Did you know that Grayson Perry, beloved, eccentric, national treasure, used to wear voluminous skirts in order to hide his erection when he was walking around dressed as his alter ego, a little girl called Claire?
You have no idea what's going on in these people's heads.
You say that many trans women are a victim of gender stereotyping. And agree that, yes, it's inherently sexist.
You've answered your own questions, really. This is a feminist board. You won't find women here meeting male demands to further their own sexism.
If you need further proof of how damaging it is, there are many examples. The girl guides, for instance, an organisation set up to support girls, in a sexist world, found themselves throwing out masculine girls and welcoming feminine boys.
Butch lesbians are being told they can't possibly be girls, they must be boys.
Transwomen like Paris lees claim there's nothing better, when identifying as a woman, than being treated like a piece of meat.
Shon Fae's advice to youngsters is suck dick, get tits early.
The perpetuation of sexism, as being an inherent characteristic is utterly damaging.
No woman anywhere should be advocating for it. And you're actually on here, a feminist board, telling feminists that not doing so is unkind to men.