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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Starmer furious that Sunak should mention his definition of ‘woman’

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HagoftheNorth · 07/02/2024 15:11

PMQ’s today, Sunak highlighted Starmer’s famous comments that some women have a penis. Starmer was furious that Sunak should make that comment while Mrs Ghey was in the chamber. Surely Starmer should realise that it is possible to be respectful and compassionate about trans people without parroting the insane lie that transwomen are women (because ‘woman’ is sex not gender)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

Rishi Sunak

Rishi Sunak faces calls to apologise over trans jibe to Starmer at PMQs

The PM ridiculed Sir Keir Starmer's "definition of a woman" as Brianna Ghey's mother was visiting Parliament.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

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duc748 · 07/02/2024 22:18

Me, I'm quite happy in the 'neither of them come out of it with much credit' camp. But some posters seem to be searching for a hero harder than Bonnie Tyler! 😄

GuinnessBird · 07/02/2024 22:20

You may agree with Sunak's ideology, you may disagree with it.

But we can all agree that he's just awful at politics.

Always such bad optics, every time.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 22:26

BIossomtoes · 07/02/2024 22:14

It was responding to the point you made so you avoided it too. Maybe don’t say something if you object to a perfectly valid response.

Blossomtoes have you watched PMQ or just the little snippet that was linked earlier?

You clearly have no idea how PMQ works, it's rather like a pantomine. I don't like it much. Too much heckling but lots of accusations thrown BOTH ways. The opposition starts questions then the PM makes rebuttals.

None of that takes away from the fact that Starmer is the one who has used Brianna's murder to silence debate.

BIossomtoes · 07/02/2024 22:29

I know exactly how PMQ should work - and used to when we had grown ups in government.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 22:33

Oh come on it's perfectly reasonable and usual for the PM to heckle the leader of the opposition as well.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 22:34

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 22:33

Oh come on it's perfectly reasonable and usual for the PM to heckle the leader of the opposition as well.

Agree.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 22:34

Your version of PMQs bears no resemblance to any I've ever seen. Of course the PM bites back.

EasternStandard · 07/02/2024 22:35

Starmer tries to make jokes and carries on just as much

Clafoutie · 07/02/2024 22:35

LSTMS30555 · 07/02/2024 15:19

I've just came on to say exactly this!
Glad someone's started a thread about it.
Yes of course we can feel absolute sympathy for the family & the way those 2 brutally killed but the facts remain the same women are women, men are men, girls are girls, boys are boys.
I'm sorry but putting on some makeup, a skirt & heels doesn't make you a girl.
I'm glad rishi didn't back down.

Yes but they could have that debate when Brianna’s mother isn’t sitting in the public gallery. Wasn’t that the issue?

LizzieSiddal · 07/02/2024 22:40

I doubt very much that anyone would have reacted to this in any way had Starmer not used Brianna's murder to avoid answering questions.

Are people on these boards really so
ignorant? Starmer isn’t there to answer any questions. It’s his role to ask the PM questions and for the PM to answer them. Sunak NEVER answers a question, he’s the one doing the avoiding by attacking Labour.
And has used the “Starmer doesn’t know what a woman” is about every other week!

Also how anyone can say it’s appropriate to talk about the definition of a woman, when you’ve just been told the mother of a murdered trans teenager is in the vicinity, is sickening. I’ve just listened to R4 and even the Sun newspaper reporter said dispite the vast majority of the public agreeing we must talk about women’s rights in the light of Trans rights, doing so when you know Brianna’s mother is there, is not a decent thing to do. If The Sun is having a go at Sunak he’s well and truly jumped the shark.

BIossomtoes · 07/02/2024 22:43

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 22:34

Your version of PMQs bears no resemblance to any I've ever seen. Of course the PM bites back.

That’s probably because you’re too young to have seen it done in the way it’s intended. There was a time when we had grown up MPs with some gravitas, not buffoons trading cheap gibes.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 22:43

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 22:33

Oh come on it's perfectly reasonable and usual for the PM to heckle the leader of the opposition as well.

Yes it is. It annoys me a bit because I think both sides gloss over important points too much in a bid to dig at the other rather than actually explain their positions. BUT the format has been that way for as long as I can remember. Both sides heckle each other.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 22:46

LizzieSiddal · 07/02/2024 22:40

I doubt very much that anyone would have reacted to this in any way had Starmer not used Brianna's murder to avoid answering questions.

Are people on these boards really so
ignorant? Starmer isn’t there to answer any questions. It’s his role to ask the PM questions and for the PM to answer them. Sunak NEVER answers a question, he’s the one doing the avoiding by attacking Labour.
And has used the “Starmer doesn’t know what a woman” is about every other week!

Also how anyone can say it’s appropriate to talk about the definition of a woman, when you’ve just been told the mother of a murdered trans teenager is in the vicinity, is sickening. I’ve just listened to R4 and even the Sun newspaper reporter said dispite the vast majority of the public agreeing we must talk about women’s rights in the light of Trans rights, doing so when you know Brianna’s mother is there, is not a decent thing to do. If The Sun is having a go at Sunak he’s well and truly jumped the shark.

