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I think most of us here use pronouns to describe sex, not gender. We can't be misgendering if we are not even talking about someone's gender. Why should we be punished for continuing to use the language that we always have, just because some people have decided to attribute different meanings to those words?
If a group of people suddenly decide that the word shoe actually now means hat, the people that say someone is wearing a hat on their head can't be in the wrong for not saying that someone has a shoe on their head. The shoe believers may really, really want people to call it a shoe, and think that they are being attacked if people say hat but that doesn't amount to harassment.
In FWR (and the wider world) the vast majority are hat people and you are making us say shoe. Let the shoe people say shoe on their sites and let us be truthful.
The word shoe now looks so wrong as I have written it so many times .