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Women's rights general conversations - Thread 7

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Kucinghitam · 05/11/2023 18:13

Continuation of Thread 6.

There is so much excellent information and so many active discussions on FWR that I wondered if it would be useful to have a thread to sort of "cross-fertilise" between them - airing little thoughts or vignettes that wouldn't themselves merit their own thread, to highlight other posts/threads of particular interest or to point to notable developments on fast-moving threads so that casual observers know where to look.

(For example, "the X thread has meandered onto a fascinating discussion of Y" or "Poster P's amazing analysis on thread Z might have relevance to the scenario in thread W" or "Has anybody noticed this recurring theme that keeps coming up??" or even "Random bloke asked me to smile while I was choosing onions in the supermarket, grr"- that sort of thing).

Women's rights general conversations - Thread 6 | Mumsnet

Continuation of [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4807817-womens-rights-general-conversations-thread-5? Thread 5]]. There is so much excel...

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Snowypeaks · 13/04/2024 13:29

KellieJaysLapdog · 13/04/2024 13:27

Yes, and the Right have picked up ‘cancelling’ techniques from the Left and are running with it!

They've done a swap!

Except the Left are still cancelling...

MouseMinge · 13/04/2024 17:30

I think the left picked it up from the right in the first instance and that meant that the right had to go "Cancelling is for snowflakes, we would never do that!" as they metaphorically burned books. Now they both cancel but insist that they don't and it would be hilarious if it wasn't so bloody dangerous.

I've been left wing my whole adult life and I fucking despair at what large areas of it have become but it's always been possible because I've also known, for my whole adult life, that misogyny lives in the left just as it does in the right but in a slightly more convincing disguise. The whole TWAW, etc is just misogyny writ large and of course the left were going to jump on that. The right's place in the whole TWAW, but far more importantly TMAM, is misogyny and homophobia writ large. It's a clusterfuck of hating women. We are now not only less important than men but even less important than men dressing up as women and undermining every single right we've fought so hard for.

SqueakyDinosaur · 13/04/2024 17:30

Interesting that even the Times won't allow comments on that article. Possibly they realise how angry people are and they know they'll have to delete a lot of them?

mach2 · 14/04/2024 00:01

Talking to a specialist is not the same as transitioning.

If Ruth holds this to be true then it follows that talking to a specialist is not conversion therapy either.

Kucinghitam · 14/04/2024 07:22

Snowypeaks · 13/04/2024 12:02

One of the things that Graham Linehan said that really stuck in my mind is this:

that the Left/progressives howled with rage at Trump with his continual and easily disprovable lies, his doubling down on nonsensical statements, his refusal to accept any blame or admit any wrongdoing and then they (progressives) said - yup, that's what we're going to do.

Exactly this.

And what everyone else has said.

I've been left-of-centre (not left, to be clear) and old-definition progressive/liberal my whole adult life.

Back when the Internet was all fields, I remember being agog at the Gish Galloping Pious Fraudsters of the Religious Right who were shamelessly lying about evolutionary biology, about birth control and abortion, about gay rights, etc. Then later on I got furious about the 21st Century Right shamelessly lying about Brexit, Trumpism, MeToo, etc. I was appalled at how they all seemed to be egging each other on, to further and further extremist reality-denying positions.

Then I realised that while I was looking Over There, the people on "my" side were revealing themselves as exactly the same Gish Galloping Pious Fraudsters who were shamelessly lying about their Bundles of Beliefs and egging each other on to further and further extremist reality-denying positions.

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MmePoppySeedDefage · 14/04/2024 08:39

SqueakyDinosaur · 13/04/2024 17:30

Interesting that even the Times won't allow comments on that article. Possibly they realise how angry people are and they know they'll have to delete a lot of them?

They were allowing comments first thing yesterday morning. Maybe there were felt to be some defamatory ones. The ones I saw were all strongly critical of the lovely Baroness.

Various people on Twitter have also been providing the evidence that she's being economical with the truth, too, including someone who confirms she would only agree to be on a BBC radio programme if he had to go on first, separately and wasn't allowed a rebuttal of any points she made. Silly Ruth, she's drawn all the more attention to her failure to debate by claiming she was always up to discuss.

If anyone else can remember it, the BBC is re-showing the 1970s 3 part series on the Pankhursts Shoulder to Shoulder on BBC 4 on Wednesday. Siân Phillips was born to play Emmeline. I remember watching it when it was first on and learning about the Suffragettes for the first time.

Lion400 · 14/04/2024 08:52

Kucinghitam · 14/04/2024 07:22

Exactly this.

And what everyone else has said.

I've been left-of-centre (not left, to be clear) and old-definition progressive/liberal my whole adult life.

Back when the Internet was all fields, I remember being agog at the Gish Galloping Pious Fraudsters of the Religious Right who were shamelessly lying about evolutionary biology, about birth control and abortion, about gay rights, etc. Then later on I got furious about the 21st Century Right shamelessly lying about Brexit, Trumpism, MeToo, etc. I was appalled at how they all seemed to be egging each other on, to further and further extremist reality-denying positions.

Then I realised that while I was looking Over There, the people on "my" side were revealing themselves as exactly the same Gish Galloping Pious Fraudsters who were shamelessly lying about their Bundles of Beliefs and egging each other on to further and further extremist reality-denying positions.

