There is, though, some truth in WPUK and friends being largely constituted by middle-class socialists, and this class divide often manifests itself in activism (hence the sneering at women on a "Pound land safari"). Let's be blunt: People such as an Oxbridge educated philosophy professor from an academic background / journalist whose partner is a millionaire / someone who lives in a house owned by their parents and has never had a job are considerably less likely to face the sort of hardships working class women face just trying to survive. Perhaps that is why we have the spectacle of some conceding pronouns, platforming AGPs, and now, promoting Keir Starmer as a champion of women's rights.
They can afford to. Others can't.
I've been called "impolitical", "strategically unhelpful", and in private, certain of that crowd have done things like message my friends asking if I could stop describing myself as a "philosopher" since, post York, I'm not one and it embarrasses them. I've also been called academically stupid (which is a little odd given I out-qualify them), has my speech mocked (deaf), appearance insulted, and one fraud announces to everyone that I abused my wife. This, of course, is done privately so there's very little I can do but it's a lesson about what happens when someone not quite like them doesn't defer. You become subject to a trashing campaign.
I don't think any group is "elite" or has any "authority" (which seems to be part of the problem) but I wish there was conscious recognition of privilege. If you are not going to lose the roof over your head for speaking out (indeed, some have gained recognition they lacked before), then you are, relatively speaking, doing much better than most.
No-one who has put themselves on the line likes to be told they haven't suffered and some have been clearly harassed. But my point remains: it's a privilege to have things like a large platform, book deals, columns in major publications, and financial security. Comments like "head girls" are not the result of jealousy (I recognise I'm in a privileged position) but exasperation that there's utter obliviousness to what the reality of many women's lives are like. Add in condescending slurs like "domesticated zombies" and you'll alienate the very women who, politically at least, should be on your side.
SFW offers every woman a voice and there's no hierarchy. I'll take that over being lectured by those who, frankly, don't know better every single damn time.