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And this is exactly why Posie Parker is a liability

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MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 12:49

Yes, she's charismatic, has style and says things out loud we all wish we'd had the ovaries to say.

But sometimes, the shit she says is fucking dangerous. HOW can she say she's standing for women's rights and then blithely say that our access to abortion is a price worth paying? WTFucking hell?

This isn't about elites, or head girls or any of that shit that Posie chucks at women who disagree with her. We're seeing the biggest pushback on women's rights since before women's lib, we need to build a grass roots movement to fight this, urgently, and Posie's tactics are harming us.

So, this morning someone called Billy Bragg out on his stance on women's rights, and he came back directly with a screenshot of Posie taking shit about Roe vs Wade.

We are NEVER going to convince the left wing that this is an issue they need to get to grips with if the loudest voice they hear on this Posie who's very obviously courting the US religious right, and if every time someone tries to have a conversation with the left about this topic, we're all smeared by association with Posie and whatever shit she's said recently. I know she says she's not a feminist but that detail is lost our detractors. She's a gift to those who want to paint us all as ultra right wing bigots, and this matters.

And this is exactly why Posie Parker is a liability
And this is exactly why Posie Parker is a liability
And this is exactly why Posie Parker is a liability
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dworky · 10/07/2022 13:49

Yarnasaurus · 10/07/2022 13:46

Maybe you need to be a bit more Posie, Beca, and care less about what men other people think and focus more on what you think is important.

It's not so much caring what men like Bragg think, who hasn't got the first clue, it's what you, yourself thinks. Keep ignoring the red flags if you can but accept that others won't or can't.

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 13:50

Findwen · 10/07/2022 13:37

I would be interested to know what the desired outcome of this thread is. Suppose the women here are convinced by the argument - what is the proposed next step ?

Everyone should turn their back on her and disavow her frequent success at drawing attention to the issue ? OK - but then what ? How will that have advanced the defence of womens rights ? Which people will be convinced of the necessity that would otherwise not have been ?
The left that do not support womens rights are not hanging back because of a single successful demagogue (in their eyes, not mine).

I find the proposition to be nothing but an attempt to copy Cardinal Richelieu:
"If you give me six lines written by the hand of the most honest of men, I will find something in them which will hang him."

Ideally I'd love to see women to stop going along with Posie's mudslinging about "head girls" and other such insults, and be more critical of what she says and does and challenge her when she hand waves away our rights.

I'm no happier to see a beardy man wave away my right to single sex spaces than I am to see Posie wave away my right to an abortion.

I'd like women to notice when Posie is courting the US religious right or the far right in the UK, recognise why this is a huge fucking issue, and and call her out on it.

I wish women here agreed that feminism isn't a single issue topic and we should be wary of anyone inside or outside our movement who tells us to put aside core issues because others are "more important". I think there is huge danger here and I wish other women could see it too.

I wish women closer to her than me (i.e. not at all!) would have a word with her about how damaging some of her more outrageous statements are and get her to realise how cosying up to the ultra right wing is counter productive.

I doubt this thread will achieve any of that.

Realistically, perhaps the most I can hope for is to lodge my objection to her tactics and hope that others who have a feeling something is up but can't quite put their finger on it will know they're not alone.

Plus I hope the video I posted it thought provoking.

I used to be a big Posie fan, btw. It took me a couple of years to get to this point.

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beastlyslumber · 10/07/2022 13:50

Yarnasaurus · 10/07/2022 13:46

Maybe you need to be a bit more Posie, Beca, and care less about what men other people think and focus more on what you think is important.

Yes! Be more Posie Grin

GoodJanetBadJanet · 10/07/2022 13:52

I'd like women to notice when Posie is courting the US religious right or the far right in the UK, recognise why this is a huge fucking issue, and and call her out on it.
Yes absolutely this and same

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 13:53

Yarnasaurus · 10/07/2022 13:46

Maybe you need to be a bit more Posie, Beca, and care less about what men other people think and focus more on what you think is important.

What I think is important is changing the opinions of those with power, and raising awareness generally. So it does matter what others think.

Sadly I'm not someone with any real power in this country, so only worrying what I think is a bit of a dead end, really, campaign-wise.