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Answering questions was perhaps the wrong turn of phrase.

Is to silence debate better?

PMQ starts of by asking questions of the Prime Minister but ends up with a debate with heckling from both sides.

Either way it was Starmer who used a child's murder to stifle debate not Sunak.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 07/02/2024 22:51

SidewaysOtter · 07/02/2024 21:57

FWIW, I don’t think Sunak said anything wrong. He was making a jibe about Starmer’s endless u-turns and making your political opponent look untrustworthy is PMQs 101. His comment was nothing to do with Ghey.

The bottom line is also that Ghey was not female, regardless of how they presented or thought of themself.

But it was crap timing and this will absolutely be weaponised by Labour and the TRAs. Sunak has handed them that because the nuance of what was actually said will be lost in the screamed accusations of “transphobia”.

This

Workhardcryharder · 07/02/2024 22:51

Her daughter was brutally murdered for no reason, I highly doubt she gives a shit about some perceived “transphobia”. She’s got bigger things plaguing her mind I imagine. Poor woman

LizzieSiddal · 07/02/2024 22:52

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 22:46

Answering questions was perhaps the wrong turn of phrase.

Is to silence debate better?

PMQ starts of by asking questions of the Prime Minister but ends up with a debate with heckling from both sides.

Either way it was Starmer who used a child's murder to stifle debate not Sunak.

Have you ever watched PMQs from start to finish? It’s not a debate at all! A debate entails both people being able to speak, back and forth. PMQs is a series of questions being put to the Pm. He’s supposed to answer the question but never does, he waffles on about what a fantastic job he thinks his goverment have done then sits down.

And Starmer wasn’t silencing debate, he was pointing out that as he’d just mentioned that the mother of a murdered teenager was in the house, it was despicable of the PM to make that jibe at Starmer.

BIossomtoes · 07/02/2024 22:53

Either way it was Starmer who used a child's murder to stifle debate not Sunak.

The bulk of public opinion disagrees with you. They had to close the comments on this on The Telegraph website (of all places) because Sunak was getting such a pasting.

LizzieSiddal · 07/02/2024 22:56

BIossomtoes · 07/02/2024 22:53

Either way it was Starmer who used a child's murder to stifle debate not Sunak.

The bulk of public opinion disagrees with you. They had to close the comments on this on The Telegraph website (of all places) because Sunak was getting such a pasting.

Agree with you. As I said above I’ve just heard a Sun journalist on R4 stating Starmer was completely out of order. So the two most right wing and Government supporting newspapers in the country disagree with the view that all this is Starmer’s fault.
I’m as GC as they come and have been for years, but Sunak’s comment was despicable today.

WishIMite · 07/02/2024 22:56

Starmer was right to intervene - honestly, it was basic manners for anyone to do so at that point.

Sunak’s comments were deeply inappropriate. The arguments on here saying otherwise show that people don’t understand what PMQ stands for. It certainly isn’t to hold Starmer to account.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 23:00

LizzieSiddal · 07/02/2024 22:52

Have you ever watched PMQs from start to finish? It’s not a debate at all! A debate entails both people being able to speak, back and forth. PMQs is a series of questions being put to the Pm. He’s supposed to answer the question but never does, he waffles on about what a fantastic job he thinks his goverment have done then sits down.

And Starmer wasn’t silencing debate, he was pointing out that as he’d just mentioned that the mother of a murdered teenager was in the house, it was despicable of the PM to make that jibe at Starmer.

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Yes I watched today. Heckling from both sides as usual 👍

I think it’s a shame that people have been manipulated to believe that some topics/ women’s right should be off limits in the HoC. The only person who politicised a child’s murder and even raised it was Starmer.

Flickersy · 07/02/2024 23:03

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 23:00

Yes I watched today. Heckling from both sides as usual 👍

I think it’s a shame that people have been manipulated to believe that some topics/ women’s right should be off limits in the HoC. The only person who politicised a child’s murder and even raised it was Starmer.

The topic isn't off limits.

Insensitive point-scoring when a bereaved mother happens to be in the vicinity is.

ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 07/02/2024 23:04

LizzieSiddal · 07/02/2024 22:56

Agree with you. As I said above I’ve just heard a Sun journalist on R4 stating Starmer was completely out of order. So the two most right wing and Government supporting newspapers in the country disagree with the view that all this is Starmer’s fault.
I’m as GC as they come and have been for years, but Sunak’s comment was despicable today.

Public opinion isnt btl comments and journalists views.

Half the problems we have are because politicians take too much notice about social media comments and journalists.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 23:05

Flickersy · 07/02/2024 23:03

The topic isn't off limits.

Insensitive point-scoring when a bereaved mother happens to be in the vicinity is.

Agree shame on Starmer for doing that .

determinedtomakethiswork · 07/02/2024 23:05

Was there a reason why Brianna's mum was there today?

WishIMite · 07/02/2024 23:08

determinedtomakethiswork · 07/02/2024 23:05

Was there a reason why Brianna's mum was there today?

Sunak wanted to meet with her. She’s campaigning for social media controls etc.

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