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Nancy Kelly wants us to support this man's fight to play rugby with women.

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DerekFaker · 16/05/2023 11:03

Mask off. And replies off as well.

"If you can, support @tigergirl_70 in her fight for an inclusive rugby game #MakeSportEveronesGame"

https://twitter.com/Nancy_M_K/status/1657427311036170242?t=Kt2hAR8OUgKDmG-twWbz5Q&s=19

Nancy Kelly wants us to support this man's fight to play rugby with women.
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puffyisgood · 17/05/2023 10:07

Chersfrozenface · 17/05/2023 07:27

On a previous thread a poster said they had a transman relative who played in a local men's team

I can see that happening. Round here there are clubs struggling to field 15 players who would take anyone with a pulse. Bottom of local leagues, never going to win much, just don't want to forfeit a match. Their male players are not at risk.

Also, World Rugby says "Transgender men may play men's rugby having provided confirmation of physical ability" and gives details of that confirmation, which include "Written acknowledgement and acceptance by the player of the associated risks of playing contact rugby with males who are statistically likely to be stronger, faster and heavier than them, given the predictions this combination of variables makes for injury risk".

I honestly can't see transmen making the cut anywhere but the lowest levels

Unless and until litigation occurs casting doubt on the validity of the disclaimer above, and consequences for compensation and insurance become evident, I can't see men caring about transmen in the game from that perspective either.

You're right, this Tigger must weigh, what, 20 stone plus, on the strength of that and (apparently) some experience playing decades ago there are many very low level men's teams who'd very happily offer a place as a front row forward, the position that's always hardest to fill.

Chersfrozenface · 17/05/2023 10:21

puffyisgood · 17/05/2023 10:07

You're right, this Tigger must weigh, what, 20 stone plus, on the strength of that and (apparently) some experience playing decades ago there are many very low level men's teams who'd very happily offer a place as a front row forward, the position that's always hardest to fill.

absolutely.

But that would only work for TG if TG actually just wanted to play rugby.

FannyCann · 17/05/2023 10:29

OMG the comments on the crowdfunder have taken off! Some hilarious ones and I see the wonderful Jo March has bunged £10 to see this go to court.

Do we now have to start digging for the "other side" in order to get these cases thrashed out in court?

FannyCann · 17/05/2023 10:33

My phone won't post screenshots for some reason but here's one. 👀🍿

"Twitter has permanently suspended me, no doubt because I know men like you don't belong in women's sports. Here is a fiver. Take your case & lose. I'll eat popcorn while reading Tribunal Tweets. Oh & for those of you who don't know, he is heterosexual."

ResisterRex · 17/05/2023 10:35

The comments have indeed taken a 🍿 turn. Like this one:

"Here is £5 to fund a support squirrel that can comfort you in court when your ridiculous case is being ripped apart KEEP MEN OUT OF FEMALE SPORT"

Helleofabore · 17/05/2023 10:35

Can crowdfunder delete comments? I hope not.

SinnerBoy · 17/05/2023 10:37

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GailBlancheViola · 17/05/2023 10:38

I imagine that the latest comments on the Crowdfunder are not what either Tigger or Nancy Kelley had in mind.

GailBlancheViola · 17/05/2023 10:42

Oops SinnerBoy ruffled some feather (or fur) there.

It will certainly be a case worth tuning in for - scientific fact vs feelings.

littlbrowndog · 17/05/2023 10:44

I like this

Nancy Kelly wants us to support this man's fight to play rugby with women.
IcakethereforeIam · 17/05/2023 11:09

I read the Rod Fleming article linked upthread, I know nothing about the author, if he's respected (or not) in this field, I'm not qualified to judge myself but this bit is almost eerie (sorry if MN's formatting makes it huge)

Nancy Kelly wants us to support this man's fight to play rugby with women.
RealityFan · 17/05/2023 11:17

IcakethereforeIam · 17/05/2023 11:09

I read the Rod Fleming article linked upthread, I know nothing about the author, if he's respected (or not) in this field, I'm not qualified to judge myself but this bit is almost eerie (sorry if MN's formatting makes it huge)

Wow, is that coercive control, the artefact over the host? Instead of these men realising they as host need to address and eradicate the poisonous artefact, they give into it and welcome it, deep diving into the world of porn and hyper misogyny.

The artefact continues to and ramps up the hate of the host ("when do you become a fucking woman?!"), and the host more and more accepts and encourages the artefact ("wow, I really do look good in my wife's knickers").

And trans activism gives these hosts the societal green light to live out this toxic fantasy and impose it on the 51%.

SinnerBoy · 17/05/2023 11:33

Hmm. Perhaps I shouldn't have named everybody's favourite lawyer and hoped they wouldn't win the case...

