This is interesting about blaming the parents.
https://loreleihatpin.substack.com/p/transhausen-by-proxy-a-few-thoughts
Parents expect doctors to be the experts. If the doctors are saying that transing the child is the right thing to do, how likely is it that the parents will go against this? Ultimately it's the doctors who are to blame.
In some places there's also the threat of having their child taken into care if they don't comply. There are also schools pushing this ideology and keeping the child's trans identity secret from their parents.
It's easy to blame the parents, but in many, if not most cases, they are not where the blame should lie. And unless they're doctors issuing prescriptions for puberty blockers or hormones or surgeons carrying out these operations they are not the ones with the power to call a halt to this.
From the link:
Where Munchausen and Munchausen by proxy is a patient driven malady, that always relied on clinicians to unwittingly facilitate it, the transitioning of children is socially and medically driven. In this new phenomenon it is parents who are the ones being relied on to facilitate it, instead. I suggest, as lay people, they are frequently now the unwitting ones. It is all too easy for them to be ignorant of the harm involved, because of their lack of medical knowledge and their own submersion in these ideas.