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Graham Norton has terminated his Twitter account after attacking JK Rowling

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SwanageBay · 17/10/2022 12:41

Well that's one less beardy man on there defending rape and death threats.

Graham Norton has terminated his Twitter account after attacking JK Rowling
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ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:36

In fact, the outright rage expressed above by Freespirit42 over JKR's received threats is very interesting. Freespirit is not outraged that these threats exist, or that they are being minimised and excused as "accountability".

Freespirit is, instead, enraged because their existence lends weight to the position that dangerous men exist and we need safeguards against them. This does not sit with Freespirit's ideology and therefore Freespirit is furious that we are insisting on taking them seriously. The only response, then, is "what about these threats from other men, what about Posie Parker saying things I don't like. What about, what about, what about..."

It's not really what should be making people angry.

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:36

Shall I say not making myself very clear here I have seen screen shots that trans people have showing the death threats they have also had. Kiwi farms shite was bad to the way I see it there are bad actors on both sides

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:38

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:36

In fact, the outright rage expressed above by Freespirit42 over JKR's received threats is very interesting. Freespirit is not outraged that these threats exist, or that they are being minimised and excused as "accountability".

Freespirit is, instead, enraged because their existence lends weight to the position that dangerous men exist and we need safeguards against them. This does not sit with Freespirit's ideology and therefore Freespirit is furious that we are insisting on taking them seriously. The only response, then, is "what about these threats from other men, what about Posie Parker saying things I don't like. What about, what about, what about..."

It's not really what should be making people angry.

That’s not what I think at all but thanks for putting your reasoning on my brain the thing is yes cis men can be dangerous death threats to trans normally come from them more then anything but I see trans women also a victim of these men that’s my stance

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:40

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:38

That’s not what I think at all but thanks for putting your reasoning on my brain the thing is yes cis men can be dangerous death threats to trans normally come from them more then anything but I see trans women also a victim of these men that’s my stance

Oh and if you gonna say that trans side is full of hate aka death threats to jk rowling which is sick then you gotta take the flack that repeatedly saying stuff that’s horrible about the trans community that some have can also get a backlash to trans community that’s how accountability works and I think that’s what GN was saying

YouSirNeighMmmm · 18/10/2022 13:40

Disinginuity to a point where it might be easy to throw around serious accusations.

Anyone on the side of this debate which opposes women's rights, LGB rights and child safeguarding has a moral obligation to make it clear that however insane and bigoted views they do not align with the death and rape (with girl-dick, natch) threats that are all over the TRA side.

Given the lack of constant death and rape threats from GC women and men the reverse does not seem to be true.

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:42

YouSirNeighMmmm · 18/10/2022 13:40

Disinginuity to a point where it might be easy to throw around serious accusations.

Anyone on the side of this debate which opposes women's rights, LGB rights and child safeguarding has a moral obligation to make it clear that however insane and bigoted views they do not align with the death and rape (with girl-dick, natch) threats that are all over the TRA side.

Given the lack of constant death and rape threats from GC women and men the reverse does not seem to be true.

Really you need to follow some trans people accounts they will show the direct messages they get and yes it’s death threats but believe what you want. Oh and seen as many trans are homosexual or bisexual none of us are homophobic I mean I do find it funny when glinner basically accused Graham Norton a gay man of being a homophobe

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:43

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:38

That’s not what I think at all but thanks for putting your reasoning on my brain the thing is yes cis men can be dangerous death threats to trans normally come from them more then anything but I see trans women also a victim of these men that’s my stance

It's exactly what you think. It's evidenced from your combativeness, your insistence on "sides", your attempt to dismiss the threats with endless whataboutery, your desire to reduce the debate to Oppression Olympics (which you lose anyway) and your absolute refusal to address the fact that you've placed your ideology above women's safety and women's consent. You literally don't believe women should have the right to refuse consent to male bodied people in their spaces.

I don't think you realise how badly your arguments are coming across here. Yes, you. I may not agree with some other posters but even they aren't doing the absolute hatchet job on themselves and their "side", as you insist on calling it, that you are. For that reason, I rather hope that you stay.

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:43

YouSirNeighMmmm · 18/10/2022 13:40

Disinginuity to a point where it might be easy to throw around serious accusations.

Anyone on the side of this debate which opposes women's rights, LGB rights and child safeguarding has a moral obligation to make it clear that however insane and bigoted views they do not align with the death and rape (with girl-dick, natch) threats that are all over the TRA side.

Given the lack of constant death and rape threats from GC women and men the reverse does not seem to be true.

