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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Worrying Increase in Transphobia

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PorcelinaV · 10/09/2023 04:01

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/09/09/transphobia-uk-press-media-negative-coverage/

An increase in transphobic sentiment among the British public has been fuelled by hostile coverage of trans people from the right-wing press, argues data journalist Ell Folan....

Unfortunately, newspapers still have a great deal of influence on the public and political agenda in Britain, and nowhere is this more obvious than in how perceptions of trans rights have changed.

As recently as Feburary 2021, an absolute majority of British voters (51 per cent) agreed with the statement “a transgender woman is a woman”, including 6 in 10 women. Just 34 per cent disagreed. But after years of negative coverage from the press, those numbers have changed.

In April this year, only 33 per cent of voters agreed that trans women are women, with 47 per cent disagreeing....

It is clear that the media plays an important role in shaping public perceptions, and unless their negative coverage is corrected and refuted, public opinion will continue to worsen.

Transphobia is on the rise – and the press is to blame

An increase in public anti-trans sentiment has been fuelled by hostile coverage of trans issues by right-wing newspapers, argues Ell Folan.

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/09/09/transphobia-uk-press-media-negative-coverage

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inamarina · 11/09/2023 10:37

Messyhair321 · 10/09/2023 13:10

Well yes I mean people aren't going to dress up to abuse they will do that anyway. It's not trans people who are the problem.
Scaremongering is really an issue on this thread

They might very well dress up, because they know that if they do, women won’t be able to complain about a male person being in a female single sex space.
It gives them extra power - they can enter women‘s spaces, intimidate women, knowing that women probably won’t even dare to complain about it, because if the perpetrator is wearing a dress, the woman complaining will be likely regarded as transphobic.
I‘m sure you’re aware of it and just being disingenuous.

inamarina · 11/09/2023 10:39

MargotBamborough · 10/09/2023 13:12

They don't have to dress up. They don't have to do anything except say they are a woman if challenged.

How do we tell the difference between a trans person and an opportunist, and even if we can tell the difference what can we do about it?

That’s also true. They don’t even need to dress up, just utter the magic words ‚I‘m a woman‘.

MargotBamborough · 11/09/2023 10:43

If it weren't for the fact that it would cause distress to a number of women and girls, I would be really tempted to get my large, burly, bearded brother who genuinely wouldn't hurt a fly to go into the women's changing rooms at his local leisure centre, get changed, use the showers and wait to see if anyone challenged him. And if they did, what their reaction was to him saying, "I am a woman."

Just to prove a point.

AnSolas · 11/09/2023 10:55

Helleofabore · 11/09/2023 10:20

Yes. When I first read the teacher’s account, I was absolutely horrified.

Apparently, consensual sex in a school toilet is not a red flag safeguarding issue.

This shows an extra dimension of how girls are again considered acceptable collateral damage.

But even in a cubicle it is a semi-public area where other children are likely to be. So its teaching children that it is ok to have sex in public and involve other children (the general public) in their sexual activity.

It is more likely that other girls will be subjected having to avoid the bathrooms due to direct sexual harrassment

Clymene · 11/09/2023 10:56

MargotBamborough · 11/09/2023 10:43

If it weren't for the fact that it would cause distress to a number of women and girls, I would be really tempted to get my large, burly, bearded brother who genuinely wouldn't hurt a fly to go into the women's changing rooms at his local leisure centre, get changed, use the showers and wait to see if anyone challenged him. And if they did, what their reaction was to him saying, "I am a woman."

Just to prove a point.

I think that's already happening Sad

NoPuddingForYou · 11/09/2023 11:02

One problem (among many) is that it’s often seen as transphobic nowadays to accurately state that Transwomen are males who are “living as” women (whatever that’s supposed to mean.)

Being called phobic for not playing along with this is a bit silly.

Helleofabore · 11/09/2023 11:06

AnSolas · 11/09/2023 10:55

But even in a cubicle it is a semi-public area where other children are likely to be. So its teaching children that it is ok to have sex in public and involve other children (the general public) in their sexual activity.

It is more likely that other girls will be subjected having to avoid the bathrooms due to direct sexual harrassment

Absolutely!

I have a friend who is fighting their UK secondary school about gender neutral toilets (no female single sex spaces) because their teenaged daughters have been traumatised by couples in the next cubicle having sex.

