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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Henning Wehn...getting there slowly

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RoyalCorgi · 11/12/2023 08:04

Come on, Henning! You can do it!

https://twitter.com/henningwehn/status/1733973228324843632

https://twitter.com/henningwehn/status/1733973228324843632

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Froodwithatowel · 12/12/2023 15:39

I may be wrong, but seem to remember Bradley no longer identifies as a woman. Some of the madness is coming from those who won't long term continue with what they were so passionately making a mess of for everyone at the time.

FictionalCharacter · 12/12/2023 15:49

Datun · 12/12/2023 13:56

I like words, I like using words but I am honestly groping to find some that adequately expresses my horror that a cross dressing male fetishist who is quite open about using forced feminisation porn and tells jokes about raping children is a safeguarding lead.

And has the fucking nerve to go on the defensive when people take one look at him and realise he's a walking red flag.

This is where this ideology gets you.

Acceptance without exception, remember?

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Absolutely.
I honestly wonder whether sissy porn and suchlike is way more popular than we think. That would explain why so many people oppose kink-shaming of things like this or turn a blind eye to characters like him.
Plus of course, it's used to refute the concept of men becoming pornsick, because they can say "women like porn too" if a man like this is redefined as a woman.

pickledandpuzzled · 12/12/2023 15:58

WarriorN · 12/12/2023 14:39

I am honestly groping to find some that adequately expresses my horror that a cross dressing male fetishist who is quite open about using forced feminisation porn and tells jokes about raping children

is a safeguarding lead

Yes.

There are very concerning red flags here about such an individual deliberately placing themselves in positions of authority and perceived positions of safety.

If someone is a safeguarding lead, the general public's interpretation of that is someone who knows their stuff and is really safe.

This is one summary of little teds; I've also had training that described a culture of fear to challenge Vanessa George and those in authority. Worth reading to the end, she made increasingly inappropriate sexualised comments.

socialcare.wales/cms-assets/documents/37.-Vanessa-George-Practice-Review.pdf

Having read that, I’m not sure her sexualised comments would have raised alarm bells with me- I mean they aren’t listed so perhaps they were indicative. Generally speaking would I worry that an adult with a risqué sense of humour was a predator? No. Not my kind of person, absolutely. Not safe? Depends on the comments.

Do women commit these crimes when they aren’t be encouraged by men?

WarriorN · 12/12/2023 17:10

Generally speaking would I worry that an adult with a risqué sense of humour was a predator? No. Not my kind of person, absolutely. Not safe? Depends on the comments.

It's not that they are a predator, it's the step before. Pushing appropriate boundaries. Is it professional to be making those comments at work with very young children around? If that is seen as ok, and humour can be individual/ cultural, what else could be missed?

are staff able to challenge that and say that it's not appropriate? That review misses out that staff did not feel they could. Which leads to a culture where people routinely don't challenge the small things.

Small boundary issues can lead to larger boundary issues or simply a lack of wider contextual understanding of and what is appropriate for the setting. The more some smaller things are normalised and seen as acceptable, the harder it is to maintain the boundaries and perspective on others.

SamW98 · 12/12/2023 17:34

Probably a silly question but are people like this one so narcissistic and ego driven that they can’t understand that putting themselves into the public eye means that their unsavoury online history will come back and bite them on the arse?

And as for the proud lesbian couple - I literally have no words

catduckgoose · 12/12/2023 21:33

FictionalCharacter · 12/12/2023 15:49

Absolutely.
I honestly wonder whether sissy porn and suchlike is way more popular than we think. That would explain why so many people oppose kink-shaming of things like this or turn a blind eye to characters like him.
Plus of course, it's used to refute the concept of men becoming pornsick, because they can say "women like porn too" if a man like this is redefined as a woman.

Some of the things I've heard from friends about the type of weird things their exes got themselves off to make me wonder if there are any men out there who aren't pornsick.

The sissy porn one was amongst the strangest though, apparently he would watch or listen this type of stuff while pressing a small thin vibrator into his inguinal canals while pretending it was his 'vagina' 🤮

JanesLittleGirl · 12/12/2023 22:37

catduckgoose · 12/12/2023 21:33

Some of the things I've heard from friends about the type of weird things their exes got themselves off to make me wonder if there are any men out there who aren't pornsick.

