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Feminism, rape, and Israel. Content warning.

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ArthurbellaScott · 18/11/2023 09:31

https://unherd.com/2023/11/metoo-unless-youre-a-jew/

I skipped parts of this article, specifically the first person account.

The rest of it I think is an important read.

MeToo unless you're a Jew

Feminist groups are whitewashing Hamas's crimes

https://unherd.com/2023/11/metoo-unless-youre-a-jew

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pronounsbundlebundle · 06/12/2023 22:25

AdamRyan · 06/12/2023 22:19

Sorry what? You think the Palestinians and Israelis would rather have a situation with no safe zones for citizens and high "collateral damage" and suggesting otherwise lacks empathy? Why?

Because you're suggesting 'safe zones' in places similar to / where the October 7th attacks took place. Surely you can't be so incapable of understanding this when it's been explained so many times? There is no reason that 'safe zones' have to be behind the Israeli border and about one billion reasons, including the obvious loss of life that would occur, why this is a bad idea.

pronounsbundlebundle · 06/12/2023 22:29

Oh bloody hell I fell for a straw man argument.

Not having 'safe zones' (which would be impossible) on Israeli soil does not mean 'no safe zones'. Obviously.

Not engaging any more with people using straw man arguments - it's in bad faith.

Queucumber · 06/12/2023 22:30

So (genuinely, not goadily)

All the threads on what’s happening and you chose to post on here. You chose to repeatedly derail a thread about the atrocities committed by Hamas on 7/10.

Trulywonderful · 06/12/2023 22:32

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Trulywonderful · 06/12/2023 22:40

This one is a well known apologist and denier for Jew hate. She even practices it herself. So this may look not to bad as a post but she would probably deny the rapes even if she saw them happen herself

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ScrollingLeaves · 06/12/2023 22:40

RebelliousCow · 06/12/2023 15:51

It is a horrible mess with no easy solutions. The only real and long term workable solution is the two state solution. But to achieve that the Palestinians and their leaders need to accept Israel's existence and stop declaring jihad. Israel can deal with its own extremists. It has done before.

Though, of course, Iran is now involved and there are wider regional conflicts being fought by Iranian and Saudi proxies. God knows how this is going to pan out - but I cannot see a peaceful solution for quite some time.

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Israel can deal with its own extremists. It has done before.

Can this present regime deal with its own extremists? It is its own extremists isn’t it?

thatsthewayitis · 06/12/2023 22:42

@Trulywonderful oh my gods , I can't believe people can write such things ...
Do you know the refrain from an old Tom Lehrer satirical song: "And everyone hates the Jews."

Trulywonderful · 06/12/2023 22:44

Just incase you don't believe me

This is her denying Jewish people where ethically cleansed from the Arab world and also denying the Israelis from the surrounding countries even exsist

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stomachameleon · 06/12/2023 22:47

@Queucumber after repeatedly saying they are leaving....
@AdamRyan that isn't going to happen for the obvious reasons. Normal civilians did come through the wire. They aren't going to be invited through for another go.

I think elements of this are goady not a genuine seeking of understanding. There are people living in fear on both sides.

stomachameleon · 06/12/2023 22:48

@Trulywonderful how can people spin and deny fact..

stomachameleon · 06/12/2023 23:04

@Trulywonderful I liked something on Instagram earlier that said
' there is an old Jewish saying: the antisemitic does not accuse the Jew of stealing because he thinks he stole something. He does it because he enjoys watching the Jew turn out his pockets to prove his innocence'

Trulywonderful · 06/12/2023 23:27

stomachameleon · 06/12/2023 23:04

@Trulywonderful I liked something on Instagram earlier that said
' there is an old Jewish saying: the antisemitic does not accuse the Jew of stealing because he thinks he stole something. He does it because he enjoys watching the Jew turn out his pockets to prove his innocence'

As we see time and time again on here and social media. Let alone from Hamas via their properganda

Yep I sometimes don't respond to certain posters or only reply to their posts once or twice. Anything more than that then I am giving some posters exactly what they are after. A Jewish person jumping through hoops to prove themselves or others innocent. It is all just a nasty racist game to some people, the whole conflict.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/12/2023 23:37

Trulywonderful · 06/12/2023 22:40

This one is a well known apologist and denier for Jew hate. She even practices it herself. So this may look not to bad as a post but she would probably deny the rapes even if she saw them happen herself

^But also, this isn't a "believe women" scenario bc no female victims have
offered testimony^

That is ridiculous. Their bodies offered testimony in many cases. Many can’t actually speak as they were killed or are hostages.

Meanwhile there was testimony from witnesses and even some of the perpetrators themselves. Others victims are in psychiatric hospitals I believe and some are said to have committed suicide.

We all saw the young woman being pushed into a vehicle with the back of her trousers covered in blood. We all saw the other naked woman in the back of the pick- up truck being paraded among a berserk crowd. Are these things which we saw randomly supposed to be one offs?

Trulywonderful · 07/12/2023 00:03

Some people see what they want to see it seems

They just refuse to see anything that doesn't fit nicely into their chosen narrative

ScrollingLeaves · 07/12/2023 00:15

NovemberAutumn · 06/12/2023 16:20

We are broken hearted. My 14 year old son with autism and learning difficulty has joined a Christian bible study group at school because he thinks he can hide and therefore be safe that way. I cannot even explain how distraught I and the members of my family and community are.

