Instructing the women to say nothing and don't stare if they believe someone is in their toilets and changing rooms that they feel shouldn't be there! How fucking demeaning to women and girls.
💯%. There are posters on the walls in many of these institutions to this effect. 'Protect them from harm' is one of the admonitions contained on these nasty little public documents.
As though protection of others always automatically comes under women's remit. Unless, of course, we're protecting our daughters in the female changing areas from would-be predators. Or protecting ourselves if we have religious objections or have been sexually assualted in the past. Of course that is impermissible. In that circumstance, we are bigots. We are not able to offer a 'balanced' discussion.
As to protecting them from harm, what exactly do they expect a woman to do against a determined male assailant who is, by virtue of his biological sex, bigger, stronger, and more aggressive than we are?
How is it somehow women's responsibility to protect trans women from other men, when they are the ones turning our facilities into a mixed sex free-for-all in the first place? How on earth does even the most indoctrinated double-thinker square that particular circle?
Who are the ones suggesting 'TERFs' should be kerb-stomped and decapitated, sending them rape and death threats, chucking cans of tomato soup over them, telling them they should 'die in a grease fire?'
And how many feminists are responding in kind to this aggressive verbal and threatening behaviour in kind? A cursory search should satisfy any lingering doubters' curiosity on that point.
There's your 'balance'.