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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Jane Clare Jones on purity spirals

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IamSarah · 12/01/2024 11:26

Really insightful post on X the platform formally known as Twitter I feel it's worth sharing on here:

x.com/janeclarejones/status/1745760345954689255?s=46&t=NGJBRqkXgp1UazF5I8yjXA

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IamSarah · 12/01/2024 19:24

The court case is about securing the option of single sex rape crisis therapy for all women. Left wing women, right wing women, extremely fucking scathing women.

It's not supporting me as a person it's supporting women.

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pickledandpuzzled · 12/01/2024 19:28

IamSarah · 12/01/2024 19:20

I am sure you can find someone who will sell you that teeshirt.

Is that… I mean I’m not clued up but that’s really catty if I read it right.

On a separate note- your campaign is vital, I was and am disgusted about what you went through and fully support your fight.

pickledandpuzzled · 12/01/2024 19:29

IamSarah · 12/01/2024 19:24

The court case is about securing the option of single sex rape crisis therapy for all women. Left wing women, right wing women, extremely fucking scathing women.

It's not supporting me as a person it's supporting women.

And thank you for it. I’m sorry it’s necessary.

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 12/01/2024 19:31

Surely it would have been better to be more selective about who was permitted to donate?

Just because it might ultimately benefit all women doesn't mean you have to accept financial help from all women. I mean, suppose there is money in the fund from Christian nationalists?

Floisme · 12/01/2024 19:34

IamSarah · 12/01/2024 19:15

I can admire Tinsel's excellent campaign work for trans widows while also finding her extremely scathing. It feels like she is unable to say a nice word about other feminists, or support their campaigns, unless they absolutely share her world view.

I think that's very unfair. Tinsel can scare the crap out of me sometimes (no I don't know her!) but that's because her focus is on a group of women whose needs have been shamefully neglected by some other feminist campaigners. From where I'm sitting, she fights for them like a lioness.

I'm less of a fan of JCJ than I used to be but, if she has your back in the same way that Tinsel has the trans widows' backs then I'm pleased for you,

Helleofabore · 12/01/2024 19:36

EmpressaurusOfTheSevenOceans · 12/01/2024 19:20

Have you ever read the Actual Gender Critical Left Facebook group? It’s full of women slating other women for not sharing their world view.

Is it still active?

And I have mentioned that the sin page listing the sins of a women's rights campaigner is still very much active on the group who held this event. You know the event with an esteemed man who uses female single sex spaces AND supports that they remain single sex (obviously for him) and who gives guidance to children who feel they are trans. So you, know, actively harms woman and children, yet was esteemed enough to be celebrated by this group and then defended.

Yet, some of that group are active on that fb page. AND that sin page is still very much active.

The hypocrisy is rife.

Spartacular · 12/01/2024 19:38

IamSarah · 12/01/2024 19:15

I can admire Tinsel's excellent campaign work for trans widows while also finding her extremely scathing. It feels like she is unable to say a nice word about other feminists, or support their campaigns, unless they absolutely share her world view.

Is that an attempt at humour or do you really believe what you've just written?

If it's the latter you really do need to give your head a wobble and look at the behaviour of your mates.

Tinsel is not like them.

TinselAngel · 12/01/2024 19:39

Oh there's a transcript on here:

fiftyshadesofgender.com/katy/

IamSarah · 12/01/2024 19:42

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 12/01/2024 19:31

Surely it would have been better to be more selective about who was permitted to donate?

Just because it might ultimately benefit all women doesn't mean you have to accept financial help from all women. I mean, suppose there is money in the fund from Christian nationalists?

Christian nationalists also deserve the option of single sex rape crisis therapy, should they need it.

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EmpressaurusOfTheSevenOceans · 12/01/2024 19:43

Helleofabore · 12/01/2024 19:36

Is it still active?

And I have mentioned that the sin page listing the sins of a women's rights campaigner is still very much active on the group who held this event. You know the event with an esteemed man who uses female single sex spaces AND supports that they remain single sex (obviously for him) and who gives guidance to children who feel they are trans. So you, know, actively harms woman and children, yet was esteemed enough to be celebrated by this group and then defended.

Yet, some of that group are active on that fb page. AND that sin page is still very much active.

The hypocrisy is rife.

Yes, I’ve just had a look. Although to be fair I was several posts down before I found one having a go at KJK.

Youdontgivemeflowers · 12/01/2024 19:44

I read the thread @GailBlancheViola and, as everyone who reads the thread can see, @TinselAngel was really snide. She's always pretty horrible imo, but then I only know her on here. Maybe she's lovely in real life. I very much doubt it.

TinselAngel · 12/01/2024 19:46

Feeling a bit warm and fuzzy about how scary I apparently am.

EasternStandard · 12/01/2024 19:47

IamSarah · 12/01/2024 19:24

The court case is about securing the option of single sex rape crisis therapy for all women. Left wing women, right wing women, extremely fucking scathing women.

