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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women and girls' sex-based rights

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StephanieSuperpowers · 25/11/2022 16:21

Well, here we are...

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fenderstrat1953angelico · 29/11/2022 14:35

duc748 · 29/11/2022 14:32

Every good wish from me too, fender. Does this mean Friday is off?

No - I'll be there. Tomorrow they'll be deciding what tests and imaging, PET/MRI and also how long a tube to use, 1 metre or two.

duc748 · 29/11/2022 14:40

Arrrgh!

Tricyrtis2022 · 29/11/2022 14:42

'kin 'ell!

MissLawls · 29/11/2022 14:58

Wishing all the best @fenderstrat1953angelico hope it goes as well as these things ever can. And lovely what you said here upthread about this being our place now. It feels so nice and warm. Like a cosy refuge after a horrible storm.

otraynor · 29/11/2022 15:13

Best wishes, fenders. I've had a cancer scare recently. You have my sympathy.

SinnerBoy · 29/11/2022 15:13

I'm sorry to hear of your woes, Fender and wish you all the best.

TassLeHoff · 29/11/2022 15:16

Wishing you all the best, Fends.

MissLawls · 29/11/2022 15:47

I don't even mind the ads here.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 29/11/2022 15:48

That's a lot of tube. Hope it goes well and they find nothing untoward.

Dotellhimpike · 29/11/2022 15:51

Sending love and good vibes Fenders. xxx.

fenderstrat1953angelico · 29/11/2022 15:59

Cheers everyone and sorry to derail the thread. x

MissLawls · 29/11/2022 16:14

Cheers everyone and sorry to derail the thread.

No need to apologise Fendies. You're with friends here. But while we're on guitars d'you think what mumsnet really needs is a guitar pron thread? I miss it from The Other Place!

ThucydidesJTT · 29/11/2022 16:20

The old place is running with the "a small clique of male bigots" were the problem. Point blank refusing to accept the demand was to, and has resulted in, the exile of large chunk of mostly women posters.

Tricyrtis2022 · 29/11/2022 16:23

Anyone know what sort of number of members is left there now? The crowd who left must have made a dent in the number left.

ThucydidesJTT · 29/11/2022 16:24

No idea on numbers but I think they've taken a much bigger hit than they thought.

Kucinghitam · 29/11/2022 16:34

To be fair, I think a lot of people are still in both places?

BezMills · 29/11/2022 16:35

I think that the dust is still settling as well. I'm still nominally a poster there, and am very fond of my friends who are staying on.
That being said, my JTT duffel coat is definitely on a shoogly peg. Actions have consequences.

duc748 · 29/11/2022 16:36

ThucydidesJTT · 29/11/2022 16:20

The old place is running with the "a small clique of male bigots" were the problem. Point blank refusing to accept the demand was to, and has resulted in, the exile of large chunk of mostly women posters.

It's amazing how a 'truth' like this can quickly become established.

Tricyrtis2022 · 29/11/2022 16:39

they've taken a much bigger hit than they thought

But surely that's what they wanted or no one would have been encouraged to hound us off the site.

CyanCyan · 29/11/2022 16:41

I haven’t posted much in the last year or two due to the dwindling numbers and what felt like a bit of a hostile environment overall. Lots of snarky, snipey posts that left me disinclined to contribute to discussions. I enjoy mumsnet much more these days.

Kucinghitam · 29/11/2022 17:01

But surely that's what they wanted or no one would have been encouraged to hound us off the site.

The last I saw, was a perplexing mutually contradictory set of positions whereby: (1) the Good people should have driven the Bad people away because the discussions themselves and the Bad presence were unacceptable (2) the Bad people were horrible and petty and whatever for just politely leaving instead of staying to discuss things (or being burned at the stake?).

And sometimes both positions from the same posters.

I'm getting the impression this is still the case.

Dotellhimpike · 29/11/2022 17:04

I'm trying so hard not to post but I can't stop myself from correcting or pointing out what are clear lies.

Tricyrtis2022 · 29/11/2022 17:09

Free yourself, pike. As they say, don't let them live rent-free in your mind.

DeanVolecapeAKAelderberry · 29/11/2022 17:12

And that the people pontificating are, (to a good extent), the male bigots who turned on us as soon as JtS clicked his fingers. They are so craven and so dishonest.

MissLawls · 29/11/2022 17:13

I'm trying so hard not to post but I can't stop myself from correcting or pointing out what are clear lies.

It's so very hard to walk away from people telling lies isn't it? @Dotellhimpike

But sometimes you have to do just that. You can't change minds. You can't change what someone believes and they may not even believe it! It may be said just for a wind up or to make them feel better. Sometimes, tough though it is, you have to walk away to preserve your own peace of mind!

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