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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Stonewall and Kelley at it again - "Modern culture has a vested interest in pretending that only female and male exist" 🙄

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Fenlandia · 18/08/2022 10:07

twitter.com/Nancy_M_K/status/1560163238129680385

""Modern culture has a vested interest in pretending that only female and male exist because enemies of LGBT people recognise it’s important to erase intersex people in order to uphold homophobia"

Links to this article www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/health-family/it-s-hard-to-come-out-as-intersex-people-still-don-t-know-what-it-means-1.4073377

Even if this were true, it still doesn't make any sense whatsoever, it's just a word salad to me and I'm probably better informed than the general public on what "intersex", aka VSDs or variations of sexual development, are.

As always I feel for that community who are being dragged into the pseudoscience and queer theory bollocks being spouted by a major, well-respected (not be me) charity.

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Clymene · 18/08/2022 11:57

She's smarting because of that furry in Surrey who complained about Lisa Townsend and got told to stfu.

There are two sexes Nancy. Male and female. Emily Bridges is male.

People with DSDs are either male or female. We all know you prefer the term intersex because it implies some people straddle the two but scientific advances have meant that we now know that's not true.

BoredofthisCrap7 · 18/08/2022 11:59

Stonewall -

What is this elusive third sex?

What is the third gamete that we don't know about?

Why are you still using terms like "intersex" which are no longer used in most reproductive medicine?

Are you aware that every single DSD is sex specific and can ONLY affect males or females?

Are you aware that those suffering with DSDs are still either male OR female and not a hybrid of both?

Are you aware that true hermaphroditism does NOT exist in homo sapiens?

Are you aware that only 0.018% of the population live with a true DSD?

Are you aware that those living with DSDs have REPEATEDLY ASKED not to be drawn into this debate?

Are you aware that you a a bunch of twats?

Dreikanter · 18/08/2022 11:59

Helen Joyce is tweeting about this - and there’s some interesting replies about Viloria’s history.

Clymene · 18/08/2022 12:13

Apparently the woman in the article is claiming to have congenital adrenal hyperplasia and never taken any medication to treat it. But CAH is incredibly dangerous left untreated - it can kill you.

twitter.com/cais_files/status/1560208325974933504?s=21&t=XnUQrzR71qn9DDqMIpA-2A

AlisonDonut · 18/08/2022 12:28

WanOvaryKenobi · 18/08/2022 11:41

So the CEO of Stonewall is saying once again that homosexuality and same-sex attraction do not exist.

I mean, wasn't this the reason that the Lesbian and Gay movement started organisations like, erm, Stonewall?

BlossomsOnATree · 18/08/2022 12:35

FFS why are they all so confused?

Sex is fixed, you can be male or female, and there are DSDs. You can try to imitate the opposite sex, or obscure the signs of your actual sex, by doing things to your body but the track record shows that many of the ways of doing this are likely to cause harm, and increasing numbers of people are regretting it.

These are the facts but non of this means you can't experiment with whatever gender expression you like. Gender is a spectrum, changeable, arbitrary and often "assigned" to the sexes, but we can resit it and millions of people do and there have always people people who've done it.

When will this whole movement realise you can be "transgender" (if you must insist on giving countering stereotypes a special name) without it having to involve doing anything to your body, pretending to be anything you're not, trying to force others to back up your feelings, or handing millions to big pharma who are laughing all the way to the bank?

FrancescaContini · 18/08/2022 12:39

Yawwwwwwwwn. I guess SW have to keep themselves in the limelight by whatever desperate means necessary in order to justify their existence particularly given that they’ve started to receive some “negative” aka honest exposure in the press recently.

FrancescaContini · 18/08/2022 12:40

@BoredofthisCrap7 Totally spot on.

BlossomsOnATree · 18/08/2022 12:42

Oh god yes and spare me all the traditional societies crap. None of these societies have ever thought sex was a spectrum or that you could change your sex. Many societies, including western societies, have found ways to hive off gender-non-conforming and gay people and put them in their own categories or spaces in order to maintain the more gendered and sexist categories for the majority, instead of having those categories broadened.

BettyFilous · 18/08/2022 12:44

Franca123 · 18/08/2022 10:33

That made my brain bleed. More mental gymnastics. They're just playing games. Who can be the most clever clever.

I think it’s a sign the jig is up and they’re starting to realise they’ve painted themselves into a corner by tethering their credibility to a load of pomo reality-denying nonsense. The linguistic light and mirrors are an attempt to deflect.