NovemberAutumn I am so sorry your special group has had death threats and that your poor son has felt this way at school. That is terrible and abhorrent.

Surely people will start to be more aware of the prevalence of this behaviour against Jewish people and openly push back against it, and against anything similar that may be happening against ordinary Muslims who live here too.

PorcelinaV · 07/12/2023 01:40

I mentioned the supremacist ideology of Hamas earlier in the thread:

https://youtube.com/shorts/krqpVcp0VPc

Before you continue to YouTube

https://youtube.com/shorts/krqpVcp0VPc

EdithStourton · 07/12/2023 06:15

AdamRyan · 06/12/2023 22:21

This is unfair.
Do you not think the Gazans are also now traumatised? I understand Jews are traumatised, but the Israeli Government have an obligation not to kill civilians and no amount of trauma makes that untrue

I fully accept that Gazans are now traumatised. But that does not negate the state of mind of Israelis, especially those near the Gazan border, following a brutal attack that came without warning, and broke a truce, with captives paraded through the streets afterwards.

The Israeli government has an obligation not to target civilians. That's not the same thing as an obligation not to kill them. What the Gazans are suffering is principally the responsibility of Hamas, who integrate their armed forces into the civilian infrastructure and don't build bomb shelters for civilians. They are happy for the civilians to suffer as it gets world opinion to turn against Israel. And before you misconstrue what I am saying, I despise Netanyahu and many of his acts.

RebelliousCow · 07/12/2023 08:20

ScrollingLeaves · 06/12/2023 22:40

Israel can deal with its own extremists. It has done before.

Can this present regime deal with its own extremists? It is its own extremists isn’t it?

I think there is more than a measure of hyperbole in what you say. Yes, the Netanyahu government has become very right wing, but it is still a democratically elected government with accountability to its people and a free press, not a terrorist organisation.

The way forward for Israel will be to ditch Netanyahu and focus on unity and stability; and that will involve in cracking down on extremist settlers.

RebelliousCow · 07/12/2023 08:24

AdamRyan · 06/12/2023 19:53

No. I think they could potentially expand the borders to set up refugee camps away from the fighting and tunnels.

That should be Egypt's response - not the country that is actually engaged in the war. You seem to want Israel to take 100% of responsibility for everything.

AdamRyan · 07/12/2023 08:28

pronounsbundlebundle · 06/12/2023 22:29

Oh bloody hell I fell for a straw man argument.

Not having 'safe zones' (which would be impossible) on Israeli soil does not mean 'no safe zones'. Obviously.

Not engaging any more with people using straw man arguments - it's in bad faith.

It's not a straw man
Someone asked me upthread what I'd do. I said I'm not a tactician, I was trying to think of possibilities.
Of course the Israelis don't want to do anything. My point is more if they were serious about protecting civilians they could.
According to nearly every source, there are no safe zones in Gaza. So your answer is also a de facto "Gazans can die as collateral damage."

ArthurbellaScott · 07/12/2023 08:34

Happy Hannukah to all who celebrate. I've lit a candle for you.

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RebelliousCow · 07/12/2023 08:34

AdamRyan · 06/12/2023 22:21

This is unfair.
Do you not think the Gazans are also now traumatised? I understand Jews are traumatised, but the Israeli Government have an obligation not to kill civilians and no amount of trauma makes that untrue

What is it you don't understand about the nature of war? Countries at war have aduty not to target civilians - but that is not what Israel is doing. It is targeting Hamas and its infrastructure. Hamas has the responsibility for its own people - but instead it sacrifices them as martryrs, and even forbids them from leaving when they have been told evacuate. It knowingly places its war infrastructure in residential streets, in schools, under hospitals. This is the war crime; to add to the atrocties that were committed on October 7th - all of which were genuinely genocidal in intent, and evil in practice

https://www.memri.org/tv/hamas-official-mousa-abu-marzouk-tunnels-gaza-protect-fighters-%20not-civilians

Hamas Official Mousa Abu Marzouk: The Tunnels In Gaza Were Built To Protect Hamas Fighters, Not Civilians; Protecting Gaza Civilians Is The Responsibility Of The U.N. And Israel

Mousa Abu Marzouk, a member of the Hamas Political Bureau said in an October 27, 2023 interview that aired on Russia Tod...

https://www.memri.org/tv/hamas-official-mousa-abu-marzouk-tunnels-gaza-protect-fighters-%20not-civilians

Fantasyanswer · 07/12/2023 08:37

This is unfair. Do you not think the Gazans are also now traumatised? I understand Jews are traumatised, but the Israeli Government have an obligation not to kill civilians and no amount of trauma makes that untrue

I don't think it is unfair at all. Your entire behaviour on this thread shows you don't know (or care) how traumatised people are. There has been post after heart breaking post where people pore out their pain and distress and that of their loved ones and you ignore all this and bull doze your way through, treating this thread like your personal political discussion thread rather than the support thread others need it as.

There are plenty of other threads that would be more suited to you, or you could start your own, but instead you choose one about rape and sexual abuse where women want to support women.

So no, I don't think it is at all unfair to say you don't realise how traumatised people are, women are. I think your actions here have demonstrated it.

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