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JoodyBlue · 10/07/2022 13:54

What @Thelnebriati said above. But also "the people who follow PP" are those who work in women's refuges and shelters, those who campaign and raise awareness of the exploitation of women through surrogacy, those who stand in House of Lords and organise debates and write letters of influence to organisations and politicians. They are also ordinary members of the public, people who sticker, people who really have conversations in public on this issue. These people are fearless, they are not frightened of speaking. Remember that time when we were able to use words in public and not be scared? Many who do support PP.

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 13:55

MrsOvertonsWindow · 10/07/2022 13:46

With respect OP - this appears to be your second thread on Mumsnet? Why are you so exercised by BillyB's misogynistic comments about women to create yet another thread about how PP is the worst thing ever for feminism?

Every week we get another arrival descending on us to berate the disparate group of women who post on here for our failings in not ducking PP in the nearest pond or failing to condemn her on every post we make?

It's exhausting.

Been here 15 years, mate.

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achillestoes · 10/07/2022 13:55

‘I'm no happier to see a beardy man wave away my right to single sex spaces than I am to see Posie wave away my right to an abortion.’

She can’t wave away your right to an abortion. She is allowed to say what she thinks, though.

‘I'd like women to notice when Posie is courting the US religious right or the far right in the UK, recognise why this is a huge fucking issue, and and call her out on it.’

I notice. It’s not up to me what she does, and I think there’s been more than enough “calling people out” to last us into the next century.

WildIris · 10/07/2022 13:57

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 13:50

Ideally I'd love to see women to stop going along with Posie's mudslinging about "head girls" and other such insults, and be more critical of what she says and does and challenge her when she hand waves away our rights.

I'm no happier to see a beardy man wave away my right to single sex spaces than I am to see Posie wave away my right to an abortion.

I'd like women to notice when Posie is courting the US religious right or the far right in the UK, recognise why this is a huge fucking issue, and and call her out on it.

I wish women here agreed that feminism isn't a single issue topic and we should be wary of anyone inside or outside our movement who tells us to put aside core issues because others are "more important". I think there is huge danger here and I wish other women could see it too.

I wish women closer to her than me (i.e. not at all!) would have a word with her about how damaging some of her more outrageous statements are and get her to realise how cosying up to the ultra right wing is counter productive.

I doubt this thread will achieve any of that.

Realistically, perhaps the most I can hope for is to lodge my objection to her tactics and hope that others who have a feeling something is up but can't quite put their finger on it will know they're not alone.

Plus I hope the video I posted it thought provoking.

I used to be a big Posie fan, btw. It took me a couple of years to get to this point.

Why don’t you speak directly to Kellie then - at one of her events, email, Facebook - and discuss your concerns?

Yet here you are on a public forum slinging insults without allowing Kellie to respond. Utterly pathetic!

TastefulRainbowUnicorn · 10/07/2022 13:57

i would like to call OP out for “aligning herself” with Bully Bragg. Go and sit in the corner, OP, and think about what you’ve done.

GCandproud · 10/07/2022 13:57

She supports conservative values, the traditional family, patriarchy and defined gender roles. She’s definitely not my cup of tea and her flirtation with the far right means that I am not comfortable to come out as GC and I know several people who feel the same. I don’t think she helps the cause at all.

SamphirethePogoingStickerist · 10/07/2022 13:57

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 13:34

I'd love to see her accounts. I used to be on her mailing list. It's pretty much ALL sales stuff, very little actual campaigning on women's rights.

You can't help yourself can you?

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 13:57

JoodyBlue · 10/07/2022 13:54

What @Thelnebriati said above. But also "the people who follow PP" are those who work in women's refuges and shelters, those who campaign and raise awareness of the exploitation of women through surrogacy, those who stand in House of Lords and organise debates and write letters of influence to organisations and politicians. They are also ordinary members of the public, people who sticker, people who really have conversations in public on this issue. These people are fearless, they are not frightened of speaking. Remember that time when we were able to use words in public and not be scared? Many who do support PP.

Yes, PP is great at PR.

Her poster campaign was brilliant. Her interview with Harrop was truly inspired.

Posie's straight talking is refreshing. I don't doubt it inspires people, I know it did me when I first came across her.

I don't deny any of that.

I'm talking specifically about her dodgy politics. They're a huge disappointment and I think stand to damage the movement.

