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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What is Allison Bailey's spaghetti briefcase?

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Drastic · 20/08/2022 13:20

Like the title says really, I'm seeing it all over twitter today and I haven't got a clue what it's about.

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Mesopotamian · 22/08/2022 08:00

Hopefully racists and homophobes can have a little think, see a different behaviour modeled, and if half change their hearts then that would be excellent.

I hope so @turbonerd , the memeing on Allsion over this has been relentless all weekend and probably even worse than wispa lemon incident.

It's soul-destroying knowing how many racist homophobes exist out there.

Deepinspace · 22/08/2022 09:21

I hope so @turbonerd , the memeing on Allsion over this has been relentless all weekend

Why are there so many memes with AB and Graham Linehan in together? He wasn't even in Midnight Society's story thread.

LuftBalloons · 22/08/2022 10:05

Joanne Harris’ behaviour throughout this has been, at best, childish, and at worst bullying and vindictive.

Her stupid nasty “poll” asking how many authors had received death threats just hours after Salman Rushdie was stabbed and J K Rowling told via a Tweet “don’t worry you’re next” was appalling.

I'm not a member of the Society of Authors, but if anyone here is, Julie Bindel’s letter is still open for signatures.

walkingonwaters · 22/08/2022 11:32

Deepinspace · 22/08/2022 09:21

I hope so @turbonerd , the memeing on Allsion over this has been relentless all weekend

Why are there so many memes with AB and Graham Linehan in together? He wasn't even in Midnight Society's story thread.

I don't know either, I'm normally quite good at deciphering their mindworms but I could make neither head nor tail of this one.

What is Allison Bailey's spaghetti briefcase?
ScreamingMeMe · 22/08/2022 12:09

They're not exactly Mole At The Door, are they?

GertrudeKerfuffle · 22/08/2022 12:48

Can you imagine if Joanne Harris had outed herself as gender critical? She would probably have been cancelled, doxxed and hounded out of her position by now, along with the inevitable rape and death threats.

At least it's heartening to see that we GC folk can debate the issue in a reasonable manner, without people calling for cancellation and respecting the right to free speech. It really highlights the difference between TRAs and GC feminists.

GertrudeKerfuffle · 22/08/2022 12:50

And contrasted against the grace of Allison Bailey, despite attempts to turn it against her.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/08/2022 13:08

I don't know either, I'm normally quite good at deciphering their mindworms but I could make neither head nor tail of this one.

Me neither. Lovely picture of Helen Joyce though!

schmumple · 22/08/2022 13:24

Honestly, @Hearach15 trying so hard to paint AB as an ally of racists and homophobes whilst spectacularly missing the point is quite a sobering reminder of why it's increasingly impossible to reach any common ground or understanding with people who can only see the world in their terms. It's bizarre, this childish immaturity to insist the world can only be their one, pure way.

You think all racists and homophobes should be shunned, do you? You don't think bringing them into a common movement alongside people different to them might help them slowly question and challenge some of those views they have?

Also, do you think homophobic black people should be excluded from Black Lives Matter? That racist gay people should be banned from Pride? It's not always so clear cut, and ostracising people from something that is for them is not a great way to foster understanding.

And for everyone thinking it's just about a 4chan spaghetti meme - a reminder. When it's aimed at black people, even if it did come from that stupid meme, it has a different meaning. Whenever black people are the target, it always carries the echo of the other tropes/stereotypes - this is partly what people mean by systemic racism. It's not just a spaghetti meme, it taps into an entire cultural way of viewing black people. That's why it's a problem.

Mesopotamian · 22/08/2022 13:31

And for everyone thinking it's just about a 4chan spaghetti meme - a reminder. When it's aimed at black people, even if it did come from that stupid meme, it has a different meaning

So true, in the pasta sauce meme above with Allison and Graham Linehan the creator deliberately chose (white) carbonara over the more obvious (dark) bolognese to ridicule her furthur.

ScreamingMeMe · 22/08/2022 13:40

Ah yes, the "people aren't really black/gay etc if they think a certain way" trope.

ScreamingMeMe · 22/08/2022 13:43

Although we might be crediting these idiots with too much creativity and intelligence.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 22/08/2022 15:11

I'd say the choice of white sauce is a deliberate sneer at Allison for not acting "black enough".

Slimy racist toads. One of my many issues with pseudo-progressives is how conditional their acceptance and tolerance is. They pretend not to be racist, but it is conditional. If someone Disagrees While Being Black, out comes all the racism.

whatUwaiting4 · 22/08/2022 16:01

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schmumple · 22/08/2022 16:28

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I think that's a bit of an overreach. And no I don't think all TRAs are racist or homophobic - but I think the person in this instance certainly is. Can't help but think you're trying to paint Mumsnetters as more aggressive or unreasonable than they actually are. If that is the case, I might wonder why you're so keen to deflect from some fairly clear racism; is racism acceptable when it's directed towards someone whose views you disagree with?

Heylookatus · 22/08/2022 16:39

Can't help but think you're trying to paint Mumsnetters as more aggressive or unreasonable than they actually are

You must be new here.

Pok · 22/08/2022 16:42

schmumple · 22/08/2022 16:28

I think that's a bit of an overreach. And no I don't think all TRAs are racist or homophobic - but I think the person in this instance certainly is. Can't help but think you're trying to paint Mumsnetters as more aggressive or unreasonable than they actually are. If that is the case, I might wonder why you're so keen to deflect from some fairly clear racism; is racism acceptable when it's directed towards someone whose views you disagree with?

Oh, so you expect women to be all nice and quiet, meekly sat in the corner doing our knitting right?

FFS 😒

schmumple · 22/08/2022 17:24

Oh, so you expect women to be all nice and quiet, meekly sat in the corner doing our knitting right?

My post didn't imply that at all. The now deleted post I was replying to was aggressive and unreasonable (hence deletion) - my objection to that doesn't mean I think women should be at home knitting (nice gender stereotyping there, no thanks). For clarity, not being aggressive and nasty doesn't not automatically equal being meek and quiet. What a ridiculous inference.

Numberzz · 22/08/2022 17:33

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DarkDayforMN · 22/08/2022 17:50

So many new usernames! Like Tribbles, but not quite as cute.

ScreamingMeMe · 22/08/2022 19:01

DarkDayforMN · 22/08/2022 17:50

So many new usernames! Like Tribbles, but not quite as cute.

Yes. How curious. I wonder why this particular thread?

onlyweknowthis · 22/08/2022 19:34

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VestofAbsurdity · 22/08/2022 19:47

DarkDayforMN · 22/08/2022 17:50

So many new usernames! Like Tribbles, but not quite as cute.

Watch out for and report to MN Private Messages from user names you don't recognise.

SamphirethePogoingStickerist · 22/08/2022 20:04

How odd! They must have been busy, sending all of those DMs!

ScreamingMeMe · 22/08/2022 20:20

VestofAbsurdity · 22/08/2022 19:47

Watch out for and report to MN Private Messages from user names you don't recognise.

Ah yes I had one of those. MNHQ banned them after I reported them.

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