Also I don’t oppose women rights I did find it interesting that so many anti trans accounts that say they are for womens rights never stand up fast enough about when abortions was being discussed I am a big believer in womens rights it’s just that my feminism also includes trans women

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:45

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:43

It's exactly what you think. It's evidenced from your combativeness, your insistence on "sides", your attempt to dismiss the threats with endless whataboutery, your desire to reduce the debate to Oppression Olympics (which you lose anyway) and your absolute refusal to address the fact that you've placed your ideology above women's safety and women's consent. You literally don't believe women should have the right to refuse consent to male bodied people in their spaces.

I don't think you realise how badly your arguments are coming across here. Yes, you. I may not agree with some other posters but even they aren't doing the absolute hatchet job on themselves and their "side", as you insist on calling it, that you are. For that reason, I rather hope that you stay.

Can you not see the combativeness from your condescending tone but you guys never see that do you at all

midgetastic · 18/10/2022 13:45

Your feminism isn't feminism if it includes males

It's something else

It's why is FEMinism

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:46

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:43

It's exactly what you think. It's evidenced from your combativeness, your insistence on "sides", your attempt to dismiss the threats with endless whataboutery, your desire to reduce the debate to Oppression Olympics (which you lose anyway) and your absolute refusal to address the fact that you've placed your ideology above women's safety and women's consent. You literally don't believe women should have the right to refuse consent to male bodied people in their spaces.

I don't think you realise how badly your arguments are coming across here. Yes, you. I may not agree with some other posters but even they aren't doing the absolute hatchet job on themselves and their "side", as you insist on calling it, that you are. For that reason, I rather hope that you stay.

Wow so trans people are an ideology that’s so stupid as they are real there is no ideology here

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:46

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:43

Also I don’t oppose women rights I did find it interesting that so many anti trans accounts that say they are for womens rights never stand up fast enough about when abortions was being discussed I am a big believer in womens rights it’s just that my feminism also includes trans women

Your feminism doesn't know what a woman is, doesn't give a toss about gendered death threats against women, can't follow 250-character tweets and doesn't acknowledge women's right to refuse consent to male people in female spaces. It can't even punctuate.

Your feminism can get in the bin.

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:46

midgetastic · 18/10/2022 13:45

Your feminism isn't feminism if it includes males

It's something else

It's why is FEMinism

That’s your opinion intersectional feminism exists and is followed by many women

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:48

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:46

Your feminism doesn't know what a woman is, doesn't give a toss about gendered death threats against women, can't follow 250-character tweets and doesn't acknowledge women's right to refuse consent to male people in female spaces. It can't even punctuate.

Your feminism can get in the bin.

Annoying you aren’t I and you say it’s us that are rattled it really isn’t !!!!!!

midgetastic · 18/10/2022 13:48

Just because some women think that intersectional feminism includes none female people doesn't make it true

What is does is make a mockery of intersectional feminism

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:49

midgetastic · 18/10/2022 13:48

Just because some women think that intersectional feminism includes none female people doesn't make it true

What is does is make a mockery of intersectional feminism

Again your opinion funny how this works isn’t it

midgetastic · 18/10/2022 13:49

But she never said anyone was rattled in that quote ?

Ah - I forgot - you already admitted to "interpretation " of what people write

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:49

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:48

Annoying you aren’t I and you say it’s us that are rattled it really isn’t !!!!!!

I think I'm going to frame this and put it on the wall. Like a rare butterfly, it has no idea that it is so beautiful, or why.

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:49

midgetastic · 18/10/2022 13:49

But she never said anyone was rattled in that quote ?

Ah - I forgot - you already admitted to "interpretation " of what people write

But others have other people have and maybe her to who cares

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:50

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midgetastic · 18/10/2022 13:50

So you put someone else's words into her mouth ?

That's not nice dear

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:51

On the one hand, I'm annoyed that I fell for it.

On the other, so many TRA ideologists really are like this that they're actually impossible to satirise.

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:52

ReneBumsWombats · 18/10/2022 13:51

On the one hand, I'm annoyed that I fell for it.

On the other, so many TRA ideologists really are like this that they're actually impossible to satirise.

What do you think I am? I mean that sounds very much like you are in a cult reallly oh I disagree with that person so that makes that person a such and such. You don’t know me at all this is what you guys do

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:54

So feminism on mumsnet means you have to follow such and such or if you don’t we attack you because that shows how nice we are to other women message received loud and clear I am not welcome

JoodyBlue · 18/10/2022 13:54

Freespirit42 · 18/10/2022 13:49

Again your opinion funny how this works isn’t it

It is not an opinion. Feminism as a social movement has a history dating back to the days of Suffragists/Suffragettes. It has always been woman centred. The fact that it has been derailed in recent decades by the young women who rights were gained by their predecessors is not opinion. It is historical fact. Moreover it is ignorant and it is really ungrateful.