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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Politics Live 10 Jan - Scottish Gender Reform Bill - will it be blocked by Westminster?

155 replies

MoirasSaggyBundles · 10/01/2023 12:26

They will be discussing this on today's programme. Panellists include Sonia Sodha.

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JoodyBlue · 11/01/2023 12:56

That twitter thread is fascinating though. If DH is described as not really trans by RW. RW declares that trans is a gender identity different from sex assigned at birth. As a lawyer RW surely needs to define gender identity and they way it differs from sex. Back to the circular thing. I am what I say I am, because I say so. But you are not because you don't feel like I feel. The way I feel is womanly. You don't feel womanly, you just pretend to. What is womanly - it is the way I feel. Bonkers.

RhannionKPSS · 11/01/2023 15:45

No doubt RMW will pop up again to give us the benefit of RMW’s “ wisdom” on this thread or another.
So if you see this, Women aren’t backing down RMW, get used to it.

WallaceinAnderland · 11/01/2023 15:49

RMW: if I was gay, I wouldn't have to go in front of a panel

Politics Live 10 Jan - Scottish Gender Reform Bill - will it be blocked by Westminster?
Datun · 11/01/2023 16:23

JoodyBlue · 11/01/2023 12:56

That twitter thread is fascinating though. If DH is described as not really trans by RW. RW declares that trans is a gender identity different from sex assigned at birth. As a lawyer RW surely needs to define gender identity and they way it differs from sex. Back to the circular thing. I am what I say I am, because I say so. But you are not because you don't feel like I feel. The way I feel is womanly. You don't feel womanly, you just pretend to. What is womanly - it is the way I feel. Bonkers.

Whilst I agree that Hayton is no more a woman than White, the reason why Hayton is told by other transactivists that they are not a woman, is because Hayton is a self confessed AGP.

The denial of autogynephilia, in the teeth of it being splashed from one end of the Internet to the other, continues apace.

Datun · 11/01/2023 16:24

Sorry, I know you know that JoodyBlue, I'm just musing out loud.

ScrollingLeaves · 11/01/2023 16:58

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OldCrone · 11/01/2023 18:10

Datun · 11/01/2023 16:23

Whilst I agree that Hayton is no more a woman than White, the reason why Hayton is told by other transactivists that they are not a woman, is because Hayton is a self confessed AGP.

The denial of autogynephilia, in the teeth of it being splashed from one end of the Internet to the other, continues apace.

That's not exactly what RW said. RW said that Hayton isn't really trans, not that Hayton isn't a woman (interestingly, RW still uses 'she' when referring to Hayton).

So it seems that according to RW, someone who says their transition is driven by a fetish isn't really trans. Someone who says they regret their transition, or who RW believes to regret their transition (even if they haven't said they do), isn't really trans. RW doesn't explain how RW knows what other people are thinking. Perhaps it's like Layla Moran being able to see souls.

And yet RW also believes in self ID, which says that everyone who says they're trans is trans. Totally contradictory.

JoodyBlue · 11/01/2023 18:38

@Datun yes indeed :) I think I have more respect for Hayton, at least saying it out loud. It is the only thing that makes any sense to me.

FigRollsAlly · 11/01/2023 19:53

ArabellaScott · 11/01/2023 11:17

Classy response from Sonia.

Sonia is pure class. I love her!

JoodyBlue · 11/01/2023 20:03

@WallaceinAnderland seems we have all stopped laughing these days. But I proper guffawwed. Thank you. Needed that!

Datun · 11/01/2023 22:17

OldCrone · 11/01/2023 18:10

That's not exactly what RW said. RW said that Hayton isn't really trans, not that Hayton isn't a woman (interestingly, RW still uses 'she' when referring to Hayton).

So it seems that according to RW, someone who says their transition is driven by a fetish isn't really trans. Someone who says they regret their transition, or who RW believes to regret their transition (even if they haven't said they do), isn't really trans. RW doesn't explain how RW knows what other people are thinking. Perhaps it's like Layla Moran being able to see souls.

And yet RW also believes in self ID, which says that everyone who says they're trans is trans. Totally contradictory.

So Hayton's not trans, but they are still a woman? With pronouns? So according to RMW, is Hayton to be denied any thing trans related?

Or do they get all the access that White enjoys, and being called a woman, but not a transwoman?

