the more I find out the more I realise there is virtually no common ground between women and trans women and very few areas where compromise can appease both sides.
The issue from my perspective is that what is in place is already a compromise for women.
The GRA already supports the premise that you can legally change sex, thus conflating sex and gender.
In addition you cannot ask if someone has a GRC thus forcing a presumption that people have one and are this the sex they claim to be.
Whilst the EA does make a distinction between sex and gender-reassignment, the onus is on service providers demonstrating a need for single sex spaces rather than this being the norm and many choose not to do so (some because they are captured and other because they can't be arsed).
Throw in stonewall lobbying gender identity rather than reassignment as a protected characteristic and what we have is an unholy mess where the current legislation gives more weight to the rights of trans women than women (even if that wasn't the intention).
Therefore the idea that women should be expected to compromise further is not something tenable to most GC supporters. Rather the whole shebang needs a revision that clarifies sex and gender as distinct, with sex being immutable.