Some of us have been at the coal face as it were for ooh about 16 years.
This makes some of us a little short when we have to yet again point out the most obvious flaws, find ways to make people really think about what they are saying (very often its, transwomen aren't the problem/what about third spaces) when they spout this stuff that means even they are putting men first and really women should be on our own team.
We also have been discussing this for all those years, we have found our answers (we know transwomen aren't the problem, but men are and who's to tell us which is tru trans and which is not?/third spaces have been touted by every woman who comes to this even me back then, but trans people dont want it and why is this womens issue to solve? )
There are other questions, if you read around the boards you will find questions and answers you hadnt even thought about, I did.
And mostly, in the end after reading all you can, you end up without meaning to as an expert and potentially called a T%#F. And then you try to tell people in real life with varying success and get a little frustrated that some women do not get it until one day they are forced into having a man in their space and then finally they might get it.
We are passionate about this, we care about women very much and we have seen the writing on the wall for over a decade. And we sometimes wonder how so many women cant put it together and that can come across in our posts. We are all very sorry but this really is bloody important, the most important fight for women and our rights when we believed we had got it all. Sadly that depends on men letting us have it.