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WOMEN SPEAKING - Let Women Speak - Australia & NZ tour

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Bosky · 24/03/2023 05:14

Despite many pleas, the original thread was hijacked by people (mostly from the UK) who displayed ZERO interest in watching, appreciating and discussing the ACTUAL SPEECHES:

Let Women SPeak - Australia & NZ tour

IMHO This was profoundly disrespectful to the OP, @ZombieMumEB, who said she hoped to attend some of the events, to Mumsnetters (particularly Australians and New Zealanders) who wanted to discuss the speeches and to the brave, articulate and impassioned women who gave the speeches.

This thread is to discuss the WOMEN SPEAKING.

Please direct complaints about KJK to one of the perennial "We hate Posie" threads.

If you are a UK socfem with a genuine interest in discussing the socfem approach to re-educating the Labour Party, ie. rather than complaining about KJK, start a new thread. This one is about and for the women in Australia and New Zealand who spoke at the #LetWomenSpeak events

Rather than engage with derailments, can we please agree to report them or ignore them?

Australian live streams

Sydney - Sat 11th

Brisbane - Sun 12th

Perth - Tues 14th (see video for Chapters)
Intro (KJK)
Women in Australia (KJK)
Women Speak (KJK)
Sophia Mormont
The Truth
Grandmother
Trans Activist (KJK)
Trans Rights (KJK)
Change Rooms
Im Australia (KJK + Speaker)
Kelly Jane
Maggie (several Speakers)

Adelaide - Thurs 16th

Melbourne - Sat 18th

Melbourne Post Event Chat
(Moira Deering MP, KJK, Katherine Deves, Angie Jones)

Happy Mothers Day! - Sun 19th (KJK)

New Zealand Mon 20th (KJK update)
(Zip-fiddling misrepresented as "White Supremacy" signal)

Hobart - Tues 21st

Canberra Tomorrow - Wed 22nd (KJK update)

Canberra - Thurs 23rd

New Zealand Here I Come (KJK update)

NZ TBC

Auckland - Sat 25th
Wellington Sun 26th

NZ Free Speech Union - 23 March
Justice Gendall has rejected the application to overrule the decision by Immigration New Zealand to allow entry for @/ThePosieParker into the country.
This is the only right result for a nation that values tolerance, the ability to debate, and free speech.
https://twitter.com/NZFreeSpeech/status/1639045241360781312

ThePosieParker - 24 March
Free speech is not an easy principle to uphold, but it is worth protecting. Without it democracy dies.
https://twitter.com/ThePosieParker/status/1639078293990252547

WOMEN SPEAKING - Let Women Speak - Australia & NZ tour
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Whaeanui · 25/03/2023 06:52

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Helleofabore · 25/03/2023 06:54

I wonder @landOFconfusion if you will answer honestly.

Are you male?

And by the way, you have already shown on this board that you speak over Māori women posters. Why should any woman on this board consider your contribution about New Zealand culture to be credible.

Speaking over a Māori woman on a feminist board showed posters then what kind of ‘woman’ you were.

Helleofabore · 25/03/2023 06:59

MarshaBradyo · 24/03/2023 23:42

It’s a shame they get to post such hatred on the feminist board

They also claim to support LGB people yet shamelessly victim blamed Fred Sargeant when he, a man of around 70 years old, was severely assaulted while peacefully protesting a Pride event which he was one of the founders of.

They have continued to post in the same way and be deleted many times across multiple threads.

SulisMinerva · 25/03/2023 07:02

I’ve got up and came here to check how the event had gone. What a horrifying turn of events. Those poor women must have been terrified.
The TRA supporters but you come across as a hateful, unhinged mob.

The persistent ‘if only KJK had just denounced the nazis’ posters can just fuck off too. Maybe reflect on how you are coming across this morning…

Slothtoes · 25/03/2023 07:05

Whaeanui thank you again for your posting on this thread. Solidarity. I’m sorry as an English person in the UK for the injustice you’ve faced.

I’m disgusted by the people still posting lies on this thread. I’m very alarmed by newspapers whipping this up in NZ. And international social media amplifying misogyny. At this point it’s incitement to misogynistic violence. Let Women Speak.

Helleofabore · 25/03/2023 07:07

gwrachod · 24/03/2023 23:58

The footage is really scary. I sincerely hope everyone got out OK and no one has been hurt.

I hope, also, that some of you now understand that the lefty women (who know a think or two about campaigning, fascists and antifa) have not been criticising KJK because we're jealous, but because we feared exactly this would happen.

