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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Nick Timothy in the Telegraph on the GRR

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ResisterRex · 22/01/2023 22:14

He was Joint Chief of Staff under Theresa May:

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/01/22/britain-becoming-sick-trans-debate-facts-can-cure/

"The legislation is part of a trend in which transgenderism and gender fluidity are normalised and made mainstream in culture. This is the kind of cultural context in which charities like Mermaids and even the NHS through its Tavistock clinic helped young people to make irreversible decisions to change their bodiess_. It is how governing bodies allow female sports to be ruined by trans athletes. It is how the BBC website joyfully writes up stories about children becoming drag queens, and cross-dressing men are invited to read to primary school pupils in schools and libraries.

It is how nobody stops to ask how many such men are moved to act in these ways through their own sexual desire. Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men. It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies."

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SallyLockheart · 23/01/2023 10:35

Try again

Nick Timothy in the Telegraph on the GRR
ResisterRex · 23/01/2023 10:48

Accessible via Ann

https://twitter.com/annmsinnott/status/1617426329712103424?s=46&t=difCKZ80Pjj_JNkaXzCieA

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Apollo441 · 23/01/2023 11:00

Blanchard was never discredited. The TRAs dislike him because he accurately describes the behaviour of a large (majority) of men. They can claim he is disputed (by them, without evidence) but Mumsnet should never have banned the term. If they still have issue then we will simply quote the Daily Telegraph 23/01/23 - unless we are getting into the game of censoring main stream media too.
Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men.

bignosebignose · 23/01/2023 11:50

Great article. I don't subscribe to the Telegraph but the link in the first post doesn't seem to be paywalled. I wonder if they've opened it up for easier sharing.

ResisterRex · 23/01/2023 11:56

bignosebignose · 23/01/2023 11:50

Great article. I don't subscribe to the Telegraph but the link in the first post doesn't seem to be paywalled. I wonder if they've opened it up for easier sharing.

Check via here

https://twitter.com/annmsinnott/status/1617426329712103424?s=46&t=difCKZ80Pjj_JNkaXzCieA

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inkjet · 23/01/2023 12:45

It’s days like this I wish we had those ticker tape things like on Netmums. Mine would be

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Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men. It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies.
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ScrollingLeaves · 23/01/2023 14:06

Why is it always said on public debates that bad men ( perverts) may pretend to be trans and get a GRC, while we know ( it is implied) that genuine trans people are never bad (perverted)?

It is just easier to say that among men of any identity whatsoever, including those with a trans identity, there will inevitably be a small minority who are perverts.

DarkDayforMN · 23/01/2023 16:34

Why is it always said on public debates that bad men ( perverts) may pretend to be trans and get a GRC, while we know ( it is implied) that genuine trans people are never bad (perverted)?

I think that it's because it used to be common knowledge that cross-dressing is a paraphilia for some men, and that paraphiliacs are often dangerous to women. But there's been a very successful propaganda campaign to rebrand that truth as a bigoted stereotype, so it's become blasphemous against the dominant corporate/state religion to say it. Even us nonbelievers have to do little rituals to avoid getting in trouble for blasphemy.

So you have to pretend that it's absolutely unthinkable that a transwoman would be a pervert. Even though clearly some of them are.

Boiledbeetle · 23/01/2023 16:38

@inkjet oh i like that. Yeah tis a shame we can't do it as a permanent thing

<strong>Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men. It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies.</strong>
Boiledbeetle · 23/01/2023 16:39

I have no idea what happened there!!

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Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men. It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies.

Datun · 23/01/2023 17:02

It is how nobody stops to ask how many such men are moved to act in these ways through their own sexual desire. Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men.

The beauty of getting this out there, is that thousands of people will have been looking directly at it, but not quite seeing it, because their Dr Who perception filter has been supplied by Transactivist Inc.

All the dots will be joined together so fucking fast, that they will run into one another and cause a landslide.

Cherry60 · 23/01/2023 17:09

inkjet · 23/01/2023 12:45

It’s days like this I wish we had those ticker tape things like on Netmums. Mine would be

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Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men. It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies.
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That would be great, I really think the point you've quoted can't be emphasised enough.

Boiledbeetle · 23/01/2023 17:12

Datun · 23/01/2023 17:02

It is how nobody stops to ask how many such men are moved to act in these ways through their own sexual desire. Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men.

The beauty of getting this out there, is that thousands of people will have been looking directly at it, but not quite seeing it, because their Dr Who perception filter has been supplied by Transactivist Inc.

All the dots will be joined together so fucking fast, that they will run into one another and cause a landslide.

you're right Datun, it's good that the news that

Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men. It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies.

As a legitimate thing that has been worrying us for some time now Is getting some sunlight finally

Tallisker · 23/01/2023 17:19

I've just read the entire article in the opening post without having to sign up or go to an archive site. I can read the comments too, I don't think that has happened for about 10 years.

ResisterRex · 23/01/2023 17:22

The notion that the group of "trans people" could never contain any people with bad intentions, bad intentions that have been acted on, or such people who would use the lifting of the need for a diagnosis as a way of accessing children and vulnerable women has always been insane.

