilised’ and ‘confused teenage girls should be allowed counselling before having elective mastectomies’. Etc.
Not two equivalent sides in a debate.