It is not just in the USA, it is in the UK as well. And each of these decisions to remove single sex spaces in schools impacts many girls.

My own teen used to dehydrate so they didn’t use the toilets. It affects both girls and boys.

AnSolas · 11/09/2023 11:18

NoPuddingForYou · 11/09/2023 11:02

One problem (among many) is that it’s often seen as transphobic nowadays to accurately state that Transwomen are males who are “living as” women (whatever that’s supposed to mean.)

Being called phobic for not playing along with this is a bit silly.

who are “living as” women

In Ireland :

Wanting to stab you mother to death and rape her as she bleeds out apparently is A-OK with the current government.

Providing recognition for growing new citizens and caring for the new citizens post birth is a problem for the same government.

RedToothBrush · 11/09/2023 11:37

PorcelinaV · 10/09/2023 04:12

I blame The Guardian for not doing enough to refute the Daily Mail.

Now we have a majority of people denying the existence of trans people.

Let's get this straight.

No one is denying the existence of trans people.

What they are saying is that being trans is a belief system that conflates sex with gender. And since people can not change sex and sex remains important and relevant for a whole pile of reasons, it is correct to say that transwomen are men and transmen are women.

Where the issue lies is with evangelicals insisting that rights to single sex provision, homosexual protection and respect for other religious beliefs be bulldozed to appease and satisfy the demands of people that believe that sex is gender. This causes a variety of identifiable harms.

These harms are increasingly being exposed and the public are becoming aware of this.

Thus the propagation of the thought terminating cliché 'transwomen are women' is broken because people have stopped taking it at face value and have started to think about the real world implications and what the phrase actually means. And Pink news don't like this because they want to promote the cult like thinking still.

Worse still this zombie like chanting of mantras has done harm to trans people themselves because of the denialism going on.

This is an ideology that is at odds with reality and that's the bottom line.

People want to do the right thing, and be nice, but are realising that self ID and affirmation only approaches are deeply problematic and do harm. This bit hasn't changed. These people are the same people who are wanting to do the best thing for society. It's just that they realise the subject is a bit more complex than they originally thought and that we need to consider these issues and discuss them rather than blindly follow what we are told we should think.

This is not transphobia. This is understanding safeguarding and balancing the rights of multiple interest groups rather than a hierarchy of demands which is what TRAs wanted.

It's kinda tough shit to TRAs. It's important we don't do harm to anyone in the process of feeding their fantasy.

LoobiJee · 11/09/2023 11:39

NoPuddingForYou · 11/09/2023 11:02

One problem (among many) is that it’s often seen as transphobic nowadays to accurately state that Transwomen are males who are “living as” women (whatever that’s supposed to mean.)

Being called phobic for not playing along with this is a bit silly.

Indeed.

Rather than asking “How are you defining woman?” it can be more revealing to ask “How are you defining transwoman?”. For a ‘rabbit in the headlights’ reaction.

BaronMunchausen · 11/09/2023 11:40

Billi80 · 10/09/2023 23:17

On holiday with my (very right wing) mum we observed a trans woman go to the toilets. I asked my mum which she thought she should use. She obviously said the mens then asked me. I said the womens. Then we got on with our lunch. My mum tutted as she went into the womens toilet. People disagree on things and perceive things differently. It’s fine. It’s a shame that the far right are taking this over and that’s probably what’s increasing anti trans sentiment. They do own most of the media after all. I don’t think a bunch of terfs in an echo chamber really makes much difference. If the right were pro trans my mum would have said the womens…

You seem to have gone with the women's for tribal allegiance rather than for your own thought-out reasons? So your mum 'obviously' thought a male should use the male facilities because she's "very right wing".

There's really nothing left wing about reducing womanhood to feminine stereotypes. To whatever it was about this male that made you believe he was a woman. Toilets are segregated on the basis of biological sex, not social stereotypes. Latrines aren't in the gents because men like football, wear suits or whatever.

The most depressing thing about people who self identify as of the left but have a kneejerk tribal affiliation to this deeply regressive and sexist gender ideology and want to abolish safeguarding to convenience men, is that it suggests they may just be taking other positions from the tribal box-set rather than actually thinking about them.

LoobiJee · 11/09/2023 11:44

RedToothBrush · 11/09/2023 11:37

Let's get this straight.

No one is denying the existence of trans people.

What they are saying is that being trans is a belief system that conflates sex with gender. And since people can not change sex and sex remains important and relevant for a whole pile of reasons, it is correct to say that transwomen are men and transmen are women.