I wrote this yesterday, it's a paraphrase of what several of us have been saying for months:

if you don't make it very clear that the far right aren't welcome, if you go on their media, make them feel welcome, they will turn up. They will turn up especially as many of them like a bit of recreational violence, and to fight with the TRAs. And when that happens, that's all the media will focus on.

We're at that stage now.

The next stage is more Antifa come to fight the fash. More men who like recreational violence (on both sides) hear about it, and come along too. Before too long, the whole thing becomes a fight between far right and Antifa men, the press love reporting it it - and KJK's femalism implodes, but not before doing a load of damage to the women's rights movement.

KJK could take steps to stop this happening, like not cosying up to the far right all the fucking time. Her nazi "denouncement" isn't easy to take seriously when she's hanging out with a woman from the Oz version of the UKIP, immediately after.

We've moved on a phase since yesterday, we're now at "The next stage is more Antifa come to fight the fash". The huge swell of people there will have been mobilised in such huge numbers to fight fascism, as they perceive it.

And the media are interested - not in what the women are saying, but in catching some violence on camera, as that's worth clicks (and money). Did you see how many people with professional looking cameras were there today?

You lot can argue to the cows come home about whether KJK has been courting the far right or not, ask questions designed to deflect, such as "what is the far right anyway" and carry on taking the piss out of those who raise this as a concern. But out there in the real world, it looks a lot like KJK's courting the far right - because of her actual behaviour, besides any spin - and that the neo nazis turned up to support her as a result.

And, the consequence is that the temperature rises, the message is lost, violence increases and the media fucking love it, and amplify it. That's the next stage.

No, I am not blaming KJK for men's violence before any of you start. That doesn't mean that this wasn't predictable. There are much more savvy ways to go about things, that don't end up with huge angry mobs coming after you because they've seen what looks like proof you're in with the fascists.

Those of us who've been banging on about this for ages are saying this as we know KJK's courting of the far right will trigger those who want to fight fascism to turn out. And, also we've seen men's recreational violence take over in other movements and other times. For the 1,000th time, jealousy has fuck all to do with it.

You clearly cannot see that you are actively blaming a woman for men’s violence.

If you don’t understand how you have reached this point, that is your issue. But this post is all about blaming a woman for men’s violence. At least be honest enough to own that.

MarshaBradyo · 25/03/2023 07:10

The gloating over violence against women is a tough read.

Here and elsewhere. Is it any violence against women that is attractive or just this kind

NotBadConsidering · 25/03/2023 07:10

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ShirleyThePggywinkle · 25/03/2023 07:10

@Whaeanui why do you feel the NZ Herald is right wing? I live here (immigrant) and they seem to be very left wing to me. Totally in the government’s pocket (quite literally in terms of funding) and generally very much in favour of pushing the labour and green ideologies. However I stopped reading it so maybe I’m missing something so I’d be interested to hear your thoughts. Thanks.

To the PP asking what the everyday NZers think about it all, I haven’t spoken to many people today but it’ll be interesting to see/hear any comments next week when the work week starts again.

my heart feels very heavy today. This is a very divided country on several issues.

Whaeanui · 25/03/2023 07:18

@Slothtoes thank you. It’s not uncommon for Maori women like myself to be completely ignored, as you all can see I am being ignored on this thread by a supposedly fellow kiwi women who is blaming women there, including Maori and Pasifika women both as speakers and security. It is my life story, being ignored. It’s also not uncommon for pakeha to wade in and blame us for violence, it has happened at more protests than I can count. I have protested in the UK too btw, and it doesn’t happen like that here. I’ve never been afraid protesting in the UK like I have been in NZ. I was part of the campaign for gay rights and gay marriage which in the early days was pretty unpleasant. MPs actually compared homosexuals to animals. I used to get followed by groups of men because they knew I lived with gay men, my housemates, and I got street harassment for it. But I guess that’s my own fault too.

I don’t know why these derailers aren’t happy with Posies repeated statements denouncing Nazis. Nothing else should be necessary. It’s like going to a Muslim event and being angry they didn’t denounce terrorists. There’s no link between them, just like there’s no link between women’s rights campaigners and Nazis.

Helleofabore · 25/03/2023 07:19

MerlinsLostMarbles · 25/03/2023 01:32

https://twitter.com/ICanSeeForever1/status/1639415523493527555

Earlier in the thread posters were discussing if a sharp object was being held at KJK's neck.

As seen from another angle the only people around her as she left were her own people and nothing untoward was held at her, and the hand on her neck is one of her minders.

Is that water being thrown on them, directly into that steward’s face?