It's not supporting me as a person it's supporting women.

I haven’t rtft but thank you for this

It must be taking a lot and it is for women

TinselAngel · 12/01/2024 19:47

Youdontgivemeflowers · 12/01/2024 19:44

I read the thread @GailBlancheViola and, as everyone who reads the thread can see, @TinselAngel was really snide. She's always pretty horrible imo, but then I only know her on here. Maybe she's lovely in real life. I very much doubt it.

Thanks for @ing me to insult me, but there's no need. I'm on the thread already.

GailBlancheViola · 12/01/2024 19:47

It feels like she is unable to say a nice word about other feminists, or support their campaigns, unless they absolutely share her world view.

This statement is absolutely priceless isn't it Hellofabore.

EmpressaurusOfTheSevenOceans · 12/01/2024 19:47

Youdontgivemeflowers · 12/01/2024 19:44

I read the thread @GailBlancheViola and, as everyone who reads the thread can see, @TinselAngel was really snide. She's always pretty horrible imo, but then I only know her on here. Maybe she's lovely in real life. I very much doubt it.

Tinsel stands up for and represents a group of women who have been through hell and who get ignored by a large chunk of the feminist movement. In what sense is that horrible?

Have you read some of the stories on here? https://www.transwidowsvoices.org/

Home | Trans Widows Voices

A trans widow is a woman whose male partner believes that they have a gender identity other than “man” or who cross dresses. Women in this situation report feeling like their male partner has died. This site exists to share the experiences of trans wi...

https://www.transwidowsvoices.org/

TinselAngel · 12/01/2024 19:50

GailBlancheViola · 12/01/2024 19:47

It feels like she is unable to say a nice word about other feminists, or support their campaigns, unless they absolutely share her world view.

This statement is absolutely priceless isn't it Hellofabore.

I mean it's demonstrably untrue. Eg I've always supported other trans widows and published their stories even when I know their politics are very far from my own.

pickledandpuzzled · 12/01/2024 19:51

You are terrifying @TinselAngel but it’s because you are resolutely uncompromising and spot the flaws in everyone’s posts. And you don’t soften your statements. which is admirable.

When I first arrived on FWR I was totally shocked at women being resolutely uncompromising and plain spoken. It was shockingly unfamiliar. I had to learn to appreciate it!

TinselAngel · 12/01/2024 19:53

pickledandpuzzled · 12/01/2024 19:51

You are terrifying @TinselAngel but it’s because you are resolutely uncompromising and spot the flaws in everyone’s posts. And you don’t soften your statements. which is admirable.

When I first arrived on FWR I was totally shocked at women being resolutely uncompromising and plain spoken. It was shockingly unfamiliar. I had to learn to appreciate it!

<curtsies>

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 12/01/2024 19:53

IamSarah · 12/01/2024 19:42

Christian nationalists also deserve the option of single sex rape crisis therapy, should they need it.

And? What does this have to do with you accepting their money?

What was it you quoted? Ah yes,

From my, and many other people's observation, over the last couple of years, the UK GC space, especially on twitter, has progressively merged with both the US MAGA/Christian nationalist space, and those of UK white nationalists.

Make JCJ proud and take a stand. You could restrict donations to only those who have correctly answered a multiple-choice test, designed to filter out any people with undesirable political affiliations.

GailBlancheViola · 12/01/2024 19:55

Christian nationalists also deserve the option of single sex rape crisis therapy, should they need it.

They do indeed on that we are agreed. Are they entitled to campaign for this provision without being traduced, sneered at, derided, name called and ridiculed by the pure, unsullied ones though?

I'd really like to know how you can make this statement : It feels like she is unable to say a nice word about other feminists, or support their campaigns, unless they absolutely share her world view when you know and have seen how JCJ and others have treated and smeared other campaigners.

GailBlancheViola · 12/01/2024 20:01

I mean it's demonstrably untrue. Eg I've always supported other trans widows and published their stories even when I know their politics are very far from my own.

Amazing isn't it @TinselAngel how that can be done.

Helleofabore · 12/01/2024 20:02

GailBlancheViola · 12/01/2024 19:47

It feels like she is unable to say a nice word about other feminists, or support their campaigns, unless they absolutely share her world view.

This statement is absolutely priceless isn't it Hellofabore.

Remarkable.

ArabellaScott · 12/01/2024 20:12

Tinsel I value your direct and blunt approach enormously. It is very rare to find someone who is forthright and honest. And yes, sometimes it's a bit startling, if only because especially women are socialised to appease and fudge and be nice and kind.

Thank fuck you are here and I'm very glad of it.

ArabellaScott · 12/01/2024 20:13

Youdontgivemeflowers · 12/01/2024 19:44

I read the thread @GailBlancheViola and, as everyone who reads the thread can see, @TinselAngel was really snide. She's always pretty horrible imo, but then I only know her on here. Maybe she's lovely in real life. I very much doubt it.

And this post is an example of your conciliatory and uplifting people skills, is it?

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