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Starmer furious that Sunak should mention his definition of ‘woman’

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HagoftheNorth · 07/02/2024 15:11

PMQ’s today, Sunak highlighted Starmer’s famous comments that some women have a penis. Starmer was furious that Sunak should make that comment while Mrs Ghey was in the chamber. Surely Starmer should realise that it is possible to be respectful and compassionate about trans people without parroting the insane lie that transwomen are women (because ‘woman’ is sex not gender)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

Rishi Sunak

Rishi Sunak faces calls to apologise over trans jibe to Starmer at PMQs

The PM ridiculed Sir Keir Starmer's "definition of a woman" as Brianna Ghey's mother was visiting Parliament.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 20:54

It might have been a tactical error for Sunak to make the jibe today - not because it was offensive to Esther Ghey, who wasn't even in the chamber at the time, but precisely because he might have realised it would be used against him.

I do agree with this.

Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 20:55

So we come down to the nub of it. Sunak wasn't allowed to mention women at all because it offends tra's. Beyond basic decency to mention womens rights as a mother might hear.

It certainly is exposing the belief system of labour.

EasternStandard · 07/02/2024 20:55

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 20:53

Fairly sure deliberately misgendering individuals isn't usually allowed.

That's pronouns, not acknowledging obvious biological reality.

You can use correct pronouns on here though?

Not talking about a specific case but generally

PaperWalkAndTalk · 07/02/2024 20:56

It was naive of Sunak to make that reference today, and if he was a shrewd politician he wouldn't have done it.

So I'm not going to defend Sunak, but I am going to defend the right to call out a politician who is too scared to state biological fact.

DeeLusional · 07/02/2024 20:57

IncompleteSenten · 07/02/2024 15:24

I absolutely do not believe that men are women and vice versa but I do think that it was insensitive of him to use it as nothing more than cheap shots while the murdered teen's mother was sitting right there. He should not have done that.

Tbh, the sessions in the house of commons are a ridiculous pantomime and not how politicians should be conducting themselves. Jeering, cheering, waving papers and competing to see who can be the 'cleverest' is childish. Is respectful debate and discussion really so difficult?

Which "HE" do you mean was insensitive?

Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 20:58

Mn appear to have changed the rules just for bg. All other tw you are allowed to correctly sex (not misgender, that's what they are doing).

Literally every tw is referenced as he with no deletions for 2 years. But some moderators don't seem to understand womens rights or mumsnet rules. Most do.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 20:59

You can use correct pronouns on here though?

Not talking about a specific case but generally

You can only use correct sex pronouns for criminals, generally. It depends how closely a threat is being watched. You have always been able to talk about what biological sex someone is though. I once got a deletion reverted when I challenged over zealous moderation when I used someone's correct sex. It's a fact of life, not a polite nicety.

EasternStandard · 07/02/2024 21:01

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 20:59

You can use correct pronouns on here though?

Not talking about a specific case but generally

You can only use correct sex pronouns for criminals, generally. It depends how closely a threat is being watched. You have always been able to talk about what biological sex someone is though. I once got a deletion reverted when I challenged over zealous moderation when I used someone's correct sex. It's a fact of life, not a polite nicety.

I’m sure we’ve used he for sports?

I haven’t checked, maybe I should look. Also celebrities what about Dylan M?

Legoninjago1 · 07/02/2024 21:01

RoyalCorgi · 07/02/2024 20:47

Sunak laid bare his contempt for women, especially the mother of a murdered child & Starmer highlighted this & about bloody time too.

How did Sunak lay bare his contempt for women? How?

This is what he said:

“I think I counted almost 30 in the last year: pensions, planning, peerages, public sector pay, tuition fees, childcare, second referendums, defining a woman – although in fairness that was only 99% of a U-turn. The list goes on but the theme is the same. It’s empty words, broken promises and absolutely no plan.”

He made an amusing dig at Starmer. That's all. He doesn't mention Brianna Ghey. It's nothing to do with Brianna Ghey. Starmer is the one who brought Brianna Ghey into it and decided to make political capital out of Ghey's murder. I have even more contempt for the man than I did before.

And I'm a Labour voter, ffs.

Completely agree.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 21:02

It depends on who says it, who is watching the thread, and who is moderating. Some people get targeted more than others by reporting.

Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 21:02

Not just criminals.
Dylan m.
Suzie Izzard.
India w.

All always he on here.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 21:03

And I've seen references to all three of them be deleted for "misgendering".

EasternStandard · 07/02/2024 21:05

I can’t recall the most recent sport with a male

We’ve had a few golf, boxing and more

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2024 21:05

There's a difference between what MN have explicitly said is probably ok (ie calling rapists he) and what they reserve the right to delete in most cases (ie most "misgendering".)

Startingagainandagain · 07/02/2024 21:08

''@PaperWalkAndTalk

5% (or probably less now) of the British population are on Twitter.''

That's incorrect.

Most recent stats (2023) showed that 18% of the population had a Twitter account.

Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 21:10

Anyway I didn't misgender as I didn't use pronouns. I said boy. Male. Fact. There is nothing nasty about biology.

IcakethereforeIam · 07/02/2024 21:11

Brendan O'Neill has weighed in

https://www.spiked-online.com/2024/02/07/no-rishi-sunak-should-not-apologise-for-his-trans-jibe/

I doubt I'd agree with Brendan over much but I do over this

This country fought for centuries to liberate the Commons from the unaccountable oversight of princes and priests. For the new priestly elites of the 21st century to use the grief of a mother in order to chill debate in that chamber turns back the clock. It is cynical in the extreme. It is their behaviour – not Sunak’s – that deserves the descriptor of ‘grim’.

No, Rishi Sunak should not apologise for his ‘trans jibe’

It is the chattering classes’ weaponisation of Brianna Ghey’s death that is truly offensive.

https://www.spiked-online.com/2024/02/07/no-rishi-sunak-should-not-apologise-for-his-trans-jibe

IClaudine · 07/02/2024 21:19

I have just checked Hansard. At the start of PMQs, Starmer said:

"This week, the unwavering bravery of Brianna Ghey’s mother, Esther, has touched us all. As a father, I cannot even imagine the pain that she is going through. I am glad that she is with us in the Gallery today.

A year ago, the Prime Minister promised to bring down NHS waiting lists. Isn’t he glad that he did not bet a grand on it?"

So Sunak knew Esther Ghey was there before he made his "quip". Although he is apparently now saying he didn't hear Starmer say this.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/02/2024 21:21

IcakethereforeIam · 07/02/2024 21:11

Brendan O'Neill has weighed in

https://www.spiked-online.com/2024/02/07/no-rishi-sunak-should-not-apologise-for-his-trans-jibe/

I doubt I'd agree with Brendan over much but I do over this

This country fought for centuries to liberate the Commons from the unaccountable oversight of princes and priests. For the new priestly elites of the 21st century to use the grief of a mother in order to chill debate in that chamber turns back the clock. It is cynical in the extreme. It is their behaviour – not Sunak’s – that deserves the descriptor of ‘grim’.

Brendan O'Neill has nailed it.

Teddleshon · 07/02/2024 21:22

@RoyalCorgi also completely agree, it was Starmer who brought Brianna Ghey into it. A very low thing to do.

IClaudine · 07/02/2024 21:24

Teddleshon · 07/02/2024 21:22

@RoyalCorgi also completely agree, it was Starmer who brought Brianna Ghey into it. A very low thing to do.

Moments before Sunak made his quip, Starmer had spoken, welcoming Esther Ghey into Parliament. Sunak either didn't listen or didn't care.

HagoftheNorth · 07/02/2024 21:31

GPTec, I wouldn’t defend the Tory’s record on protecting women’s rights, yet Canada and Australia demonstrate how things could have been here if Labour had been in charge. I think, unfortunately, they provide reasonable case studies for what the UK will become under a Labour government..

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Boomboom22 · 07/02/2024 21:32

IClaudine · 07/02/2024 21:24

Moments before Sunak made his quip, Starmer had spoken, welcoming Esther Ghey into Parliament. Sunak either didn't listen or didn't care.

But this is irrelevant to womens rights.

PurpleSparkledPixie · 07/02/2024 21:33

Wait...what?

“I think I counted almost 30 in the last year: pensions, planning, peerages, public sector pay, tuition fees, childcare, second referendums, defining a woman – although in fairness that was only 99% of a U-turn. The list goes on but the theme is the same. It’s empty words, broken promises and absolutely no plan.”

That is the comment that set this all off?? Good grief.

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