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Liverpool - woman who distributed indecent images of children over WhatsApp has walked free from court.

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BoreOfWhabylon · 10/02/2023 14:36

www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/woman-distributed-indecent-images-over-26190141?utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=sharebar

"...officers seized a Samsung mobile phone on which they discovered 84 indecent images in category A - those graded as showing the most serious forms of abuse.

These included pictures and videos showing children aged as young as four being raped. Also found were 30 category B images and 35 in category C, which had been collected since October"

Except of course, the offender, Ketan Shende, is not a woman.

Liverpool - woman who distributed indecent images of children over WhatsApp has walked free from court.
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Wiccan · 10/02/2023 19:43

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 19:32

? Shende didn’t abuse any children.

Anyone who views or shares images of children being abused are themselves fueling the abuse and these children are again abused over and over again just by the images being viewed ! How do you not understand that ?! 🤯

Boiledbeetle · 10/02/2023 19:45

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 19:32

? Shende didn’t abuse any children.

Technically anyone who views child sex abuse images helps to abuse the child in the photo. The photos are produced for paedophiles to look at. If no-one looked there would be no market.

The viewer of these images is as guilty as the person with the camera.

Sende did cause the abuse of children. He did abuse children by viewing those images

Coyoacan · 10/02/2023 19:49

I don’t think anyone goes to prison for nonpayment of their TV license these days

I hope you are right, however the point still remains that people who consume images of child sex abuse are complicit in that crime and if that is not reason enough to imprison or at least try to rehabilitate someone I don't know what is

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 19:51

Wiccan · 10/02/2023 19:43

Anyone who views or shares images of children being abused are themselves fueling the abuse and these children are again abused over and over again just by the images being viewed ! How do you not understand that ?! 🤯

Yes, as a consumer they are driving demand that causes abusers to abuse. That’s why it’s a crime to merely view, possess, or distribute abuse images. But it’s not the same as actually abusing the children and recording it.

How exactly are the victims abused over and over again just by someone else hundreds of miles away viewing the images of historic abuse? Sorry, but I’m a literal person and this doesn’t make sense, you cannot abuse a person all over again by without their knowledge viewing an image of abuse that happened to them in their past.

Wiccan · 10/02/2023 19:51

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 19:32

? Shende didn’t abuse any children.

FFS I cannot believe I had to explain that one .Christ !

Wiccan · 10/02/2023 19:53

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 19:51

Yes, as a consumer they are driving demand that causes abusers to abuse. That’s why it’s a crime to merely view, possess, or distribute abuse images. But it’s not the same as actually abusing the children and recording it.

How exactly are the victims abused over and over again just by someone else hundreds of miles away viewing the images of historic abuse? Sorry, but I’m a literal person and this doesn’t make sense, you cannot abuse a person all over again by without their knowledge viewing an image of abuse that happened to them in their past.

Fucking hell are you actually serious ?

Probablymagrat · 10/02/2023 19:54

I have emailed the editor, who is a woman, asking her to reconsider the policy of misrepresenting women as sex offenders.

Boiledbeetle · 10/02/2023 19:55

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 19:51

Yes, as a consumer they are driving demand that causes abusers to abuse. That’s why it’s a crime to merely view, possess, or distribute abuse images. But it’s not the same as actually abusing the children and recording it.

How exactly are the victims abused over and over again just by someone else hundreds of miles away viewing the images of historic abuse? Sorry, but I’m a literal person and this doesn’t make sense, you cannot abuse a person all over again by without their knowledge viewing an image of abuse that happened to them in their past.

Geisha. Photos were taken of me. That was horrendous. What is even more horrendous is knowing they exist out there on the internet, photos of me being abused being viewed by men all over the world. I'm being abused over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overand over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overand over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overand over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overand over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 10/02/2023 19:55

Mumsnet's a depressing place when you find posters who claim to be women while minimising the sexual abuse of children.

"Shende admitted four counts of distributing indecent images of children, one of possession of indecent images and four of making indecent images"

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Wiccan · 10/02/2023 19:59

Boiledbeetle · 10/02/2023 19:55

Geisha. Photos were taken of me. That was horrendous. What is even more horrendous is knowing they exist out there on the internet, photos of me being abused being viewed by men all over the world. I'm being abused over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overand over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overand over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overand over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overand over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and overover and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again.

Firstly boiled well done you made the point exactly and @Onnabugeisha do you get it now ??

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:00

Boiledbeetle · 10/02/2023 19:45

Technically anyone who views child sex abuse images helps to abuse the child in the photo. The photos are produced for paedophiles to look at. If no-one looked there would be no market.

The viewer of these images is as guilty as the person with the camera.

Sende did cause the abuse of children. He did abuse children by viewing those images

Sorry, but I disagree.

To me, it’s bit like saying everyone who has seen an ISIS execution/beheading video is just as guilty as the actual terrorists doing the murdering and videoing.