Yes. It’s worse though, because e didn’t expect it from the left, then. Who’d ever have thought the people’s party would betray all women. Unthinkable.

SqueakyDinosaur · 14/04/2024 09:31

If Starmer has any sense, he ought to be sucking up like mad to Rosie Duffield and Tonia Antoniazzi and giving them some prominence in the PLP.

Britinme · 14/04/2024 14:25

I wish Starmer had that much spine and sense.

BezMills · 14/04/2024 14:54

At the moment I struggle to see what Starmer is for. Not just his political stance, but what use is he? A leader who doesn't lead, a lawyer that can't win a debate, a politician with no political vision.

Clabony · 14/04/2024 15:55

I'm stuck with Ashley Dalton for an MP.
Send help.

SqueakyDinosaur · 14/04/2024 19:22

Mine is Rupa Huq, who lost the Labour whip for allegedly calling Kwasi Karteng an Oreo. I can think of a lot of far worse things I'd rather call him.

Gonners · 14/04/2024 19:35

Mine is "Sir" Roger Gale, a man whose office only responds to emails if they begin with "Thank you so very much, Sir Roger, for being so absolutely marvellous, you truly are a miracle and we are not worthy ... " . You can then go on to add the "and oh, by the way ..." but they don't respond to that bit.

Kucinghitam · 14/04/2024 19:55

My MP is on this list:
https://x.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1442783035389325313

https://x.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1442783035389325313

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SqueakyDinosaur · 14/04/2024 20:18

I'm sure you'll all be fascinated to read this extremely well-reasoned and not at all OTT response to the Cass Review from a trans blogger and journalist: https://hleehurley.substack.com/p/the-cass-review-a-government-sanctioned

And also, lots of "academics" have signed this letter criticising its methodology and so on. I'm sure they'd all score 100% in a quiz on the contents!
https://uncommon-scents.blogspot.com/2024/04/letter-from-academics-concerned-about.html

The Cass Review: A government-sanctioned attack on trans lives

We must not be silent. The deliberate omission of trans voices, the manipulation of data, the cruelty of denying vital care – all these acts demand our outrage.

https://hleehurley.substack.com/p/the-cass-review-a-government-sanctioned

Gonners · 14/04/2024 20:35

Interesting to see Dr. Andrew Wakefield, Strategic Autism Initiative on the list of signatories. Yes, he is "that" Dr AW.

SqueakyDinosaur · 14/04/2024 20:43

I would guess that he's one of very, very few with an actual science degree on that list. Even though he is a grifting charlatan.

Gonners · 14/04/2024 20:50

Another day, another bandwagon ...

DameMaud · 14/04/2024 23:06

SqueakyDinosaur · 14/04/2024 20:18

I'm sure you'll all be fascinated to read this extremely well-reasoned and not at all OTT response to the Cass Review from a trans blogger and journalist: https://hleehurley.substack.com/p/the-cass-review-a-government-sanctioned

And also, lots of "academics" have signed this letter criticising its methodology and so on. I'm sure they'd all score 100% in a quiz on the contents!
https://uncommon-scents.blogspot.com/2024/04/letter-from-academics-concerned-about.html

Some marvellous research on the signers (I know that's not a real word..Signaturees? Signy- people? Don't know. I'm tired and have brain fog. No matter) of that letter on pg 33 of this thread in case you've missed it:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5026968-no-more-puberty-blockers-for-children-from-the-nhs-reported-in-the-times?reply=134540987&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share

Page 33 | No more puberty blockers for children from the NHS - reported in the Times! | Mumsnet

This is massive - and long overdue https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/97ce2e81-2884-42f5-bb82-2a2778f2cc91?shareToken=9568e79f0683beea68ffe5e978b05a2...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5026968-no-more-puberty-blockers-for-children-from-the-nhs-reported-in-the-times?reply=134540987

EasternStandard · 14/04/2024 23:09

I’m hoping the Cass review has punctured some of the hold by gender. The language based on lies and obfuscation- not plain English

All of it from “culture wars” to the mess we hear and see. All designed to stop women just speaking plainly and rationally.

It gets harder to use those tactics when the harms to children are exposed. Surely

dunBle · 15/04/2024 02:59

I'm loving the incredulity in the responses to this tweet from Helen Lewis about Natasha Kennedy
https://twitter.com/helenlewis/status/1779524211083554821

https://twitter.com/helenlewis/status/1779524211083554821

mach2 · 15/04/2024 06:22

"Restricting access to life-saving treatments like puberty blockers and hormone therapy..."

I stopped reading the Substack article there.

Gonners · 15/04/2024 18:02

I like Helen Lewis, who is always entertaining on the Private Eye podcast "Page 94". The first 15-20 minutes of the most recent episode (#102) were about Scotland. The "boys" seem frankly bewildered by it all!

https://www.private-eye.co.uk/podcast

Page 94: The Private Eye Podcast

https://www.private-eye.co.uk/podcast

Boiledbeetle · 15/04/2024 21:14

IcakethereforeIam · 15/04/2024 20:55

Another article in the Guardian

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/apr/14/who-has-been-treated-most-unfairly-by-history

I'm tempted to tell them Graham Linehan although I think comments have closed.

Edited

I like the Guardian picks. I wonder who picked them?

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