I’m dreading the day they become he.
I’ve seen this happen in a lot of cases, including people I know, know of/kids of friends and people on social media. Girls or women become “NB” then “transmasc” then “a trans man” like they’re on a conveyor belt. The way it escalates suggests it’s not about your “true self” but about keeping on needing more renewed validation or a further escape from the self each time it becomes apparent that the new identity hasn’t solved all your problems.
it’s also interesting that transactivists/genderists are not keen on detransitioners changing their minds but it’s fine to change your mind as much as you like as long as you’re becoming more trans.
The likelihood is high that someone who identifies as “NB” will continue to change their identity and demand everyone keep up. I wonder if some employers’ concern is that they’re worried about their valued less woo-brained staff making a mistake or refusing to play along or daring to roll their eyes, and being persecuted/reported/sued.