Where the issue lies is with evangelicals insisting that rights to single sex provision, homosexual protection and respect for other religious beliefs be bulldozed to appease and satisfy the demands of people that believe that sex is gender. This causes a variety of identifiable harms.

These harms are increasingly being exposed and the public are becoming aware of this.

Thus the propagation of the thought terminating cliché 'transwomen are women' is broken because people have stopped taking it at face value and have started to think about the real world implications and what the phrase actually means. And Pink news don't like this because they want to promote the cult like thinking still.

Worse still this zombie like chanting of mantras has done harm to trans people themselves because of the denialism going on.

This is an ideology that is at odds with reality and that's the bottom line.

People want to do the right thing, and be nice, but are realising that self ID and affirmation only approaches are deeply problematic and do harm. This bit hasn't changed. These people are the same people who are wanting to do the best thing for society. It's just that they realise the subject is a bit more complex than they originally thought and that we need to consider these issues and discuss them rather than blindly follow what we are told we should think.

This is not transphobia. This is understanding safeguarding and balancing the rights of multiple interest groups rather than a hierarchy of demands which is what TRAs wanted.

It's kinda tough shit to TRAs. It's important we don't do harm to anyone in the process of feeding their fantasy.

Superb summary.

Justwrong68 · 11/09/2023 11:51

Youthinkyoureuniqueyourejustastatistic · 10/09/2023 09:22

For me, it’s nothing to do with right wing media (which I don’t use) and absolutely everything to do with not being able to have a sensible conversation on women only spaces and sports without being called a Terf and having personal insults thrown by TRAs.

There is a glaring discrepancy though. Mainstream news outlets and daytime chat shows etc won't touch the subject. They could use the excuse that it's not news worthy but if it weren't for GBN and talk tv, it would be a media blackout

Justwrong68 · 11/09/2023 11:54

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 09:31

Slow handclap for @Messyhair321 and their phalanx of tired straw men.

This

Justwrong68 · 11/09/2023 11:58

Katiemag · 10/09/2023 09:31

I agree with you, OP.

I think history has shown that every generation has a group in society that it is considered acceptable to discriminate against. Last generation it was gay people, the generation before it was people of colour.

Currently, it is trans people.

The next generation, a new group will be targeted.

[I know there is still homophobia and racism in society but it’s - happily - not socially acceptable in most mainstream sectors of society. But transphobia is].

it’s like there’s an overwhelming human urge to “other” one sector of society - we need a group on whom to hang all our fears about what is wrong in society. I find it really sad & scary actually.

It sounds like you're presuming GCs are one group of people. A lot of us are gay (fought for our rights in the 80s), left wing/socialist, feminist and certainly 'other', 'alt' and mostly caring and conscientious. Oh and I forgot, some of us are black.

MargotBamborough · 11/09/2023 12:21

LoobiJee · 11/09/2023 11:39

Indeed.

Rather than asking “How are you defining woman?” it can be more revealing to ask “How are you defining transwoman?”. For a ‘rabbit in the headlights’ reaction.

Edited

You know, I don't do this often enough.

I've been round and round the houses on what a woman is but the question, "What is a trans woman?" is much better.

"What is a trans woman?"
"Someone who identifies as woman but was not assigned female at birth."
"Can I be a trans woman?"
"No."
"Why not?"
"Because you were assigned female at birth."
"What were trans women assigned at birth?"
"Male."
"So you have to be biologically male in order to be a trans woman then?"

inamarina · 11/09/2023 12:22

PaminaMozart · 10/09/2023 14:47

I'm very concerned about children who identify as trans because I think it is covering many other issues and is leading to harm

Indeed, and to me this is actually the saddest aspect of this whole debate. (Hopefully) well meaning people focusing on transgender concerns, and potentially messing up children and destroying their lives, while the real issues remain buried and ignored.

I also don’t get it when reasonable, intelligent people go all ‚Yay, trans kids!‘ - to me it seems like they’re celebrating children/ teenagers being deeply unhappy with their sexed bodies which they can’t really change anyway.
What’s there to celebrate?

MargotBamborough · 11/09/2023 12:25

BaronMunchausen · 11/09/2023 11:40

You seem to have gone with the women's for tribal allegiance rather than for your own thought-out reasons? So your mum 'obviously' thought a male should use the male facilities because she's "very right wing".

