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Girls "left at mercy" of grooming gangs in Rochdale, England because of failings by senior police and council bosses, damning report says

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DerekFaker · 15/01/2024 10:22

No surprise to anyone on here, I would guess. Those poor girls.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-67967919

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Police left children at mercy of grooming gangs in Rochdale, report says

A review criticises a series of failed investigations by Greater Manchester Police in Rochdale.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-67967919

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Ramblingnamechanger · 15/01/2024 23:16

There are many teenaged boys, in my experience as a foster carer, all Pakistani or Bangladeshi, who were being trained up as pimps. They could pose as “boyfriends “ who inducted the girls through rape and later threats to families and carers, and the girls were passed on to the older men once their will had been broken. Even in secure accommodation, they receive letters from abusers in prison and yes, they wait for the girls . As carers you can’t lock these girls in, although one might want to. As always the fact that men and boys generally will look for younger girls is not acknowledged. And becoming 18 does not suddenly mean it is acceptable, or empowering.

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/01/2024 23:20

The OP's link says that there are 96 men still deemed a potential risk to children. In Rochdale alone.

Why?

TempestTost · 15/01/2024 23:41

RethinkingLife · 15/01/2024 19:16

From previous discussions, isn't there a common theme of premature adultification for working class and/or Black girls? Like the defence of child prostitution somebody recently quoted ('the little madams know what they're doing and make a good living') as an argument that turned up in the then Hansard-recorded discussions about raising the age of consent in the late C19.

It reflects culturally rooted projections and fantasies of premature sexualisation and even hypersexualisation.

Of course, there are other views that would characterise mine as sex negative.

  • produces a ‘scary futurology’ (Smith, 2010), with an overemphasis on protectionism, victimisation and objectification;
  • neglects girls’ sexual agency, rights and pleasure (including how the eroticisation of innocence features in girls’ own sexual subjectification practices);
  • renews enduring binaries of active, predatory male sexuality versus passive, non-agentic female sexuality (where girls’ sexuality is always risky/at risk);
  • encourages either/or position-taking among stakeholders between sexual empowerment and pleasure versus sexual danger and protectionism;
  • legitimises a heteronormative and linear developmental trajectory of ‘healthy’ female heterosexuality;
  • operates as a white middle class panic over the desire for and loss of a raced and classed sexual innocence, and thus reproduces the othering of working class/racialised cultures as evidence of hyper-sexuality

Renold, E., & Ringrose, J. (2013). Feminisms re-figuring ‘sexualisation’, sexuality and ‘the girl’. Feminist Theory, 14(3), 247-254. https://doi.org/10.1177/1464700113499531

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I do think there is a larger cultural context here, which is that our society is very inconsistent around teen sexuality, and especially teen girl sexuality, in general.

The thing is we can't treat teens just like kids, they are starting to mature, and are interested in sex in many cases. So protecting them from becoming victims has to be done in ways that take that into account. Like actually teaching them what a healthy sexuality would look like, but also old fashioned things like not giving themselves away to cheaply. To modern ears that sounds horribly anti-sex and puritanical, but not putting value on themselves is a big part of what makes these girls vulnerable.

I think we are altogether to blase about underage sex, in terms of giving kids access to things like hormonal birth control and abortion, without parental involvement. The attitude described in several posts about seeing these girls as just expressing their sexual agency - that is exactly what many health care providers, including in schools, are taught about dealing with teenagers. They are not quizzing girls on their sexual choices, or worrying they aren't old enough to know what they are doing, they are just writing them a bc prescription.

I have a friend who was "groomed" as a 15 year old. Except the boy was only just 17, so not actually considered too old as such, and not sharing her around. Just abusive. She's now in her 40s very skeptical about much of the received wisdom around medical access for teen girls - she strongly feels that had her parents known she had two abortions that year, and eventually was on bc, they might have realized what was going on and intervened.

Of course this will probably be immediately rejected by many as anti-feminist thinking, as medical access for minors is considered something of a dogma, but I think when you look at how authorities treated these girls in terms of supposedly being in control of their sexual behavior, it's not so different in kind to how they are taught to treat sexual behavior in other younger teens.

TempestTost · 16/01/2024 00:02

PinkFrogss · 15/01/2024 21:14

The fact of the men's race affecting the police actions - or lack thereof - has become embedded in the story. This needs to be faced head on.

Either the race aspect needs to be debunked, or it needs to be addressed. Clearly and openly. Transparency is crucial.

I think the overall rate of conviction for men’s violence against women, and the lack of support female victims get goes some way to debunk the suggestion. Whether that be domestic violence, sexual assault, child grooming, rape.

If there was a high level of white offenders being convicted while crimes committed by black and Asian men were being ignored that would certainly evidence the theory.

