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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sunak: "I know what a woman is – an adult human female"

352 replies

escapingthecity · 02/02/2023 21:48

I know it's a Mail link but I've not seen it up anywhere else yet:

Rishi Sunak wades into trans debate saying 'biological sex matters'
mol.im/a/11707375

Glad to see him taking a clear position.

OP posts:
LemonBounce · 03/02/2023 12:07

ResisterRex · 03/02/2023 10:41

*a male who believes (or says) he is a woman, having turned down other counselling provisions offered

stems from a capitalist, multi million dollar pharmaceutical and medical industry in the USA.*

FWR has been miles ahead of you on this one. For years.

I'm interested in what you've said here.
Could you clarify do you think that trans people don't really exist?

No one has said that. Though it gets trotted out when there's no substance to the point being made, or when it's clear the poster has run out of road.

Imagine if you were trans yourself - how would you feel about having to use the toilets of the other gender, how would you feel reading this thread?

Ah, the old: "be kind" admonishment of women. That's when we know posters have run out of road. Toilet provision is sex based.

Imagine if you were a tran-identified male, wouldn't it be kind to lobby for a either a third space that accommodates you and doesn't intrude on women, or seek to change the attitudes of men such that they are kind and don't mind an MtF in their spaces? Given that men and MtF share the same thing in common - biology. And that's what these spaces are based on.

Just asking you to think about how you would feel and am interested in your thoughts about it.

PatientZorro · 03/02/2023 12:10

MarshaBradyo · 03/02/2023 08:11

All your post but this how come David lammy was allowed ti call us rights hoarding dinosaurs?

This sums up Labour’s misogyny

This.

Well done Rishi. I don’t care why he said it, but it is important that he did unequivocally.

LemonBounce · 03/02/2023 12:16

BellaAmorosa · 03/02/2023 09:49

Yes, you get the feeling it is an ideological stance for so many in the party that Starmer can't tell the truth without splitting the party. Assuming he even wanted to.

@lechiffre55
Top posting!

@LemonBounce
The point is not that there aren't other important feminist issues, it's that this issue is fundamental to resolving all the others.

How would this issue be linked to high costs of childcare and the gender pay gap to take two examples?

CoffeeRightNow · 03/02/2023 12:18

@LemonBounce

How can you report accurately on a pay gap if anyone can identify as female?

Statistics become meaningless.

ResisterRex · 03/02/2023 12:18

Just asking you to think about how you would feel and am interested in your thoughts about it.

If I were a trans-identified male, I'd lobby for third spaces and/or for men to be kind to me when I'm using the spaces that align with my biological sex.

I would not expect women to accommodate me. I would recognise it's not the job of women to be support human to me

I hope that is clear @LemonBounce

lechiffre55 · 03/02/2023 12:25

ResisterRex · 03/02/2023 12:18

Just asking you to think about how you would feel and am interested in your thoughts about it.

If I were a trans-identified male, I'd lobby for third spaces and/or for men to be kind to me when I'm using the spaces that align with my biological sex.

I would not expect women to accommodate me. I would recognise it's not the job of women to be support human to me

I hope that is clear @LemonBounce

One thing that rubs me the wrong way about TRA activity is that SOME ( not all ) trans women seem to behave in such typically male ways. Surely if womanhood is a woman soul essence then every trans women would behave with the same civility and empathic understanding that women exhibit.
In short if they feel like a woman, why do they act in such an agressve male way?
Tell me that this is typical woman behaviour?

Helleofabore · 03/02/2023 12:28

LemonBounce · 03/02/2023 12:16

How would this issue be linked to high costs of childcare and the gender pay gap to take two examples?

I and others have answered about the gender pay gap and domestic violence and toilets.

Why are you attempting to leverage cost of childcare into the discussion?

As other's have said, your approach has continued to be that women cannot campaign across multiple issues at one time.

Why have you reduced women's abilities to only being capable of having one focus?

Because that really does sound like misogyny if that is what you are really trying to say.

Any acknowledgement that woman can work across multiple issues at once?

And any acknowledgment that you have posted this on a board that was separated from the other board to focus only on issues relating to strengthening the rights and protections of women and children where there are conflicts with those of males in another group?

HermioneWeasley · 03/02/2023 12:33

I’m a single issue voter because women’s rights, once lost, are lost forever. A great NHS is no good to me if I or my mother have to be in mixed sex wards. Great schools are no good to me if my daughter can’t attend because there are only mixed sex toilets.

I will vote for whatever party will protect women and girls best

anyolddinosaur · 03/02/2023 12:33

Sunak has simply recognised what many voters want to hear. I'm tried of people trying to tell me I must vote for a misogynist party and a leader with no backbone because the alternative is worse. All current political parties are a disgrace and I dont have to vote for any of them.

Sunak would need to convince me he really will tackle corruption and greed while Starmer, or any other party leader, would have to unequivocally stand up for women's rights. I cant see either happening so it may be another spoilt ballot paper..

Beowulfa · 03/02/2023 12:35

Why aren't people more angry about other things like the gender pay gap and domestic violence?

How do we gather accurate data on and formulate policy around these issues, if people are allowed to lie about something as basic as their sex?

Canny companies can "solve" the pay issue by getting half their male board to change pronouns to she/her.

