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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Cheryl Hole on LGBTQ representation

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ArabeIIaKarenScott · 16/08/2023 09:47

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-essex-66513419

'Cheryl has promised to "bring the glamour" to the kitchen but has also been "cooking my little Essex bum off" in preparation.
She added like every Essex girl she is a lover of a chippy at the end of a night out and always had a hankering for a battered sausage or saveloy.'

Cheryl Hole in the Masterchef kitchen

Celebrity MasterChef: Cheryl Hole on why LGBTQ+ representation is important

The drag star says being on Celebrity MasterChef is a way to have voices of the LGBTQ+ community heard.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-essex-66513419?at_bbc_team=editorial&at_campaign=Social_Flow&at_campaign_type=owned&at_format=link&at_link_id=8EA99BA6-3BF5-11EE-BCF0-209FED5F52B7&at_link_origin=BBCNews&at_link_type=web_link&at_medium=social&at_ptr_name=twitter&xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Bbbc.news.twitter%5D-%5Bheadline%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D

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lechiffre55 · 17/08/2023 18:29

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lechiffre55 · 17/08/2023 18:31

"The full BBC complaints process consists of three stages -Stage 1a, 1b and 2. If you are unhappy with the response from the BBC at each of stage 1a and 1b, you can ask the BBC to look at it again. Stage 2 is the final stage, where you can complain to the BBC Executive Complaints Unit, the ECU. You should wait to see if you are happy with the BBC ECU’s final response before making a complaint to Ofcom."

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 19:00

I'm pretty damn GC but "Hole" is referring to, I believe, the way in some which gay men choose to have sex, rather than anything to do with women.

Also no such thing as women's or men's clothes.

However - this style of drag is absolutely not for children. We can all agree on that.

ArabeIIaKarenScott · 17/08/2023 19:04

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 19:00

I'm pretty damn GC but "Hole" is referring to, I believe, the way in some which gay men choose to have sex, rather than anything to do with women.

Also no such thing as women's or men's clothes.

However - this style of drag is absolutely not for children. We can all agree on that.

it's a play on 'Cheryl Cole', a woman, used by a man who dresses up to exaggeratedly impersonate women.

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dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 19:05

ArabeIIaKarenScott · 17/08/2023 19:04

it's a play on 'Cheryl Cole', a woman, used by a man who dresses up to exaggeratedly impersonate women.

Well aware of that. I'm just seeing people complain that the 'hole' refers to women, rather than... forgive me, but anus.

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 19:05

I think clarity is important when criticising this, is all.

ArabeIIaKarenScott · 17/08/2023 19:15

Well, tbh, whether it refers to a vagina or an anus, I'd say the name is not what I'd call suitable family entertainment.

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LoobiJee · 17/08/2023 19:27

Takethefrickinhintalready · 17/08/2023 10:02

This is the most brilliantly satisfying response. Absolutely nailed it. @LoobiJee if you don't send this to the BBC, I will. (All credit to you!).

Feel free to send it to them @Takethefrickinhintalready

ApocalipstickNow · 17/08/2023 19:27

“So you see, Little Susie, it’s just a joke about anal sex, that’s all. What’s that? It’s sex up the bum, dear.”

Snowypeaks · 17/08/2023 19:38

Also no such thing as women's or men's clothes.

I've seen this opinion a lot, but I disagree. Women's clothes are designed for women's bodies - our shape and skeletal proportions and overall greater degree of plumpness. Women's trousers are cut differently to men's. Roomier through the hips and thighs and no need for the extra material at the front. Shorter legs.
Men's clothes can be "skirts" or "dresses" - but they are versions designed for men's shape and proportions and different areas of adiposity. Togas, tunics, kilts. Sarongs, maybe. All "dresses" and "skirts" for men. There are plenty of "comfortable" or non-standard male garb options. If they choose women's clothes, it's for a reason. And it's not the fit.

Obviously there is some overlap in shape, proportions, etc and a tall, lean swimmer type of woman would look great in men's trousers, for example. But basically a dressmaker's model for a man is different to one for a woman.

Snowypeaks · 17/08/2023 19:38

ApocalipstickNow · 17/08/2023 19:27

“So you see, Little Susie, it’s just a joke about anal sex, that’s all. What’s that? It’s sex up the bum, dear.”

😂😂

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 19:49

ArabeIIaKarenScott · 17/08/2023 19:15

Well, tbh, whether it refers to a vagina or an anus, I'd say the name is not what I'd call suitable family entertainment.

Which is exactly what I said in my post. I just believe we should be clear what we're arguing against.

RebelliousCow · 17/08/2023 20:12

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 19:05

I think clarity is important when criticising this, is all.

The hole is clearly a euphemism for the female sexual organ.

Most drag names involve over-blown depictions of female steroptypes or bodily parts/functions.

