And that's the difference isn't it? Women do not have the experience of the sexual thrills involved for men about being in a 'secret' and 'taboo' place where women are undressed, pulling down their knickers, inserting tampons...
hence the men posting selfies of themselves in this fabulous and exciting sexual theme park and posting fantasies about getting to help little girls insert tampons ffs.
It's ridiculous to try and pretend this isn't part of it. Women and their bodies and lives are not walking resources for men to play with. And men being sad about that is not going to hurt them.