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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Entitled male refused access to female changing area (despite wearing skirt)

788 replies

ACatCalledPushka · 23/07/2023 22:00

Well done to the hotel staff. ‘trans ‘woman’ given key to the unisex changing room instead of the female changing room ‘trans woman’ not happy.

https://twitter.com/anneicoombes/status/1683090524641566721?s=46&t=5tHsrgY5T97exTqeFD4LWg

https://twitter.com/anneicoombes/status/1683090524641566721?s=46&t=5tHsrgY5T97exTqeFD4LWg

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Boiledbeetle · 31/07/2023 17:57

MavisMcMinty · 31/07/2023 17:53

Sews lips shut.

😁

Datun · 31/07/2023 17:59

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 17:52

RMW grasping at straws if all RMW can complain about is the use of the word 'wandering'. If only women's worries were as insignificant as Robin's.

Yes, lol. It's the description of the man walking into the teenage changing room that's the problem 🤣

Datun · 31/07/2023 18:00

It's almost ironic how unfair it must feel when the subtleties of a minor language tweak are used in a way that works against you.

😆

Hepwo · 31/07/2023 18:05

I'm going to have to take issue with Datun saying swan in and swan out.

It's an insult to swans.

PriamFarrl · 31/07/2023 18:08

Any decent man wouldn’t entertain walking through a changing room being used by women and girls.

DeanElderberry · 31/07/2023 18:08

Wandering through is a bit over-euphemistic though, it suggests absent-minded, accidental presence. It was clearly quite deliberate walking through a place Anne did not need to walk through for some clear motive of Anne's own.

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 18:08

I'm trying to imagine Anne and wondering how she got from one end of the changing room to the other 🤔Tiptoe? Glide? March? Skip? So many possibilities

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 18:10

My guess is very slowly 🐌

viques · 31/07/2023 18:13

SerafinasGoose · 31/07/2023 16:50

And yet again, history (the right side) shows how the ones pushing hardest for unfettered access to women's and girls' spaces are the ones who have the least business anywhere near them.

QED.

To be fair you could sort of imagine a situation where someone interested in swimming typed “breast” and then “ stroke” into a search engine and accidentally found themselves on a site about breastfeeding and masturbation.

No?

toomanytrees · 31/07/2023 18:17

To me, these actions suggest a very deliberate long term campaign with milestones and tactics. It begins with small transgressions and when no push back is experienced, escalation. All of this is done with a cloak (disguise) of ever so humble reasonableness and harmlessness which both disarms objectors and provides some plausible deniability. The confusion over the law and DEI provide cover. This is not a delusion. People like this exhibit dark triad personality traits. They need a firm "no" in response.

MavisMcMinty · 31/07/2023 18:17

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 18:08

I'm trying to imagine Anne and wondering how she got from one end of the changing room to the other 🤔Tiptoe? Glide? March? Skip? So many possibilities

Wielding a truncheon yelling “Respect my authoritah”?

(For any South Park fans.)

IcakethereforeIam · 31/07/2023 18:19

Skid. Leaving a mark!

MavisMcMinty · 31/07/2023 18:23

God, I love that film.

Datun · 31/07/2023 18:28

Hepwo · 31/07/2023 18:05

I'm going to have to take issue with Datun saying swan in and swan out.

It's an insult to swans.

Sorry. There were quite a few other words I could have used. But, you know - monitorz earwigging..

Datun · 31/07/2023 18:31

MavisMcMinty · 31/07/2023 18:23

Or like this?

"I tell ya, it's a whole different sex!"

🤣

SabrinaThwaite · 31/07/2023 18:34

Boiledbeetle · 31/07/2023 17:36

Sits on hands.

I wish I could read that exchange.

Unfortunately the Bundled One has blocked me (I think I pointed out to someone Semenya’s biological sex and got stuck on a TRA block list - bloody facts eh?).

MavisMcMinty · 31/07/2023 18:36

Datun · 31/07/2023 18:31

"I tell ya, it's a whole different sex!"

🤣

Heh, it’s an apposite clip in so many ways.

IcakethereforeIam · 31/07/2023 18:38
Monty Python Swing Dance GIF

This is actual footage

MrsOvertonsWindow · 31/07/2023 18:38

toomanytrees · 31/07/2023 18:17

To me, these actions suggest a very deliberate long term campaign with milestones and tactics. It begins with small transgressions and when no push back is experienced, escalation. All of this is done with a cloak (disguise) of ever so humble reasonableness and harmlessness which both disarms objectors and provides some plausible deniability. The confusion over the law and DEI provide cover. This is not a delusion. People like this exhibit dark triad personality traits. They need a firm "no" in response.

Agreed. We've always known that this assault on women's boundaries and safety is the target of too many middle aged men. This is particularly stark as it was teenage girls naked in a changing room all too scared to complain in case they were accused of transphobia!
I saw this earlier - it's a barrister who is not in the pay of any biased lobby groups and who, as far as I know, does not misrepresent the law for their own agenda. He's arguing that the law clearly allows organisations to legitimately bar men (no matter how they identify) from accessing naked women and girls in changing rooms and it needs amending to make this absolutely clear.

Why the Equality Act Needs Amending!

Read the story:https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12350741/Parents-raised-concerns-transgender-pool-official-using-womens-changing-room-time-young-girl...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vdUFdj7gcw

SabrinaThwaite · 31/07/2023 18:40

viques · 31/07/2023 18:13

To be fair you could sort of imagine a situation where someone interested in swimming typed “breast” and then “ stroke” into a search engine and accidentally found themselves on a site about breastfeeding and masturbation.

No?

I’ve used breaststroke as a search term quite often, but I only get YouTube videos on swimming technique.

What am I doing wrong?

(Actually, don’t answer that).

Boiledbeetle · 31/07/2023 18:42

SabrinaThwaite · 31/07/2023 18:34

I wish I could read that exchange.

Unfortunately the Bundled One has blocked me (I think I pointed out to someone Semenya’s biological sex and got stuck on a TRA block list - bloody facts eh?).

I have them on mute to stop me responding to their tweets, as the temptation is too great if I see them!😁

I had to close my eyes to take the attached!

Entitled male refused access to female changing area (despite wearing skirt)
Entitled male refused access to female changing area (despite wearing skirt)
SabrinaThwaite · 31/07/2023 18:45

Ta muchly @Boiledbeetle !

heathspeedwell · 31/07/2023 18:50

I keep thinking about those poor teenage girls trying to get in and out of uncomfortable costumes. Trying to concentrate on winning the races they have trained for, got up at the crack of dawn for, given up so much for.

And then an obviously male person (Coombes has said that they 'don't pass') has been wandering around while they are undressed and made then feel awkward and vulnerable and embarrassed.

There are a huge number of reasons why we should be encouraging girls to do sport. This kind of uncomfortable experience will put many girls off for life.

Is one male person's desire for validation more important than hundreds of girls' need to enjoy exercise?

GailBlancheViola · 31/07/2023 18:51

I do love it when the AC's of this world take to Twitter and express their unreasonable outrage and then get hoist by their own petard by people looking behind the scenes.