There is a distinction to be made between the abuser and the later consumers of images even though both are criminals and sick. It’s minimising what the abusers do/did to equate their actions to be just as guilty or bad as passive watchers are.

One is magnitudes worse than the other (from my point of view.)

Probablymagrat · 10/02/2023 20:01

@Onnabugeisha Onnabugeisha - can you not imagine how the abuse is compounded by knowing that thousands of other peadophiles are sharing images of your abuse, which incidentally are images of a crime scene, and getting off on it? Imagine how that feels, not only were you abused physically, it was photographed and filmed, and now is shared, sold, and comodified without your consent. Forever and ever, those images of abuse, pain and humilation will probably outlive you, and go on to fuel more and more abuse. Please just try to imagine, and be thankful that you do have to imagine it and don't know how it feels first hand.

Wiccan · 10/02/2023 20:02

Well your point of view is terrifying!!

LexMitior · 10/02/2023 20:04

That is not quite right. Images of children are frequently created to order by paedophiles. It is not reasonable to call such people passive as they are root cause of such material.

Those people may never be "abusers" in a physical sense. But they are not passive.

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:06

Me too Boiled. You know this about me. Weve spoken on other threads about our common survivorship.

I feel nothing when a paedo clicks on an image of me, because I don’t know when it happens. All I know is the images are out there and will be long after I am dead and gone. I have had to accept this reality.

But to say future people seeing these are just as guilty and just as bad as the abusers who actually did that shit to me as a young child?! No, cannot agree. Living through the abuse and having the nightmares and flashbacks to this day is far far worse than living with the knowledge that people out there are still seeing it.

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:06

Probablymagrat · 10/02/2023 20:01

@Onnabugeisha Onnabugeisha - can you not imagine how the abuse is compounded by knowing that thousands of other peadophiles are sharing images of your abuse, which incidentally are images of a crime scene, and getting off on it? Imagine how that feels, not only were you abused physically, it was photographed and filmed, and now is shared, sold, and comodified without your consent. Forever and ever, those images of abuse, pain and humilation will probably outlive you, and go on to fuel more and more abuse. Please just try to imagine, and be thankful that you do have to imagine it and don't know how it feels first hand.

I don’t need to imagine.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 10/02/2023 20:08

@Onnabugeisha - he made indecent images of children. Why on earth do you think it's right to minimise such repellent crimes? Fgs, think before you post such vile comments.

Boiledbeetle · 10/02/2023 20:14

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:06

Me too Boiled. You know this about me. Weve spoken on other threads about our common survivorship.

I feel nothing when a paedo clicks on an image of me, because I don’t know when it happens. All I know is the images are out there and will be long after I am dead and gone. I have had to accept this reality.

But to say future people seeing these are just as guilty and just as bad as the abusers who actually did that shit to me as a young child?! No, cannot agree. Living through the abuse and having the nightmares and flashbacks to this day is far far worse than living with the knowledge that people out there are still seeing it.

I know Geisha. I think our coping strategies have been different, maybe because our abuse was done differently, maybe our personalities. For me the knowledge that he produced them not for himself but to sell on for others to enjoy is what fuels my feelings of perpetual abuse.

Every time I read of a man like this, or even think of the subject of child abuse images I relive the flashbacks of those photos being taken. I'm back in the room at 7 pleading with him to stop.

It's part of the abuse knowing they exist. Knowing people will be jerking off to them. Knowing that was why he was taking them.

(I've also never watched a beheading video. Why the fuck would anyone want to do that?)

Onnabugeisha · 10/02/2023 20:16

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FrancescaContini · 10/02/2023 20:17

The viewer is complicit in the abuse. Absolutely.

Wiccan · 10/02/2023 20:18

FFS I cannot believe the opinions of what isn't abuse this is too triggering I'm out !

Weallgottachangesometime · 10/02/2023 20:19

@Onnabugeisha the sharing of sexual images of children is a form of abuse. Non-contact, but abuse

OrangeToothbrush · 10/02/2023 20:19

Findyourneutralspace · 10/02/2023 19:39

Journalists had be absolute privilege to report on court proceedings but it has to be an accurate report on proceedings, so unfortunately if the defendant was referred to as a woman in court, using female pronouns, their hands are tied.

That was the only possible defence I could think of yesterday, when as I said upthread the original published version did not include the judge's comment about transition.

But today that comment was included. Indicating the journo indeed had it in his notes the whole time but did not consider it relevant to include. A pretty shocking and misleading omission.

So we know the dysphoria and transition was referred to in court, so there's surely nothing legally wrong in putting trans woman in the headline?

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 10/02/2023 20:22

The phrase "making indecent images" is seriously misleading.

The court’s interpretation of ‘making’ indecent images is broad. The following can amount to making indecent images; opening an email attachment, downloading an indecent image, storing an image, and accessing a website where an indecent image “pops up".

LexMitior · 10/02/2023 20:24

Yes it is necessarily broad. The point of possession charges and the purpose is designed to capture many actions.

A common defence to possession of this material used to be accidental. That is made much harder by the scope of making.