There are no groups that are pure. None. And when you consider that:

Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men. It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies.
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It plainly includes men with a recognised paraphilia, why ever the living fuck would you NOT understand the inevitable result of removing the need for a diagnosis. 

Oh, and #repealtheGRA
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Needmoresleep · 23/01/2023 17:27

I think that a lot of men came late to this issue as they did not think it affected them so they weren’t interested. They are here now, which is good. Turning this hope thing around is going to need everyone we can get.

BellaAmorosa · 23/01/2023 17:32

ResisterRex · 23/01/2023 17:22

The notion that the group of "trans people" could never contain any people with bad intentions, bad intentions that have been acted on, or such people who would use the lifting of the need for a diagnosis as a way of accessing children and vulnerable women has always been insane.

There are no groups that are pure. None. And when you consider that:

Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men. It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies.
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It plainly includes men with a recognised paraphilia, why ever the living fuck would you NOT understand the inevitable result of removing the need for a diagnosis. 

Oh, and #repealtheGRA

Exactly. Off-topic, but same applies to cheating in sport.

"Ooh, how dare you suggest they would go through all that (all what?) just to get an advantage in the women's category!"

People who play sport are competitive. Competitive people cheat sometimes.

Boiledbeetle · 23/01/2023 17:37

I've just been reading the comments to the article. It's not just us six women who see this anyone

One gentleman wrote this

This is absurd. There are five groups here.

One is person with 'gender dysmorphia', defined by the NHS as a mental condition needing professional treatment from qualified doctors. Not from amateur therapists in clinics pushing hormones and genital surgery.

Second are the attention seekers who exploit this for sexual gratification.

Third are naive young who are confused and exploited by the adults, with many being autistic.

Fourth are the people weaponising this into a political issue, such as the SNP and Labour. They offer extreme political solutions so if any common sense conservative with a small 'c' challenges them, they can smear them as 'Tory Nazi fascist scum'.

Fifth are the people making money from exploiting young people and confusing them.

This is a medical matter. Not a political weapon.

Protect young people and safeguard women from predatory men becoming 'trans' to get access to female safe places.

Protect vulnerable people for being exploited for money by so called 'experts' who have no medical qualifications.

Protect female sport. It is blatantly absurd for 6'6'' men to suddenly be competing with girls, no matter how they 'feel' or how their testosterone is measured.

I find myself agreeing with him

Datun · 23/01/2023 17:46

I find myself agreeing with him

Me too. Funnily enough 😁

Ramblingnamechanger · 23/01/2023 17:50

This thread has caused much hilarity and rejoicing here. I can visualise an art work using the ticker tape idea electronically in all the art galleries of the world.

MargaritaRita · 23/01/2023 20:46

The quoted paragraph should be placed on every Stonewall stoners HR desk when they are deciding what to call the women's toilets and what pronouns should be used. Same for prison governors, sports organisations and schools. Have I omitted anything or anywhere else for this iconic paragraph?

Anyone know where and how to contact the hero journalist?

Boiledbeetle · 23/01/2023 21:36

MargaritaRita · 23/01/2023 20:46

The quoted paragraph should be placed on every Stonewall stoners HR desk when they are deciding what to call the women's toilets and what pronouns should be used. Same for prison governors, sports organisations and schools. Have I omitted anything or anywhere else for this iconic paragraph?

Anyone know where and how to contact the hero journalist?

This paragraph you mean

It is how nobody stops to ask how many such men are moved to act in these ways through their own sexual desire. Autogynephilia, the feeling of sexual arousal some men feel as they pretend to be women, is according to some researchers behind many or even most cases of gender dysphoria among those born as men.It is legitimate to ask whether non-consenting women ought to be participants in such sexual fantasies.

ScrollingLeaves · 23/01/2023 21:37

DarkDayforMN · Today 16:34

Re: why the trope, always announced in debates, that of course no genuine transwomen would ever be a threat to any women or children - the problem is only male sexual predators who might pretend to be trans to gain access to them?

I think that it's because it used to be common knowledge that cross-dressing is a paraphilia for some men, and that paraphiliacs are often dangerous to women. But there's been a very successful propaganda campaign to rebrand that truth as a bigoted stereotype, so it's become blasphemous against the dominant corporate/state religion to say it. Even us nonbelievers have to do little rituals to avoid getting in trouble for blasphemy.

So you have to pretend that it's absolutely unthinkable that a transwoman would be a pervert. Even though clearly some of them are.

I think you must be right that it is now a precautionary ritual. I suppose is just as well to be exaggeratedly careful.

MadameDefargeinme · 23/01/2023 21:52

Since men who aren't transwomen are a known threat to women and girls, as evidenced by crime statistics of sexual offences (at least 95% of which are committed by men) and since we know that transwomen retain the same patterns of offending as males, why is it so unthinkable that a transwoman would be a pervert against whom women and girls might want to take defensive precautions? If you see a gun, do you automatically assume it's one of the good guys with a gun or are you a bit careful until you find out one way or the other? Ditto with possessors of a penis.

bignosebignose · 23/01/2023 21:59

It can help though, when speaking to people new to the whole row. This way they can still Be Kind in their minds while it’s being explained to them that this aspect of the debate is about safeguarding from predatory men, and then work out the rest later.