I mean, I know logic never enters the equation, but that's taking the biscuit!

OldCrone · 11/01/2023 22:29

Datun · 11/01/2023 22:17

So Hayton's not trans, but they are still a woman? With pronouns? So according to RMW, is Hayton to be denied any thing trans related?

Or do they get all the access that White enjoys, and being called a woman, but not a transwoman?

I mean, I know logic never enters the equation, but that's taking the biscuit!

I've no idea if RW thinks Hayton is a woman, but this is one of RW's tweets:

I’ve read Debbie’s stuff. No trans person could write what she does.

twitter.com/moira_robin/status/1613067625881288704

'She' as a pronoun for Hayton, but insists Hayton isn't trans.

Politics Live 10 Jan - Scottish Gender Reform Bill - will it be blocked by Westminster?
Helleofabore · 12/01/2023 07:21

OldCrone · 11/01/2023 22:29

I've no idea if RW thinks Hayton is a woman, but this is one of RW's tweets:

I’ve read Debbie’s stuff. No trans person could write what she does.

twitter.com/moira_robin/status/1613067625881288704

'She' as a pronoun for Hayton, but insists Hayton isn't trans.

Indeed old crone. It is almost like the logic has failed but the barrister has not realised yet…

Or is there about to be a split in the trans community and this is the early signalling for it?

Datun · 12/01/2023 07:44

That thread! Seems the acid test of trans authenticity isn't self ID at all. It's agreement with RMW.

Datun · 12/01/2023 07:48

Or is there about to be a split in the trans community and this is the early signalling for it?

That would be useful. At least it would give autogynephilia the overdue public airing it needs. Or 'some paraphilia' as RMW would euphemistically have it.

Birdsweepsin · 12/01/2023 07:55

Seems the acid test of trans authenticity isn't self ID at all. It's agreement with RMW.

More broadly, (according to TRA logic) you cannot be authentically trans and be honest about scientific facts.

Datun · 12/01/2023 08:06

Birdsweepsin · 12/01/2023 07:55

Seems the acid test of trans authenticity isn't self ID at all. It's agreement with RMW.

More broadly, (according to TRA logic) you cannot be authentically trans and be honest about scientific facts.

RMW to DH: "No.
It’s about truth and respect of others."

ResisterRex · 12/01/2023 08:07

It's about truth and respect of others.

Couldn't make it up, could you?!

Helleofabore · 12/01/2023 08:16

It is simply a delight to watch the inconsistencies spring forth.

Less a delight is the way misogyny behind the tweets about Sonia and Helen. Yet they too are a sign that sunlight is streaming through the cracks. And cannot transform misogyny into anything but misogyny.

RichardBarrister · 12/01/2023 10:07

Is RMW gatekeeping trans by any chance?

Helleofabore · 12/01/2023 10:40

Ooohh. richard. You apparently have used the magical ‘feminist’ jargon word ‘gatekeeping’ that ELO told us was not used elsewhere!!!

WinterTrees · 12/01/2023 11:16

I'm not here much at the moment, but have just caught up on this and watched the clip posted upthread. One of the things that jumped out at me was Sonia's visible eagerness to get all her information, evidence and expertise across in a comprehensive way. She is immensely calm, but almost shaking with adrenaline, knowing she has SO MUCH evidence to support her argument. You can almost hear her head whirring as she tries to select which point to make, knowing she doesn't have long before she's cut off.

RMW on the other hand looks bored and speaks slowly, playing for time, repeating tired old non-arguments and introducing silly hypotheticals ('if I was gay I wouldn't have to go in front of a panel') to derail the argument. RMW is drawing on a lifetime of socialisation and relying on the privilege that RMW is automatically afforded as a transwoman which means RMW is not likely to be shut down before RMW has finished speaking.

This is the patriarchy in action. Privilege in plain sight. It's quite striking to watch.

ScrollingLeaves · 12/01/2023 11:24

WinterTrees · Today 11:16
This is the patriarchy in action. Privilege in plain sight. It's quite striking to watch.

Absolutely. It is the patriarchy personified with nothing feminine whatsoever about it.

Very striking. Laughable if it were not so extraordinarily outrageous.

ArabellaScott · 12/01/2023 11:30

100% Winter Trees.