Ofcourseshecan · 17/05/2023 11:47

opponents to men participating in women's sports "need to be dragged, kicking and screaming”

I love it when they accidentally reveal exactly what they want!

Hepwo · 17/05/2023 11:54

RealityFan · 17/05/2023 11:17

Wow, is that coercive control, the artefact over the host? Instead of these men realising they as host need to address and eradicate the poisonous artefact, they give into it and welcome it, deep diving into the world of porn and hyper misogyny.

The artefact continues to and ramps up the hate of the host ("when do you become a fucking woman?!"), and the host more and more accepts and encourages the artefact ("wow, I really do look good in my wife's knickers").

And trans activism gives these hosts the societal green light to live out this toxic fantasy and impose it on the 51%.

It's okay RealityFan, there's help available for them. Only 187 dollars.

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RealityFan · 17/05/2023 11:56

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DarkDayforMN · 17/05/2023 12:24

I know nothing about the author, if he's respected (or not) in this field

I don't think Rod Fleming is respected at all - IIRC he's a GAMP who is interested in all this because of his fetish for having sex with Asian "ladyboys." And I don't think all those photos of very young boys in sexualised poses which accompany the article were chosen for educational purposes. 😖Fairly sure he is also wildly misogynistic.

But that article is fascinating and I'm inclined to believe his insights. I've often thought there seems to be something like a host-parasite relationship between AGP men and their female persona.

BewaretheIckabog · 17/05/2023 12:26

What’s even more scary is Jill has pledged £50 because Jill is ‘fighting the same fight with English boxing’.

IcakethereforeIam · 17/05/2023 12:41

@DarkDayforMN I think I was getting that impression from my brief dabble in his work, hence the disclaimers. Ick! But it was fascinating. The mention of 'cross-dreamers', men who have the urge but don't indulge it, or wouldn't have except for the current climate.

CurtainsWaft · 17/05/2023 12:52

I have some knowledge of this person and the situation.

Curtiss trained with Hove Women's RFC from 2012-22. Hove Men's RFC have three men's teams, and a Vets team. The Sea Serpents (a specific LGBT team) also train at Hove Rec where Hove RFC are based.

Curtiss has plenty of playing options with other biological men. The only option closed to him now is playing with Hove Women's II. This team has a lot of experienced players, but is also the funnel from the U18's team, so has a lot of players aged around 18/19 every year. The majority of these players are fit and athletic and about half the mass of Curtiss.

Changing facilities at Hove RFC are limited, and many women chose not to use the facilities. However, Curtiss is a heterosexual male, who has implied in his blog that it would not be safe for trans women to use male facilities, so we can guess that he would choose to go in with the women rather than men.

His desire to be part of Hove Women's II is just about validation and gratification. Nothing else.

It is great to see the Crowdfunder being subverted. Bring on the challenge!

Nancy Kelly wants us to support this man's fight to play rugby with women.
CurtainsWaft · 17/05/2023 12:57

I also want to add - the (female) coach of the team is hugely supportive of Curtiss. Totally 'Be Kind' and a big LGBT ally. Many of the team are lesbian, many are young. Quite a few attend Brighton or Sussex Unis. They have been totally captured. They talk of Curtiss's hard life and his struggles, and how they aren't afraid of him and just feel sorry that he is discriminated against. It is sad to hear this capitulation.

Apparently, his rugby is crap though - they are not worried that he will catch them in a tackle. Obviously this 'case by case' basis that Curtiss wants suits this agenda. We, on the other hand, see the bigger picture (s).

Ofcourseshecan · 17/05/2023 14:15

Hepwo · 17/05/2023 11:54

It's okay RealityFan, there's help available for them. Only 187 dollars.

https://steppingoutsecrets.com/

Horrific, but very sad too.

How deluded are the men who see those fabulously photoshopped images and think they can magically transform their real, male bodies into a three-dimensional simulacrum? And their hopeless efforts will cost a lot more than $187.

IcakethereforeIam · 17/05/2023 14:55

I used to joke my brain had a visual Snapchat filter because my reflection looked nothing like the short, gawky weirdo I see in photos. But something like that must be going on with these blokes. The 6 months on hrt before and after pictures. What are they seeing? It's not reality but do they know that? Are they really even looking?

Bosky · 17/05/2023 15:21

Nancy's tweet now - must be mostly those 6 TERFs from the UK with their thousands of sock accounts viewing it because the public is really behind women getting smashed up, brain damaged and having their backs broken playing rugby against the likes of Tiger Girl and love the idea of teenage girls sharing changing rooms and showers with Curtiss, right?

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Glamoureader · 17/05/2023 18:57

Surely if he's receiving money based on the lie that he's banned from playing rugby altogether (rather than just not being able to pick a sex category) this must be fraud?