Too many men and by extension male institutions (which is basically all institutions) don't really believe rape is a thing. That's the conclusion I have come to. Especially if it's not down a dark alley with a knife, against a virgin wearing non revealing clothing.
It's a case of "there but for the grace of God go I".
I have no hope of this situation improving because trans activists and "sex work is work" enthusiasts have made sure real feminist thinking and analysis is kept out of schools.
Look at the shock over all these kids who admire Andrew Tate. Well you've been busy telling them porn is a great empowering employment opportunity for women and letting desperately down-with-the-kids idiots run sex ed lessons focusing on male sexual pleasure. How's a man to respond when he comes up against a woman IRL and she doesn't view herself as a support act in his sex dream?