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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Starmer furious that Sunak should mention his definition of ‘woman’

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HagoftheNorth · 07/02/2024 15:11

PMQ’s today, Sunak highlighted Starmer’s famous comments that some women have a penis. Starmer was furious that Sunak should make that comment while Mrs Ghey was in the chamber. Surely Starmer should realise that it is possible to be respectful and compassionate about trans people without parroting the insane lie that transwomen are women (because ‘woman’ is sex not gender)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

Rishi Sunak

Rishi Sunak faces calls to apologise over trans jibe to Starmer at PMQs

The PM ridiculed Sir Keir Starmer's "definition of a woman" as Brianna Ghey's mother was visiting Parliament.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

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EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 09:30

AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 09:28

Completely irrelevant to your point about "pushing changing legal sex"

Not an answer

And yes society is geared towards gender ideology in law via the GRA

Which is why we’re in this mess

We should be directed away from falsifying information to acceptance in each sex class of all males

ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 09/02/2024 09:30

Over 8,000 have been issued with a GRC, 400 in the last quarter.

6,000 was the number of total GRC estimated to be issued ever.

We have no idea who is protected under GR, and who is using wrong sex identification.

WickedSerious · 09/02/2024 09:31

'Aligned with Putin'.🙄

IClaudine · 09/02/2024 09:31

EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 09:28

@IClaudine

If you’re not just evading because it’s hard here you go

Do you think it should be across the board out of interest? A rape victim needs to use ‘she’?

No I not evading, I did not see the question as I hid the thread for a while

No woman (or man) should be forced to refer to their rapist as "she". Only men can commit rape.

Flamme · 09/02/2024 09:31

oldwomanwhoruns · 09/02/2024 09:24

One man in our spaces is one too many. You can keep your 'oh it's just a few' argument.

It depends what you mean by "our spaces". Open changing rooms, yes. Ladies' loos with cubicles - the reality is that most of us will neither know nor care if the person in one of the other cubicles is trans. In fact it's virtually inevitable that we've all had that experience without knowing it or being harmed in any way.

AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 09:31

EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 09:28

@IClaudine

If you’re not just evading because it’s hard here you go

Do you think it should be across the board out of interest? A rape victim needs to use ‘she’?

This is where "emotional intelligence" is a useful tool.

It is possible to recognise that accurate gendering is important in some circumstances (e.g. rape victim describing their trans rapist) and inappropriate in others (e.g. describing a murdered child).

EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 09:32

I honestly don’t know why women are arguing for males in single sex spaces at all

Is it overriding loyalty to Labour. It’s crazy to me women are arguing for it.

BackToLurk · 09/02/2024 09:32

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Well that's quite the leap. Should trans people be murdered? No? Should male people compete in female sport? Also no. Not in conflict.

See also. I don't think that bishops should have an automatic place in the HoL. Neither do I think that bishops should be murdered. Nuanced thinking is also available to you. Give it a go.

Veronicaisaflower · 09/02/2024 09:33

HagoftheNorth · 09/02/2024 09:27

Veronica, what is it that all transwomen have in common with all women, but no men?

This is not supposed to be a gotcha - I genuinely don’t understand, and it would really help if someone could explain

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Why do you need it explaining? Genuinely, why? What do all women have in common? They were born and they will die. That's it. Stop reducing women to their biological functions - it's exactly what the patriarchy has always done, and you're running the patriarchy's errand here. Women are not walking vaginas.

BackToLurk · 09/02/2024 09:35

Veronicaisaflower · 09/02/2024 09:33

Why do you need it explaining? Genuinely, why? What do all women have in common? They were born and they will die. That's it. Stop reducing women to their biological functions - it's exactly what the patriarchy has always done, and you're running the patriarchy's errand here. Women are not walking vaginas.

"Describing something by" is not "reducing to". Try again

HagoftheNorth · 09/02/2024 09:36

No we’re absolutely not walking vaginas!

we do, as a sex class follow a biologically defined developmental pathway which is starkly different from the male developmental pathway. That’s what’s obvious, sorry, any commonality with transwomen not obvious. Try explaining?

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lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2024 09:36

AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 09:26

Your belief isn't relevant to the law unfortunately. I thought you would know that as a solicitor.

A lot of abusive men don't recognise their stalking/harassment as such, they think its justified. It is then up to the police to investigate and decide. Same as this.

Unfortunately abusive males will misuse the law to persecute women. But the harassment law is a good thing for women overall.

Being an ex-practicing solicitor has no bearing of my observation that the police has been overreaching by arresting women for correctly sexing.

it is interesting that they have preferred to do that rather than question the males who have been harassing women with death and rape threats.

None of these women have been prosecuted afaik.

Lemonlemonlemonapple · 09/02/2024 09:36

EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 09:25

True

Why can’t women retain single sex spaces

For our dignity, safety and privacy plus fairness in sports

There never have been “single sex” spaces in the way that some people here want, and there never will be, because people like this exist: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Z4xG0UwBWeY. Dividing spaces as some GC people want would never be feasible.