But women are being failed all over the shop, and the common denominator is men (of every ethnicity) getting away with far, far too much, while even when there is acknowledgement of the crimes the women and children get blamed.

You only have to look into how many police have been convicted of crimes against women to see misogyny is rife in the police force, it doesn’t turn on or off when they see the race of the person they’re investigating.

I don't think this follows at all.

Different kinds of crime operate differently and are policed really differently. In this case, it's not sexual assaults by an individual, it's basically organized crime.

It's not at all unique for organized crime groups to be based on ethnicity, on the contrary it's very common, and understanding that is an important part of how police can move against these groups, because a lot of it has to do with establishing how the criminal enterprise is operating, the relationships and roles of the different people involved.

It is fraught now though, at a social level, to identify certain minority groups as having certain kinds of criminal gangs associated with the group. People know it is the case, but there are some real complications with the public face of it. Because it's not just about moving against individuals who happen to be whatever race, it's seen as targeting based on race, and also as implying that somehow members of that group are inherently immoral.

It's also worth considering that there may have been places where this was a factor in the failure to act, and other cases where it isn't really. There are people involved in trying to get the girls in Rochdale help who said that it was an issue there. But that doesn't mean it was part of what was going on in the next town necessarily.

duc748 · 16/01/2024 00:14

ifIwerenotanandroid · 15/01/2024 23:52

Just watched. Maggie certainly didn't hold back, did she? 👏

ifIwerenotanandroid · 16/01/2024 00:55

@duc748 She was brilliant.

Onand · 16/01/2024 01:15

Call me cynical but something tells me this is coming back in to the headlines simply because these grooming gangs are based in Labour ran towns.

Of course it’s all still been going on, it always will do as well simply because those men genuinely believe they can do whatever they want to those girls. If there was any genuine will to eradicate such heinous crimes then swift tough far reaching action would have been taken years ago.

Grandmasswag · 16/01/2024 07:14

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 15/01/2024 19:28

Weren't some of these girls from homes where they were cared for and there was was no apparent dysfunction? sure I can recall reading that.

There’s a woman called Ella who’s written articles and podcasts. She’s now a medical doctor and she speaks with quite a posh accent so whilst her family may well have been dysfunctional (not seen them mentioned) I would wager she certainly hasn’t had the typical adverse childhood experiences that many of the girls did. Her view is that it was raced based violence and she believes she was ignored because the police were insistent that white people can’t experience racism.

Grandmasswag · 16/01/2024 07:31

Omg. Just watched the new night interview with Maggie Oliver. What they did to Amber. Absolutely mind blowing. Trying to recover her own children after THEY had framed her as a pedophile. Where was the most basic humanity?

shockeditellyou · 16/01/2024 07:32

These kinds of reports make me think the only thing that will ever change this is a long hard campaign of direct action and violence by women against men.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 16/01/2024 08:57

And how many of these rapists have been given rights in the basis of their ‘family life’ in the U.K. and allowed to stay with wife and kids?

Grandmasswag · 16/01/2024 09:02

HoneyButterPopcorn · 16/01/2024 08:57

And how many of these rapists have been given rights in the basis of their ‘family life’ in the U.K. and allowed to stay with wife and kids?

Many or most will be U.K. nationals. But I often think about the fact that most were likely to have wives and children at home whilst they were out all night gang raping children.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/01/2024 09:16

Call me cynical but something tells me this is coming back in to the headlines simply because these grooming gangs are based in Labour ran towns.

That's why we need to talk about it though.

Neriah · 16/01/2024 09:16

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 15/01/2024 13:08

isn't it odd that in Operation Yewtree, the police were falling over themselves to believe reports of the sexual abuse of boys, to the point of believing the flimsiest of accusations and pursuing the alleged perpetrators even beyond the grave? What a contrast with Rochdale etc

Let's face it - the hard fact is that that society actually expects that women will be subjected to a degree of sexual violence at some time in their lives - i.e, it's normal and normalised. Male rape isn't.

I'd like heads to roll in Rochdale but my cynicism tells me they'll either have retired or will be quietly retired. On full pension, of course.

I don't agree entirely. The police and Council in Rochdale were long accustomed to ignoring the organised abuse of children in the town. There is something rotten to the core in the town, and it is not about Asian men - it is about men and the child abuse of both boys and girls over many, many decades.

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/establishment-knew-cyril-smith-abusing-17811996

I grew up in Rochdale in the 60's and 70's. As a teenager I knew all about Cyril Smith and his friends - it was such common knowledge in the town that even teenagers growing up in a time when such things were not usually spoken about knew all about it. The local alternative newspaper, RAP, regularly headlined stories about him and his friends and the abuse of children. Most newsagents in the town carried RAP.

