You thought mums would have more love and understanding?
Yes hon.
This mum is lovingly and understandingly saying that women must NOT be battered by men in the name of indulging very unreasonable identities.
Did you think I'd be all "awww bless, you go and smash her skull if you want to sweetheart" to a man?
Seriously?
That's what you think Mums are all about?
As a mum, I'm also wondering what this man is thinking. What is in this for him? Why is the risk to women nothing to him compared to his need to go in the ring as a woman, and to fight a woman? I have to wonder if there's some kind of buzz for him in trying to make people validate and pretend for him even when it means sacrificing women to him to hurt. To prove how very much more he matters than women do.
Actual motherly love involves boundaries, saying no, weathering the tantrums and caring about the long term. Love is tough, it isn't all mushy and sentimental and indulgent. Or enabling. And frankly I'd raise a son of mine to be less harmfully selfish than this, with a capacity to see women as people, not things for his use.