I've recently come across 'Violet Period Pain' and 'Anna Bortion' on fly-posting in my city

RebelliousCow · 17/08/2023 20:15

Cheryl Hole first featured on Ru Pauls' Drag race as far as I'm aware? at about the same timne as 'Baga Chipz' - which was a depiction of a cheap working class 'slag' with disgusting smelling genitalia.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 17/08/2023 20:16

I love @LoobiJee 's idea of getting the BBC to explain. Then we can ask them if they expect all the public to know that? What about the public who don't already know? What about people who know it might have more than one meaning, one for the cool girls and one for everyone else, and don't what to hazard a guess at which one the artiste means?

Perhaps the Beeb needs to spell it out to everyone so we all know not to be offended. A public information campaign! Grin

RebelliousCow · 17/08/2023 20:22

To the poster that suggested that there was " no such thing as men's and women's clothes" - what is it then that you think men are expected to do to show that they have " lived as a woman for two years" when applying for a GRC? Wearing " women's clothes" is certainly one of them.

topnoddy · 17/08/2023 20:27

I wonder if n years to come this will be seen as we see the Black and White minstrels now

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 17/08/2023 20:34

In any case whichever orifice is meant, it's insulting to attach it to a woman's name, and given the possible-to obvious meaning... oh I didn't mean that when I called him the n-word, everyone knows that in my culture it means something quite harmless, inclusive and complimentary.

How difficult can it be to avoid sexual insults, assuming you actually want to, of course?

To the poster that suggested that there was " no such thing as men's and women's clothes"

If there wasn't then there couldn't be drag in the first place.

Which is not to say that unisex clothing would get rid of drag. All societies have social signals about what sex people are, more or less subtle ones, usually including clothes. If not clothes then drag artists would highlight the other social signals instead. Like walks, voices, gestures, topics of conversation, anything really. But we do have different expectations for men's and women's clothes, and drag artists use and exaggerate the ones for the other sex. There's no such thing as a unisex drag performance.

Snowypeaks · 17/08/2023 20:34

topnoddy · 17/08/2023 20:27

I wonder if n years to come this will be seen as we see the Black and White minstrels now

I sincerely hope so.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 17/08/2023 20:44

Actually I like the idea of a unisex drag show. I can't be the first to think of it - has anyone done it? Performer turns up in jeans, loose T shirt, trainers, shortish hair or hair tied back in a pony tail with a plain band.

Snowypeaks · 17/08/2023 20:52

Kimonos are sort of unisex. But even then there are differences in the style reflecting both the different physiques and gender norms. Plus there's this...
Men and women also have a noticeable difference in attaching sleeves to the body of the kimono. While men's kimonos usually have fully sewn on sleeves that can be used as a pocket for a wallet, women's sleeves are attached only with the upper part of the sleeve, above the shoulder.

Women aren't allowed pockets. Typical!

https://tealao.com/en/blog/difference-between-mens-and-womens-kimono

Difference between men’s and women’s kimono | TeaLao

Kimono - essential part of Japanese culture. There are at least 16 diiferent types of women kimono. We will cover this topic another day. Today we are looking at differences between men's and women's kimono, shall we?

https://tealao.com/en/blog/difference-between-mens-and-womens-kimono

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 20:56

RebelliousCow · 17/08/2023 20:22

To the poster that suggested that there was " no such thing as men's and women's clothes" - what is it then that you think men are expected to do to show that they have " lived as a woman for two years" when applying for a GRC? Wearing " women's clothes" is certainly one of them.

Hello, it's me. I'm GC and don't believe GRCs should be handed out. Don't believe in gender at all, actually. Certainly don't believe in sexed clothes. I'll cede the point on things that are structured differently for sexed bodies, but trousers, dresses, etc as categories? Nope.

betterchange · 17/08/2023 21:08

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 20:56

Hello, it's me. I'm GC and don't believe GRCs should be handed out. Don't believe in gender at all, actually. Certainly don't believe in sexed clothes. I'll cede the point on things that are structured differently for sexed bodies, but trousers, dresses, etc as categories? Nope.

May I ask for clarification on what a "sexed body" is?

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 21:23

betterchange · 17/08/2023 21:08

May I ask for clarification on what a "sexed body" is?

Sure. Referring to the physical differences between a woman's body and a man's body.

RebelliousCow · 18/08/2023 08:22

dontjudgemeagain · 17/08/2023 20:56

Hello, it's me. I'm GC and don't believe GRCs should be handed out. Don't believe in gender at all, actually. Certainly don't believe in sexed clothes. I'll cede the point on things that are structured differently for sexed bodies, but trousers, dresses, etc as categories? Nope.

Yes, in a theoretical world - but that is not how the actual world works. Certainly not when it comes to items of clothing that are designated 'women's clothing' ( skirts/dresses/high heels/bras/lingerie and so on). Far lesss so when it comes to ietms designated male clothing.

That males have far les room for manoeuvre/expression may be one of the reasons behind the male procilvity for cross dressing/transvestitism. Eddie Izzard used to say "these are not women's clothes, they are my clothes" - though he eventually shnaged his mind, didn't he?