The way I see it, is that children need to learn where babies came from, how they are made and develop - procreation, in an age-appropriate way.
Children do not need to learn about any sort of adult sexuality.
However we have a network of ‘hard done by’ adults, who feel that it’s not fair that because procreation is heterosexual, they are getting left out of children talking about their intimate activities.
I personally don’t care about hard done by adults who are upset that their sexual activities, which have no relevance to procreation, are not being taught to kids.
I believe there is an unhinged notion of ‘equality’, which was born in the fight to first legalise gay sex between men, then bring down the age of consent twice, to make it ‘equal’ between heterosexual couples and homosexual male couples, that we are in a daft place, where the fact that reproduction is heterosexual is completely missing from the picture.
These ‘equality’ activists don’t seem very sympathetic towards women or children. It’s all “waaa waaa waaa it’s not fair it’s not equal” running through all of it, in trans activism and “equal reproductive rights”/“equal fertility rights” activism.