Women and feminists sit down, shut up and go along with something that makes them deeply uncomfortable?
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Anyone - including fascists, TRAs, and feminists - can film anyone - including fascists, TRAs and feminists - a public space.
If that makes someone uncomfortable, be they fascist, TRA or feminist, then that person should not perform in a public space.
There absolutely should be non-public events, and even totally unfilmed events, for women who are uncomfortable with the level of exposure they would get at a KJK rally. The best thing you can do for people who are uncomfortable is to create new spaces where they would be comfortable.
We can't make the public square such a "safe space" though. (And by "can't", I mean we couldn't even if we wanted to).