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Starmer furious that Sunak should mention his definition of ‘woman’

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HagoftheNorth · 07/02/2024 15:11

PMQ’s today, Sunak highlighted Starmer’s famous comments that some women have a penis. Starmer was furious that Sunak should make that comment while Mrs Ghey was in the chamber. Surely Starmer should realise that it is possible to be respectful and compassionate about trans people without parroting the insane lie that transwomen are women (because ‘woman’ is sex not gender)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

Rishi Sunak

Rishi Sunak faces calls to apologise over trans jibe to Starmer at PMQs

The PM ridiculed Sir Keir Starmer's "definition of a woman" as Brianna Ghey's mother was visiting Parliament.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

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Louloulouenna · 07/02/2024 21:33

Agree, it’s irrelevant.

NotBadConsidering · 07/02/2024 21:34

The only reason it’s remotely controversial is because society has been recently conditioned that it’s apparently offensive to point out the realities of sex in front of trans people. If it was normal to point out this reality, it wouldn’t be offensive to anyone, let alone a bereaved relative of someone.

EasternStandard · 07/02/2024 21:35

PurpleSparkledPixie · 07/02/2024 21:33

Wait...what?

“I think I counted almost 30 in the last year: pensions, planning, peerages, public sector pay, tuition fees, childcare, second referendums, defining a woman – although in fairness that was only 99% of a U-turn. The list goes on but the theme is the same. It’s empty words, broken promises and absolutely no plan.”

That is the comment that set this all off?? Good grief.

I know. And a person in a building

Madness

ResisterRex · 07/02/2024 21:35

IcakethereforeIam · 07/02/2024 21:11

Brendan O'Neill has weighed in

https://www.spiked-online.com/2024/02/07/no-rishi-sunak-should-not-apologise-for-his-trans-jibe/

I doubt I'd agree with Brendan over much but I do over this

This country fought for centuries to liberate the Commons from the unaccountable oversight of princes and priests. For the new priestly elites of the 21st century to use the grief of a mother in order to chill debate in that chamber turns back the clock. It is cynical in the extreme. It is their behaviour – not Sunak’s – that deserves the descriptor of ‘grim’.

He's right.

Teddleshon · 07/02/2024 21:36

@NotBadConsidering 100% and too bad how actual women feel about it.

IClaudine · 07/02/2024 21:37

Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 21:32

But this is irrelevant to womens rights.

It is not irrelevant to the fact that Sunak completely disregarded and disrespected the prescence of a bereaved women who has been through a horrible ordeal in order to utter a shitty soundbite. Starmer was absolutely right to call him out for it.

Esther Ghey has shown more dignity and courage than Sunak could show in several lifetimes.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 21:37

PurpleSparkledPixie · 07/02/2024 21:33

Wait...what?

“I think I counted almost 30 in the last year: pensions, planning, peerages, public sector pay, tuition fees, childcare, second referendums, defining a woman – although in fairness that was only 99% of a U-turn. The list goes on but the theme is the same. It’s empty words, broken promises and absolutely no plan.”

That is the comment that set this all off?? Good grief.

Yes it was Starmer who brought a murdered child up.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 21:38

IClaudine · 07/02/2024 21:37

It is not irrelevant to the fact that Sunak completely disregarded and disrespected the prescence of a bereaved women who has been through a horrible ordeal in order to utter a shitty soundbite. Starmer was absolutely right to call him out for it.

Esther Ghey has shown more dignity and courage than Sunak could show in several lifetimes.

But it was Starmer who did that.

Not Sunak.

IClaudine · 07/02/2024 21:42

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 21:38

But it was Starmer who did that.

Not Sunak.

How many times does it need saying. Starmer initially mentioned Brianna and Esther Ghey BEFORE Sunak made his nasty quip.

Link to Hansard:

https://hansard.parliament.uk/Commons/2024-02-07/debates/832BA7AA-E049-4C3F-98FD-1B677B32A7F7/Engagements

Starmer is not the villian here. He didn't mention Brianna and her mother out of nowhere.