Is that considered assault in NZ?

The violent acts of last night were shameful. The lack of police action must be answered for.

FOJN · 25/03/2023 07:19

Whaeanui

Thank you for your posts.

Is your mum OK?

SinnerBoy · 25/03/2023 07:22

MarshaBradyo · Today 07:10

The gloating over violence against women is a tough read.

It's bad enough from the nasty, cowardly men, who hide behind a keyboard, or the authority of office, but it's dismaying to so many women joining in to crow.

yourhairiswinterfire · 25/03/2023 07:25

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FOJN · 25/03/2023 07:25

I was part of the campaign for gay rights and gay marriage which in the early days was pretty unpleasant.

They keep telling us this is an extension of the fight for LGB rights but I don't remember LGB campaigners resorting to violence and attacking people when they protested, if anything they were at risk themselves and yet here we have the TQ behaving like fascist thugs, enabled by the police.

Most marginalised and oppressed my arse.

Whaeanui · 25/03/2023 07:27

@FOJN my mother was there but fortunately safe. She usually takes some big guys with her to things like this. I haven’t spoken yet. We’re more concerned with the Maori woman who got doxxed, completely, she’s from the same Maori wahine group that had a lady speak in Melbourne I believe it was. They I guess saw them speak and decided to punish them. Massey uni had a FOI request about me once when Standing For Women had an event with Meghan Murphy cancelled there and someone heard local iwi wahine had written in support of the event, some Kuia ( elders ) were attending too and they wanted names.

NZ Herald is overall historically more to the right. Ardern’s popularity made them feel a bit left out. I don’t consider being woke or pro current Labour govt to be left wing though. Also don’t forget every media outlet that agreed to only print the governments covid messaging, got paid from a covid media fund. They’re in their pocket because they paid them to be.

SinnerBoy · 25/03/2023 07:28

@landOFconfusion

I am a woman in New Zealand and I’m perfectly happy for ... to speak.

A woman, you say? You don't come across like a woman to me.

Her argument is cogent, her comments are germane, and unlike you she is actually contributing to the discussion.

Argument? Repeating a lot of repeatedly debunked rubbish does not constitute an argument; it is argumentative, of course.

Whaeanui · 25/03/2023 07:29

And yes, the fight for gay rights was met with violence. This fight for women’s rights is being met with violence. Trans self ID rights are not compatible with gay rights or women’s rights. The mob in Auckland don’t know their history, most wouldn’t have been born when people like me fought for their right to speak, to live their life without fear. This is the thanks we get

landOFconfusion · 25/03/2023 07:32

SinnerBoy · 25/03/2023 07:28

@landOFconfusion

I am a woman in New Zealand and I’m perfectly happy for ... to speak.

A woman, you say? You don't come across like a woman to me.

Her argument is cogent, her comments are germane, and unlike you she is actually contributing to the discussion.

Argument? Repeating a lot of repeatedly debunked rubbish does not constitute an argument; it is argumentative, of course.

He kuia au. He namu koe?

Helleofabore · 25/03/2023 07:39

I hope, also, that some of you now understand that the lefty women (who know a think or two about campaigning, fascists and antifa) have not been criticising KJK because we're jealous, but because we feared exactly this would happen.

Earlier this week, I posted that some groups of socialist feminists were as ideologically driven and lacking perspective as extreme trans activists.

I see a paragraph such as this and it is a stark reminder that a group of women have gone so far in their hatred of a woman who does things differently. A woman that allows and supports free speech.

Feminists blaming women for the actions of men who cannot control their own violent reactions to women speaking words they don’t like.

All because a woman allows women of any political alignment to speak at a free public event, where people of any political alignment can listen and report about the event.

I hope, also, that some of you now understand that the lefty women (who know a think or two about campaigning, fascists and antifa) have not been criticising KJK because we're jealous, but because we feared exactly this would happen.

I think people reading along and having seen what has happened and on unpicking of what has built up the foundations that enabled this violence will not see what you think they will see.

Because reasonable people don’t blame women for the actions of violent men.

Whaeanui · 25/03/2023 07:45

@landOFconfusion wtf is wrong with you?

Helleofabore · 25/03/2023 07:46

Sorry Bosky, I just reread your post, I shall start another thread.

Helleofabore · 25/03/2023 07:47

Whaeanui · 25/03/2023 07:45

@landOFconfusion wtf is wrong with you?

Would you mind telling us what they have just said? They have resorted to typing in Māori on threads.

Thank you.

Whaeanui · 25/03/2023 07:49

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