If a teenage girl knew what was going on in a time when sexual abuse was simp0ly not a "talking point" in society, then how couild the police and the council not have known?

There is a rotten culture in the town, and there is no evidence that it has gone away. In fact, if you were of a suspicious nature, you might wonder why the only people to have been caught for child abuse in Rochdale are Asian, and what still lurks beneath the surface. Cyril Smith wasn't alone...

Establishment knew Cyril Smith was abusing children but covered it up - inquiry

A scathing report by the Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse has concluded the former Rochdale MP and others were allowed to get away with it, in order to avoid reputational damage

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/establishment-knew-cyril-smith-abusing-17811996

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/01/2024 09:29

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/01/2024 09:16

Call me cynical but something tells me this is coming back in to the headlines simply because these grooming gangs are based in Labour ran towns.

That's why we need to talk about it though.

What do you mean?

pickledandpuzzled · 16/01/2024 09:29

That’s appalling @Neriah , I had no idea!

There’s this underlying narrative that men desire young girls and girls flirt and tempt men because they like being desired. Men have no control over their baser urges. Girls should know better than to provoke men.

Until the narrative changes, it’s fecking hard to stop.

We need a cold, humourless, children have never consented, do not consent and cannot consent to being sexualised by adults. Men who view children as sexual are deviant predators. No jokes. No tolerance. Grow the fuck up and stop passively allowing it.

That’s for the men who are not directly involved but think the girls are collaborating in their own abuse.

The criminals who trade children’s bodies need to be prosecuted and punished far more severely for trafficking, rape, drug dealing and coercion.

DewHopper · 16/01/2024 09:39

BarelyLiterate · 15/01/2024 21:06

If I said what I really thought about the way white girls were sacrificed en masse on the alter of the Left’s obsession with multiculturalism while the police & officials deliberately turned a blind eye in order to protect ‘community cohesion’, I would be banned from MN for life, so 🤐.

Indeed.

DewHopper · 16/01/2024 09:42

nationallampoons · 15/01/2024 21:21

It still goes on now, they've only skimmed the top of the cream.

Drive through Bolton, Oldham, Rochdale and you see young girls getting into cars. Gangs of men having around street corners with young girls

Myself and my partner were driving through our very own Northwest town and seen young teens having around with grown men. We pulled up, called the police and waited. They were soon dispersed but I'm sure it'll happen again

We need to say it how it is. These are white, vulnerable children being targeted by southern Asian males. I followed a case in Rochdale and a grooming gang were sentenced, yet on release were welcomed back into the community like nothing happened. It's wrong, it's vile and the police and government need to come down heavily on these beasts

Everyone knows this in the NW don't they? It's so fucking commonplace.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/01/2024 09:44

What do you mean?

That I don't think "because it's political" is an excuse for being thorough in rooting out corruption and failing to act on mass sexual abuse of girls.

DewHopper · 16/01/2024 09:47

Onand · 16/01/2024 01:15

Call me cynical but something tells me this is coming back in to the headlines simply because these grooming gangs are based in Labour ran towns.

Of course it’s all still been going on, it always will do as well simply because those men genuinely believe they can do whatever they want to those girls. If there was any genuine will to eradicate such heinous crimes then swift tough far reaching action would have been taken years ago.

What, you think it shouldn't be addressed just now because of the GE and it might hurt Labour's share of the vote? Really? REALLY??

ResisterRex · 16/01/2024 09:48

Onand · 16/01/2024 01:15

Call me cynical but something tells me this is coming back in to the headlines simply because these grooming gangs are based in Labour ran towns.

Of course it’s all still been going on, it always will do as well simply because those men genuinely believe they can do whatever they want to those girls. If there was any genuine will to eradicate such heinous crimes then swift tough far reaching action would have been taken years ago.

The report was commissioned by a Labour Mayor, so not sure I follow this

Lalgarh · 16/01/2024 13:09

Is it hinting at the vote base I guess. I note that the comments are about the south Asian origin of many of the offenders. It's actually far more specific than that. They are not just Pakistani but from the Mirpur/ Azad Kashmir region. Most of them are related. It's a learned pattern of behaviours. The account from the woman on another thread mentioned her groomer also being abused by other relatives. It's all bound up with honour culture which is all about policing your females (getting a Talking To if you are seen out talking to Other Boys) because you don't want to end up like those girls. Because what are those girls ever good for except getting an income from?

historiccastles · 16/01/2024 13:16

I was working in a local council which had a similarly high profile scandal, also with racial overtones, in a different city, several years back. My role was minuting child protection case conferences. At the time I had young children. I remember being horrified by the attitude towards the victims that I observed and I doubt it's changed.

Now I have teenage daughters and it horrifies me that grown men are doubtless sexualising them when they see them even though they aren't themselves yet at the stage where they're particularly interested in sex.