I give up.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 21:45

IClaudine · 07/02/2024 21:42

How many times does it need saying. Starmer initially mentioned Brianna and Esther Ghey BEFORE Sunak made his nasty quip.

Link to Hansard:

https://hansard.parliament.uk/Commons/2024-02-07/debates/832BA7AA-E049-4C3F-98FD-1B677B32A7F7/Engagements

Starmer is not the villian here. He didn't mention Brianna and her mother out of nowhere.

I give up.

Edited

Right, then at PMQ the prime minister listed broken promises over several policies that Sunak believes Starmer has made relating to a range of issues one being the definition of women. The issue that Sunak raised accurately reflects what Starmer has said about this.

Is he supposed to not use PMQ in the manner intended because of a person being in the chamber?

I doubt very much that anyone would have reacted to this in any way had Starmer not used Brianna's murder to avoid answering questions.

Vile behaviour by the leader of the opposition.

ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 07/02/2024 21:46

"The offencerati are collapsing on their fainting couches."

Brendan O'Neill sums it all up.

snowbird21 · 07/02/2024 21:46

When can the issue be raised? PMQs is the place for this. I feel it's one of the most important issues of this time and it will influence my vote.

The murder was horrific no excuse.

DuesToTheDirt · 07/02/2024 21:53

Teddleshon · 07/02/2024 21:22

@RoyalCorgi also completely agree, it was Starmer who brought Brianna Ghey into it. A very low thing to do.

I have a feeling that Brianna will be mentioned as a gotcha in many future discussions of trans issues, in completely irrelevant contexts. "But look what happened to Brianna!" "Remember Brianna!" etc. Yes, it was obviously a horrendous murder, but that does not mean that Brianna's name should be used to shut down debate.

As an aside, there were two knife murders of teenage boys in the news this week, one in Bristol and one in London. I didn't even know their names - they don't make such big news stories as sadly it's not unsual.

SidewaysOtter · 07/02/2024 21:57

FWIW, I don’t think Sunak said anything wrong. He was making a jibe about Starmer’s endless u-turns and making your political opponent look untrustworthy is PMQs 101. His comment was nothing to do with Ghey.

The bottom line is also that Ghey was not female, regardless of how they presented or thought of themself.

But it was crap timing and this will absolutely be weaponised by Labour and the TRAs. Sunak has handed them that because the nuance of what was actually said will be lost in the screamed accusations of “transphobia”.

BIossomtoes · 07/02/2024 22:00

Right, then at PMQ the prime minister listed broken promises over several policies that Sunak believes Starmer has made relating to a range of issues one being the definition of women. The issue that Sunak raised accurately reflects what Starmer has said about this.

Is he supposed to not use PMQ in the manner intended because of a person being in the chamber?

The leader of the opposition is in no position to break promises about policies. He’s not in government and unable to implement any policy. He can change his mind every other week if he wishes until the next manifesto is published before a general election.

The point of PMQ is what it says on the tin - for the PM to answer questions from the opposition about his party’s performance. Sunak - and you - clearly misunderstood its purpose and the role of the opposition. I guess Sunak’s practising for the day in the not too distant future when he’s sitting on the opposite side of the chamber.

Louloulouenna · 07/02/2024 22:01

@SidewaysOtter Im just not sure the TRA’s will take most of the country with them on this one. Agree though it’s a marvellous way to try and shut down debate from their perspective.

literalviolence · 07/02/2024 22:01

Are people suggesting that to respect a grieving mother, we have to pretend that their child had changed sex? or is it more a case of this could be mentioned any other day than the day that the grieving mother was very nearby?

ScrollingLeaves · 07/02/2024 22:02

Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 19:44

Womens rights are about women not trans men. Can we not define women ever without centreing men? Its not about trans. Transmen are women too.

Yes. On PM today E D brought this up.