The sissy porn one was amongst the strangest though, apparently he would watch or listen this type of stuff while pressing a small thin vibrator into his inguinal canals while pretending it was his 'vagina' 🤮

That very close to the top of the list of things that I didn't need to know.

MadeOfAllWork · 13/12/2023 07:42

pickledandpuzzled · 12/12/2023 10:03

And all these ‘not representative of trans’, just a few bad apples etc.

It really doesn’t matter. The existence of accommodation for ‘really nice trans’ allows ‘not representative of trans’ to operate and abuse women and children.

If you leave a gate standing open to facilitate some deserving folk, you leave it standing open to predators and all.

Exactly. My DH is a lovely bloke who would never want to barge into a female space. But if you said that nice men could come into a female space then you are letting in all men.

Froodwithatowel · 13/12/2023 13:21

MadeOfAllWork · 13/12/2023 07:42

Exactly. My DH is a lovely bloke who would never want to barge into a female space. But if you said that nice men could come into a female space then you are letting in all men.

This.

The experiment was tried. Men broke it immediately by proving give any man a third of an inch and a whole lot of men would take every mile they could get away with.

So no. No men. I'm honestly not interested in how sad that makes any individual man, it's not relevant. All the needs of men with trans identities can be met without providing them with access to non consenting women and without removing resources, equality or accessibility from women. Any man with an even basic respect for women would get that.

WarriorN · 18/12/2023 11:48

Apparently the man in a wig has had their candidacy revoked by the Greens.

Nothing else as yet though. Gets to keep membership while women are hounded out for understanding basic safeguarding.

ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 18/12/2023 16:05

Best time to say no was when he walk through the Greens door. I suspect many the the greens still dont get why he was so unsuitable, though.

Better late than never.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/12/2023 16:25

Apparently the man in a wig has had their candidacy revoked by the Greens.

Whereabouts did you see/hear that?

WarriorN · 18/12/2023 17:04

I'm in the greens; via word of mouth.

Hence also using 'apparently!'

I don't have firm evidence though unfortunately. So will have to see if it's true...

WarriorN · 18/12/2023 17:07

And of course it could be spun otherwise...

Waitingfordoggo · 19/12/2023 12:58

Interesting @Helleofabore. Kath doesn’t seem very bright. Also, I feel like she was expecting some applause at the end of that speech. 😂

ArthurbellaScott · 19/12/2023 12:59

What does this woman mean by 'awful transphobia'? Does she mean people objecting to his sissy fetish, or his jokes about raping children?

WarriorN · 19/12/2023 13:38

Perhaps that his ex wife and step son have said he basically abandoned them to live this lifestyle and they don't want anything to do with him. So transphobic.

Helleofabore · 19/12/2023 13:48

I think that if Kath feels that this candidate was just such a lovely person, they are a very poor judge of character. Kath, if you think that a male individual who has deliberately distressed their ex wife by taking the ex wife's surname and posts sissy porn and paedophilic content is such a great person, you really need to get some boundaries for yourself and understand other's boundaries are not there to be transgressed by people with special identities.

StephanieSuperpowers · 19/12/2023 14:09

But you guys, trans! They're always lovely and massively, uniquely vulnerable in all situations. ALL OF THEM. Even the ones getting women arrested for speaking. And the Malaga airporters? They're the loveliest of all.

WarriorN · 19/12/2023 14:13

Obligatory explanation about Malaga airport required please...

StephanieSuperpowers · 19/12/2023 14:18

Google a flight to Malaga airport...

SabrinaThwaite · 19/12/2023 14:18

WarriorN · 19/12/2023 14:13

Obligatory explanation about Malaga airport required please...

The airport code?

Thereafter Google is your friend.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 10/04/2024 14:32

BUMP

https://twitter.com/henningwehn/status/1778026487062339853

“Giving mentally unstable teenagers loads of drugs isn’t all that”, review finds.

https://twitter.com/henningwehn/status/1778026487062339853

MidsomerMurmurs · 10/04/2024 14:50

Henning is all right. He could just be a bit braver. Quite a lot of his act (originally) hinged on his German identity and an outsider perspective on life here, so he really doesn’t need to worry about offending trans ideologues. He can always wave away criticism by playing up to the stereotype of being cool-headed, logical, detached etc.