BellaAmorosa · 03/02/2023 12:42

LemonBounce · 03/02/2023 12:16

How would this issue be linked to high costs of childcare and the gender pay gap to take two examples?

Because closing the sex pay gap relies on knowing which sex is being discriminated against and the societal reasons why that sex is being discriminated against. Doing things your way, as pps have noted, we could close the "gender" pay gap by having more men claim to be women. Would that help women? Obviously not. Improving the lot of and raising the status of women is predicated on knowing which class of humans they are - which of the two body types is unfairly discriminated against on the basis of their body type. Gender identity tells us nothing of any value about sex discrimination.

BellaAmorosa · 03/02/2023 12:43

I see other posters got there before me!

Workerbeep · 03/02/2023 12:44

Thank you @lechiffre55

SNP use relative privation against any criticism of their policies or actions.

Helleofabore · 03/02/2023 12:46

BellaAmorosa · 03/02/2023 12:43

I see other posters got there before me!

There seems to be a disconnect with this poster repeating questions that now have quite a few answering posts..... a rather strange disconnect.

ClaphamSouth · 03/02/2023 12:55

Haven't we had the 'how would you feel if you were trans and read this ... " question from an MRA already this week?

Alphabetasoul · 03/02/2023 12:59

I think it should be made law that trans people inform future partners of their birth sex . Imagine a man meets a woman who is trans and she doesn't tell him . What if this man is hoping to start a family at some point . You cannot change your biological sex - there - I've said it !

Helleofabore · 03/02/2023 13:11

ClaphamSouth · 03/02/2023 12:55

Haven't we had the 'how would you feel if you were trans and read this ... " question from an MRA already this week?

Several.

And remember the flounce from not long ago...

It is honestly like some people think they have found a new angle. However, it is always interesting because the more posters write their answers, the more readers start to see the complexities and the conflicts and start to solidify their own opinions. Whatever those opinions are.

It might well be that a poster comes onto a thread who has only a superficial knowledge of the issues and leaves with much more to think about.

Always worth answering the questions and seeing what someone else thinks. And what others take away in the end depends on whether a poster has absolutely fuck all but shame and emotional manipulation or has something that is evidenced and reasoned to contribute.

Not as often as we like though (me getting around talk guidelines), posters have something evidenced and reasoned to contribute.

ScrollingLeaves · 03/02/2023 13:27

Sign this petition to update the Equality Act to make clear the characteristic ‘sex ‘ is biological.

We need 100,000 signatures to show Rishi so he’ll be prompted to back his views up.

petition.parliament.uk/petitions/623243

LemonBounce · 03/02/2023 13:27

CoffeeRightNow · 03/02/2023 12:18

@LemonBounce

How can you report accurately on a pay gap if anyone can identify as female?

Statistics become meaningless.

When trans women are 0.1% the population it's really going to have minimal impact on the stats. Even if they are all very successful...
Reporting has been ineffective anyway the gap has widened since reporting was brought in.
My question was about the pay gap itself. How is this fundamental for reducing that?

ClaphamSouth · 03/02/2023 13:32

Glitterball sparple Glitterball

DarkDayforMN · 03/02/2023 13:32

How is this fundamental for reducing that?

How would a nation or organisation develop policies to reduce the pay gap if it can’t be measured? Do you know anything about… well, anything? Policy goals have to be measurable.

ResisterRex · 03/02/2023 13:34

Reporting has been ineffective anyway the gap has widened since reporting was brought in.

How do you know that reporting "has been ineffective" if you're able to tell us that the thing being reported, has changed? In this case, widened?

My question was about the pay gap itself. How is this fundamental for reducing that?

The importance of accurate data on sex and measurements on policy interventions has been covered upthread.

CoffeeRightNow · 03/02/2023 13:41

I think your question has been answered fully by other posters @LemonBounce

Merrymouse · 03/02/2023 13:44

LemonBounce · 03/02/2023 09:38

Just feels a shame all this energy going into an area actively trying to reduce the rights of a minority group.
There are so many issues around women's rights that would have a greater impact for women.

Can’t protect women’s rights if you can’t objectively define women. There is no issue that has a greater impact for women than being denied the ability to name and describe our class.

If you believed that trans people need rights, and not just affirmation, you would acknowledge that this is true for them too. It’s true for any group that needs specific rights.

Isla Bryson is representative of the comparatively large proportion of trans prisoners who are sex offenders because it is Scottish prison policy, SNP policy, Stonewall policy to describe him as such.

turbonerd · 03/02/2023 13:59

RedAndBlueStripedGolfingUmbrella · 03/02/2023 10:31

Well said, my point exactly! Like I said upthread, if it's not trans issues, it's immigrants needing sending to Rwanda etc ...
Would love affordable childcare, I'd have been able to go back to work years ago instead of having to wait until now when the kids are teenagers,would have saved years of struggling financially and just scraping by.
That'd be a vote winner for me, as well as you say better conviction rates for rapists.

But why would you want higher conviction rates for rapists if they csn then just self-id into the women’s prison?
if, when they Get out of prison, they can just waltz into any women’s space with no repercussions?

what would you do with affordable childcare if the DBS on the employees wasn’t even worth the paper it was written on, due to self-id?

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