Before you continue to YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Z4xG0UwBWeY

Giggorata · 09/02/2024 09:38

No, humans all have that in common, that they were born and will die.

Adult human females also have their biological characteristics in common.

Males do not, even if they pretend.

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2024 09:39

Veronicaisaflower · 09/02/2024 09:20

Unhinged is as unhinged does. I'm a feminist, and always have been. But we don't make society fairer for women by vilifying trans people; they are two completely separate issues. You are in the grip of a bizarre hysteria, and you only have to look at the people you align yourself with (Putin and 30p Lee among them!) to see how truly bizarre it is. The vast majority of transphobes are also deeply, unashamedly misogynist. But you embrace them regardless, just because they share your hatred of trans people.

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Oh Veronica, the insults and hyperbole don't help your cause.

But allowing males into single sex spaces and sports really isn't any form of feminist position.

WickedSerious · 09/02/2024 09:40

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2024 09:39

Oh Veronica, the insults and hyperbole don't help your cause.

But allowing males into single sex spaces and sports really isn't any form of feminist position.

It's ever so kind though.

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2024 09:40

No woman (or man) should be forced to refer to their rapist as "she". Only men can commit rape.Edited

So you mean that some trans women are good (should be treated as women) and other trans women are bad - in this case rapists (should be treated as men)?

How does that work? Where is the line drawn?

BIossomtoes · 09/02/2024 09:41

EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 09:32

I honestly don’t know why women are arguing for males in single sex spaces at all

Is it overriding loyalty to Labour. It’s crazy to me women are arguing for it.

I don’t argue for it. I just don’t care. Like @Flamme if I’m in an enclosed cubicle it’s a matter of supreme indifference to me who’s in the next one. I don’t spend enough time there for it to matter - or even for me to notice.

HagoftheNorth · 09/02/2024 09:43

Lemon, I haven’t opened the link, but I guess you are once again dragging in people with DSD’s. They’ve specifically asked you to stop. Please desist, very few transpeople have DSD

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EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 09:43

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2024 09:40

No woman (or man) should be forced to refer to their rapist as "she". Only men can commit rape.Edited

So you mean that some trans women are good (should be treated as women) and other trans women are bad - in this case rapists (should be treated as men)?

How does that work? Where is the line drawn?

Agree. Do they have to be guilty? How does that work pre jury outcome

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2024 09:45

BIossomtoes · 09/02/2024 09:41

I don’t argue for it. I just don’t care. Like @Flamme if I’m in an enclosed cubicle it’s a matter of supreme indifference to me who’s in the next one. I don’t spend enough time there for it to matter - or even for me to notice.

I think if the argument is reduced to toilets a lot of women would agree.

This is not about toilets though, it's:

Women's prisons
Rape Crisis Centres
Sports
Refuges
School residentials (especially in teenage years)
Changing rooms and open showers
Women's prizes
Scholarships reserved for women

This is a non exhaustive list.....

Lemonlemonlemonapple · 09/02/2024 09:46

HagoftheNorth · 09/02/2024 09:43

Lemon, I haven’t opened the link, but I guess you are once again dragging in people with DSD’s. They’ve specifically asked you to stop. Please desist, very few transpeople have DSD

The person isn’t asking anyone to stop anything, and it’s not about trans people. I was talking about what’s realistic in terms of spaces. You’re speaking for an intersex person without even seeing what they have to say. I haven’t spoken for them; I’ve provided a link to what they themselves are saying.

IClaudine · 09/02/2024 09:46

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2024 09:40

No woman (or man) should be forced to refer to their rapist as "she". Only men can commit rape.Edited

So you mean that some trans women are good (should be treated as women) and other trans women are bad - in this case rapists (should be treated as men)?

How does that work? Where is the line drawn?

@AdamRyan answered this and I agree:

This is where "emotional intelligence" is a useful tool.

It is possible to recognise that accurate gendering is important in some circumstances (e.g. rape victim describing their trans rapist) and inappropriate in others (e.g. describing a murdered child).

HagoftheNorth · 09/02/2024 09:47

Is it a lack of emotional intelligence if you can’t imagine how mixed-sex toilets might affect SA survivors?

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EasternStandard · 09/02/2024 09:49

IClaudine · 09/02/2024 09:46

@AdamRyan answered this and I agree:

This is where "emotional intelligence" is a useful tool.

It is possible to recognise that accurate gendering is important in some circumstances (e.g. rape victim describing their trans rapist) and inappropriate in others (e.g. describing a murdered child).

So a male presenting as a woman on trial is ‘he’

And If the outcome is not guilty? Is it all on trial or just the criminals

And with a legal document stating he’s a female - why can you override it there. Does he use all male facilities too?

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