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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The WI non-members questionnaire: quick and easy to make your point

154 replies

pattihews · 02/12/2022 20:52

The WI is concerned that numbers are falling and fewer and fewer women are signing up. It doesn't seem to have occurred to them that women aren't keen on so-called women's organisations that accept men. Quick, easy and loads of room to say what you want.

womensinstitute.surveysparrow.com/s/wi-non-member-survey-for-women-who-are-not-wi-members/tt-xwsByTfSPd3Jomcuza74KF?

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Deanefan · 02/12/2022 22:35

I have pointed them in the direction of Jordan Gray’s recent performance as an example of potential members vs the Muslim and Orthodox Jewish women that their inclusivity will of course exclude

HellonHeels · 02/12/2022 22:44

Done. Thanks for shsring this.

So disingenuous only to reveal their gender identity bollocks at the last page.

gogohmm · 02/12/2022 22:47

The reason I won't join is I'm not keen on organisations that segregate by gender or sex. Nor am I interested in lectures on plants, poetry or the history of a local town (the 3 thing's listed here)

It's had it's day, that's the reason for its decline, not that theoretically they accept trans women, as if any would actually want to join!

IcakethereforeIam · 02/12/2022 22:56

How many times can you complete this survey?

wildseas · 02/12/2022 23:00

Done.

ive explained that if I were to join a mixed sex organisation I would want that to include everyone. That if I were to join a women’s group I would want it to include women only, feels quite basic but clearly they’re struggling......

SavouryFlavour · 02/12/2022 23:10

I was one of the younger members in a rural WI: loved the mixture of talks, activities and just the general chat with other women I probably wouldn't have met. (And, I've got to honest, the recipes. Got to love 12-egg cakes to feed hungry farmers.) Meetings were 7pm so we got a reasonable cross section of people, but it went into voluntary suspension when the committee were bullied by the regional branch management and resigned en masse. The membership sided with the committee, and that was that. Whole thing left a bad taste for me, and I didn't seek out a new one to join.

Datdamndamp · 02/12/2022 23:13

I'd join our local group but it's small and mixed sex. So, I'd rather go along to the local gardening group because ittpriperlt

Jadedandlost · 02/12/2022 23:15

Done. I wonder if they will share the outcomes at all?

Datdamndamp · 02/12/2022 23:16

Pressed send by accident. Should have said... it's properly mixed sex.

LuluBlakey1 · 02/12/2022 23:29

Done

PixelatedLunchbox · 02/12/2022 23:34

I gave them this on why I wasn't joining:

"Unfortunately you don’t seem to grasp that women want to associate with women, not men in frocks, in a women’s organisation. You do know that transwomen are not actually women right? Identification does not equal reality or biology. (If it does, can I identify as a cat and stay overnight in catteries instead of hotels? Or pay WI membership dues in monopoly money as I identify it as real money? )"

Abitofalark · 02/12/2022 23:56

PatChauncey, Ah, I have no knowledge of where the WI is and whether it's in Northern Ireland - I was commenting on what the survey said about where they operate which didn't mention Northern Ireland, or indeed Scotland, but did mention England and Wales and some islands. It doesn't say much for whoever drew up the survey.

MenaiMna · 03/12/2022 00:44

Not only did I tell them i lament they've taken the path like girl guides of betraying their sex but I told them they were tainted by religion & monarchism, and gender stereotypes. Shame, as I love good crafts & good cake!

Puddycatfan · 03/12/2022 00:55

That was very satisfying. Thank you!!

WeDontNeedToTalkAboutJamie · 03/12/2022 00:59

It's such a shame, because my answer to the first question was that yes I would join based on their description. And I probably would if I didn't realise their definition of women included men.

I wonder if they'll take all the comments about this on board.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 03/12/2022 01:01

WeDontNeedToTalkAboutJamie · 03/12/2022 00:59

It's such a shame, because my answer to the first question was that yes I would join based on their description. And I probably would if I didn't realise their definition of women included men.

I wonder if they'll take all the comments about this on board.

Pretty definite they won't. It's obviously a concerted effort by transphobic terms to spam the survey so can therefore be completely discounted.

Hepwo · 03/12/2022 01:06

I was interested in joining but the first meeting I saw had this person insulting women with a lot of rubbish so I didn't bother

www.newschainonline.com/lifestyle/life/the-womens-institute-magazine-has-its-first-ever-trans-cover-star-193952?amp=

TooHotToRamble · 03/12/2022 01:29

gogohmm · 02/12/2022 22:47

The reason I won't join is I'm not keen on organisations that segregate by gender or sex. Nor am I interested in lectures on plants, poetry or the history of a local town (the 3 thing's listed here)

It's had it's day, that's the reason for its decline, not that theoretically they accept trans women, as if any would actually want to join!

This. I answered it on that basis also. My experience of getting involved in local women only groups had been really poor.

SiobhanSharpe · 03/12/2022 01:48

But some transwomen clearly do want to join, see the link above.
It's about validation.

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 03/12/2022 02:05

Done.

Why won't I join?
Because they admit people with penises.

That's wrong isn;t it?
Should have been people with a penis.

No-one has more than one.

Do they?

For fucks sake.

AgathaMystery · 03/12/2022 02:06

ChateauMargaux · 02/12/2022 22:12

Did anyone offer to join a discussion?

I did!

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2022 12:14

You know I feel for the poor sod at the WI who has been tasked with doing the survey presentation.

"And now we move on to slide 58 and once again as you'll see from the pie chart no one wants to join a women's group where some of the women have penises.

What was that Gladys you're sick of hearing about penises on every slide women don't have penises? Hmm? Anyway does anyone have any thoughts about how we bring in more women? Yes John, sorry Janet......"

FOJN · 03/12/2022 12:36

I thought about completing the survey but have decided not to.

Any organisation which claims to be women only but admits men on the basis of lady feels is too stupid or spinless for me to waste time on.

I'm all out of patience with this shit. The WI can wither and die as far as I'm concerned.

ChristmasCrackler · 03/12/2022 12:37

ChateauMargaux · 02/12/2022 22:12

Did anyone offer to join a discussion?

I did. Except they didn't ask for my email.

mumda · 03/12/2022 12:44

What an awful survey.
I don't know or maybe is not an option for the first couple of questions. I got bored at the question where I had to rearrange things in order.