BlossomsOnATree · 18/08/2022 12:48

Also HOW just how can NK accuse a GC analysis of homophobia, when she is the one saying it's not OK to be same-sex attracted. I mean duh! How can she not see it? When she realised she was a lesbian, did she think "Well it seems I fancy women, or of course any man too, as long as he says 'I'm a woman' " REALLY?

WeeBisom · 18/08/2022 12:53

This is so confused. Society doesn't have a vested interest in pretending that only male and female exist. Rather, patriarchal society has a vested interest in applying an oppressive, hierarchical concept of 'gender' onto the two sexes, such that males are superior, and females are inferior. The problem is the gender caste system which is superimposed onto biological sex, not the existence of two sexes themselves.

The very concept of DSDS (or 'intersex' as she calls it) depends on two sexes, because if we didn't have a concept of male or female then there wouldn't be disorders! People who have DSDS are still male or female. Some DSDS can only affect males, and some can only affect females.

Similarly, the concept of homosexuality depends on the existence of biological sex. If we get rid of the concept of two sexes we have destroyed homosexuality in one fell swoop!

yetanotherusernameAgain · 18/08/2022 12:57

Dreikanter · 18/08/2022 11:46

I’m also not sure why Kelly is tweeting now about an article from November 2019.

It’s almost like SW are looking for something else to get stuck into.

Good spot @Dreikanter , the article in the Irish Times is dated November 2019.

FrippEnos · 18/08/2022 13:00

I often think that stonewall should remove the L and G from their status as the two have a clear basis in biological sex.

PeriodBro · 18/08/2022 13:02

'With colonisation, one of the first things that happened was that sex and gender diversity was viciously attacked, and often eliminated via execution.'

Cripes. What is this referring to, does anyone know?

BlossomsOnATree · 18/08/2022 13:04

Exactly bisom - society does have a vested interest, in trying to make "man" and "woman" (the sexes) adhere to a bunch of narrow, harmful (more so to women) stereotypes. Which is exactly the same as what gender ideology is doing. How can they look at their ideas and not see that? It's not doing anything to counter those vested interests at all if you're saying the exact same thing, but the other way round – that a bunch of sexist stereotypes and ideas can determine your sex.

BlossomsOnATree · 18/08/2022 13:05

Quick, blame colonialism! No one will notice we're talking shite then!

Artichokeleaves · 18/08/2022 13:07

The desperation as the wheels of the gravy train roll down the hill....

Vested interests? Er yes. Stonewall has a whole lot of them.

PeriodBro · 18/08/2022 13:08

Oh, gosh, there are seven sexes. Who knew?!

www.amazon.com/Spectrum-Sex-Science-Female-Intersex-ebook/dp/B07ZPH6H4T

LaughingPriest · 18/08/2022 13:09

It's predictably incoherent. Even if it made logical sense, what is the "vested interest" in upholding homophobia supposed to be? What does modern culture have to gain by homophobia? What would I have to gain by turning homophobic?

DistaffSide · 18/08/2022 13:14

Stonewall has a vested interest in perpetuating oppression narratives and co-opting as many groups/labels as possible to justify their existence.

FrancescaContini · 18/08/2022 13:16

PeriodBro · 18/08/2022 13:08

This book is being recommended to prospective medical students 😂

RoyalCorgi · 18/08/2022 13:22

Oh god yes and spare me all the traditional societies crap. None of these societies have ever thought sex was a spectrum or that you could change your sex.

And even if they did, why would it matter? The Aztecs used to sacrifice young girls to the sun god, doesn't mean it was a good idea. Better not mention it to Kelley, just to be on the safe side.

PeriodBro · 18/08/2022 13:24

'April 19, 2002 -- Hida Viloria, 33, is not the least bit confused about her gender.

"I'm female," she says, "I just feel like I'm a different variety of female."'

'She's different because she was born with ambiguous genitalia. "My clitoris is much larger than, I think, the average size clitoris," she explains. "And so because mine is larger, it's grown a little more to where it starts to resemble a small penis."'

abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=123917&page=1

Bergamotte · 18/08/2022 13:33

FrancescaContini · 18/08/2022 13:16

This book is being recommended to prospective medical students 😂

One day my housemates, who were 3rd-year medical students at the time, came home saying they'd been taught there were 7 sexes. I thought they must mean gender identities, but no, they were adamant it was sexes.
Something must have distracted us from the conversation because I never did get to the bottom of what that was about.

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