There's really nothing left wing about reducing womanhood to feminine stereotypes. To whatever it was about this male that made you believe he was a woman. Toilets are segregated on the basis of biological sex, not social stereotypes. Latrines aren't in the gents because men like football, wear suits or whatever.

The most depressing thing about people who self identify as of the left but have a kneejerk tribal affiliation to this deeply regressive and sexist gender ideology and want to abolish safeguarding to convenience men, is that it suggests they may just be taking other positions from the tribal box-set rather than actually thinking about them.

Absolutely this.

If believing that biological sex is real and important is a right wing position and believing that someone's subjectively experienced gender identity is more important than their biological sex and should be prioritised even to the extent of male sex offenders being housed in women's prisons if they believe this better corresponds to their gender identity (à la Lisa Nandy) is a left wing position, surely the only thing we can sensibly conclude from that is that the political left has lost its goddamn mind and wonder what else they might be wrong about.

JayAlfredPrufrock · 11/09/2023 12:35

Heaven forfend.

inamarina · 11/09/2023 12:38

terryleather · 10/09/2023 15:10

"...it's not about men pretending to be women."

Actually it is.

Men can't be woman, nothing they do or say can change that.

We're at the mind blowing point in history where all it takes to have society collude in an individuals' pseudo reality is a self declaration of a special identity and everyone else has to go along with it while truth, material reality, free speech, safeguarding, and the rights of half the population get thrown in the bin.

Genderism is a male supremacist movement - it centres males and their wants and desires under the guise of a civil rights movement and plenty have fallen for it. And the apparent ease with which almost all institutions have caved to it shows how fragile women's rights actually are.

Once you see it for what it is you can't unsee it.

So Pink News et al can keep on with the testerical accusations of transphobia as much as they want, that particular accusation is losing much of its power, and the rest of us can get on with fighting this ridiculous and harmful ideology.

We're at the mind blowing point in history where all it takes to have society collude in an individuals' pseudo reality is a self declaration of a special identity and everyone else has to go along with it

It‘s mind-boggling that when this particular issue is concerned, an individual‘s own reality trumps objective truth. The same rule doesn’t really apply in our situations.
I can’t walk into the office of my dream employer, plonk myself onto a chair, because I‘ve decided I work there.
I can’t break in and make myself at home in a house I‘d like to live in.
I can’t change my age and either retire early or, in order to avoid age discrimination, make myself the age most desirable to employers.
But a man can apparently ‚become’ a woman simply by saying so.

GailBlancheViola · 11/09/2023 12:46

Well yes I mean people aren't going to dress up to abuse they will do that anyway.

Really? Have you been living under a rock?

What else wouldn't people do to abuse? Go into the priesthood perhaps? Or teach? Or coach? All of which require the investment of time and the achieving of qualifications? No, no, of course no-one who wanted to abuse would go to those lengths, would they?

The Cambridge Rapist dressed up in order to (1) access female only areas and (2) to escape afterwards. Katie Dolatowski, a gentle soul if ever there was one used their trans status (self id'd as far as I can find out) to assault a 12 year old and a 10 year old girl in the female toilets of a supermarket, one assault involved holding a knife to the throat of the girl. This gentle soul then went on to batter a male inmate in prison in order to be moved to the female prison estate.

Your knowledge of safeguarding is risible and your apologies for male violence abhorrent.

JayAlfredPrufrock · 11/09/2023 12:54

Go Germaine ❤️

Billi80 · 11/09/2023 12:55

ChokkaQuokka · 11/09/2023 00:26

Oh, so you’re happy to condemn those who try to get women with those different opinions sacked? Who scream, send rape and death threats, who threaten parents who have those different opinions with the loss of custody of their children? You’re happy to accommodate the different opinions of the women in prison who don’t want to be assaulted by penis-owning sex offenders who’ve been moved to women’s prison by saying the magic words? You’re happy to accommodate lesbians wanting a lesbian-only event?

No, I’m guessing you are “happy” for others to have a different opinion but you’re still going to impose yours on the rest of society through control of government policy and other institutions?

Crack on, then.

Nope, not happy with any of the above. But thanks for giving such an excellent example of straw manning.

Brefugee · 11/09/2023 13:40

you are on the "side" of TRAs and #BeKind and TWAW, right?

Then you are for all those things, whether you like it or not.

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