Hi all - we're happy to clarify a few things. When we introduced the guidelines, the aim was always to strike a sensible balance between freedom of expression and hosting discussions where folks with differing views would feel comfortable taking part. Deliberately misgendering, especially if done so as a personal attack will pretty much always be deleted when reported, as it's just not in keeping with those aims. We're not out to punish anyone and we really don't think there's anything to be gained by being overly prescriptive either. If your use of language is necessary to illustrate your point then it's much less likely to be in breach of our guidelines. As with everything, we look in context and on a case-by-case basis.
It's always fine to get in touch with us if you have any questions about our moderation - [email protected]