WRT the HOO debacle being the lasting legacy from the Brighton event and it therefore doing more harm than good, allow me to let you into a secret which represents a good comparison.
A while back, I discovered that the Trans Widows Voices website had been linked on Breitbart, obviously without my permission (in an article by Natasha Chart IIRC). Clearly as a former Labour Party member and Trade Unionist, I was not particularly happy as Breitbart does not align with my values.
I thought for a couple of minutes about whether I should be annoyed, and then I thought, no, right wing women become trans widows too, and if they see the website via Breitbart then that’s great, and the Guardian has yet to come knocking.
And then do you know what I did about my fears of guilt by association? I told NOBODY ABOUT IT AT ALL, so nobody knew until now. I didn’t start multiple passive aggressive threads all over social media to disassociate myself, I just ignored the thing I didn’t want to amplify.
I’m an ordinary working mother and I can come up with that strategy all by myself. I’m really not sure why Sappho and the high minded feminists can’t do the same.