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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I guess this should be an AIBU to be angry

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Worldgonecrazy · 16/07/2023 14:09

Yesterday early afternoon, walking down the local High Street in a small market town on the south coast. About 15ft ahead of me I immediately spotted a man, walking with, I presume, his wife. The man had longish grey curly hair, was carrying a small handbag in the crook of his arm and wearing a very, very short white pleated skirt made of a flimsy material. It was a very windy day, so every few seconds the man’s skirt would lift in the wind to reveal his pink lacy underwear. He knew what he was wearing and knew what he was doing, allowing his fetish to take place in front of unwilling and unwitting participants, including children. No doubt he went home and wanked himself stupid afterwards.

I am so angry that if I had called him out for the autogynephillic pervert he was, I am the one who would be castigated as a bigot. And as for how wife, facilitating and supporting this utter bullshit! I am so angry that these men are allowed to get away with these behaviours. I guess most normal men would just point and laugh and not think too deeply about it.

I feel completely impotent and annoyed that i didn’t say anything.

sorry - just needed a rant!

OP posts:
ArabeIIaScott · 20/07/2023 11:46

Worldgonecrazy · 18/07/2023 10:50

I am not blaming the victim. I am saying she has agency over whether she takes part in his fetish to publicly expose himself when they both know children will be around. It’s others who seem to suggest women are entirely powerless and have no autonomy. I think better of women.

The perpetrator is the one who disgusts and angers me the most. However I also think the woman is disgusting for supporting the perpetrator to commit harm to children.

I think you may benefit from learning about abuse and coercive control. It's not the wife's fault her husband is an abuser.

NotTerfNorCis · 20/07/2023 11:50

Yeah. This is not someone struggling tragically with the sense of being trapped in the wrong body. This is a sexual orientation.

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