Afterwards he went on to speak to a guest (male) MP who had spoken to Parliament about his own suicide and recovery.

But then, after talking about suicide, E, apparently wanting more to say about Rishi, then announced that the guest had often spoken about Trans issues.. what did he think of this?

His answer was based on the idea of the needlessness and harmfulness of this debate over such a vulnerable group of people who make up such a tiny proportion of society. That was the final word.

To myself I was so angry and wanted to turn off the radio.. no it is not about a tiny minority of society, it is about 50%of it, (and more if you include both sexes of children), being affected by the appropriations and manipulations of TRAs in regard this tiny minority.

Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 22:03

They are saying you can't mention the definition of woman because it would invalidate the girl hood. Because that was keirs first thought. I highly doubt it even offended the parents until he started using this as a shield.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 22:03

BIossomtoes · 07/02/2024 22:00

Right, then at PMQ the prime minister listed broken promises over several policies that Sunak believes Starmer has made relating to a range of issues one being the definition of women. The issue that Sunak raised accurately reflects what Starmer has said about this.

Is he supposed to not use PMQ in the manner intended because of a person being in the chamber?

The leader of the opposition is in no position to break promises about policies. He’s not in government and unable to implement any policy. He can change his mind every other week if he wishes until the next manifesto is published before a general election.

The point of PMQ is what it says on the tin - for the PM to answer questions from the opposition about his party’s performance. Sunak - and you - clearly misunderstood its purpose and the role of the opposition. I guess Sunak’s practising for the day in the not too distant future when he’s sitting on the opposite side of the chamber.

LOL.

Completely avoids the salient point that it is Starmer that has politicised the murder of a child not Sunak, but if it made you feel better! ? : S

literalviolence · 07/02/2024 22:05

Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 22:03

They are saying you can't mention the definition of woman because it would invalidate the girl hood. Because that was keirs first thought. I highly doubt it even offended the parents until he started using this as a shield.

As in - you can't ever mention the reality of the situation regarding transwomen (aka, they're male: TW not women)? Or just today?

SidewaysOtter · 07/02/2024 22:06

Louloulouenna · 07/02/2024 22:01

@SidewaysOtter Im just not sure the TRA’s will take most of the country with them on this one. Agree though it’s a marvellous way to try and shut down debate from their perspective.

They may well not but it doesn’t help to hand people a stick with which to beat you. And a lot of people won’t listen to what was actually said, they’ll just see the “Sunak makes transphobic comment” in the Graun - for those of a “Be Kind” persuasion but who might have been thinking that the GC viewpoint has its merits, this just sends them scuttling back to the safety of The Right Side of History.

duc748 · 07/02/2024 22:14

To myself I was so angry and wanted to turn off the radio.. no it is not about a tiny minority of society, it is about 50% of it, (and more if you include both sexes of children), being affected by the appropriations and manipulations of TRAs in regard this tiny minority.

Yes. And that's 'most' people. Isn't that enough? I fear for the grand-children of my generation. In the most difficult times, how they are being failed.

BIossomtoes · 07/02/2024 22:14

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 22:03

LOL.

Completely avoids the salient point that it is Starmer that has politicised the murder of a child not Sunak, but if it made you feel better! ? : S

It was responding to the point you made so you avoided it too. Maybe don’t say something if you object to a perfectly valid response.

EasternStandard · 07/02/2024 22:17

duc748 · 07/02/2024 22:14

To myself I was so angry and wanted to turn off the radio.. no it is not about a tiny minority of society, it is about 50% of it, (and more if you include both sexes of children), being affected by the appropriations and manipulations of TRAs in regard this tiny minority.

Yes. And that's 'most' people. Isn't that enough? I fear for the grand-children of my generation. In the most difficult times, how they are being failed.

To myself I was so angry and wanted to turn off the radio.. no it is not about a tiny minority of society, it is about 50% of it, (and more if you include both sexes of children), being affected by the appropriations and manipulations of TRAs in regard this tiny minority.

Yes exactly

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