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Floisme · 10/07/2022 13:58

Given that you're so concerned about mudslinging, op, just a heads up that I have seen feminists whom I normally admire describe Posie Parker as (from memory):
'A thick feck', 'A piece of shit.' 'Nazi Barbie' and 'The T shirt flogger.'
(Admittedly the last one made me laugh, although probably not in the way the writer intended.)
Can we look forward to seeing you starting a thread about them too?

TastefulRainbowUnicorn · 10/07/2022 13:58

She’s definitely not my cup of tea and her flirtation with the far right means that I am not comfortable to come out as GC

The username makes this contribution extra silly.🤪

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 13:59

WildIris · 10/07/2022 13:57

Why don’t you speak directly to Kellie then - at one of her events, email, Facebook - and discuss your concerns?

Yet here you are on a public forum slinging insults without allowing Kellie to respond. Utterly pathetic!

She long ago blocked me on Facebook for disagreeing with her.
Do you really think she'd be open to me discussing this with her?

And anyway, she's a public figure and we're discussing her politics relating to women's rights. That's absolutely appropriate on the FWR board.

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AnaïsM · 10/07/2022 14:00

@MerchedBeca

“What has Posie accomplished, exactly?”

What about you? What have you achieved?

Is it something significant, or do you just want to criticize others while doing nothing yourself?

Cartoonmom · 10/07/2022 14:01

@MangyInseam - you comments about Roe are incorrect. Not sure why you're parroting misogynistic right wing nonsense. Many states had trigger laws already on the books that would ban abortion once Roe was overturned. Also no pro-choice legal scholar thinks a constitutional right to abortion is unjustifiable. Maybe you mean Roe was not meant to be the test case that made it to the Supreme Court? That is true, but that's different than saying there is no basis for a constitutional right to abortion.

SpinnerOfTheSeeds · 10/07/2022 14:01

ValancyRedfern · 10/07/2022 12:56

Billy Bragg hates women anyway; he doesn't need Posie Parker as an excuse.

Yup. Billy Bragg DESPISES women.

‘Someone called Billy Bragg’, eh?

SamphirethePogoingStickerist · 10/07/2022 14:01

GCandproud · 10/07/2022 13:57

She supports conservative values, the traditional family, patriarchy and defined gender roles. She’s definitely not my cup of tea and her flirtation with the far right means that I am not comfortable to come out as GC and I know several people who feel the same. I don’t think she helps the cause at all.

Which shows that it doesn't matter what your personal politics. Gender ideology is dangerous.

She is not 'all women' she is one woman who is in a better position than many to be vocal, dedicated to this issue.

How she does that is up to her. You don't have to morph into her to think human beings cannot change sex.

What is it with all this bloody 100% overlap or you are evil shite?

SolasAnla · 10/07/2022 14:02

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 13:08

It's not a competition. Losing access to abortion is also a huge threat to women's rights.

But, my point is that by acting as if abortion isn't an essential women's rights issue, or one that can be traded for fighting self ID, and by courting the religious right in the US, Posie is harming the fight against self ID itself. It's a badly thought out, harmful, counter-productive strategy.

Ireland was held up to be a shining light for self ID. That was until the little problem if males with GRC being sent to Women's Prison's. If a male had surgery, on hormones or just decides to wear a dress but no GRC he is places in the Men's Prison.

In 2015 Ireland's elected politicians pushed through a GRA which allowed women to remove themselves from the sex class women/female.

What language should the 2018 Abortion Act remove give males the right to prevent female gestation?

“foetus”, in relation to a pregnancy, means an embryo or a foetus during the period of time commencing after implantation in the uterus of a woman and ending on the complete emergence of the foetus from the body of the woman;

“termination of pregnancy”, in relation to a pregnant woman, means a medical procedure which is intended to end the life of a foetus;

woman” means a female person of any age.

www.irishstatutebook.ie/eli/2018/act/31/enacted/en/html

This year 2022, the word woman is being removed from pregnancy legislation because the Government has been given a legal opinion that men can get pregnant but are covered under legislation to protect them during gestation.

Do you think the man can get a legal abortion under the 2018 act if "he" can be lawfully sacked under the 2015 GRA?

Datun · 10/07/2022 14:02

My point is, Posie makes is easy for people like him to take cheap shots at feminists, dismissing us as right wing bigots. He has a platform, and it's not just him, it's everyone who wants to discredit us. This matters.

No it doesn't. Every single wanna be Tory leader is talking about this now. Despite,er, Billy Bragg

Who gives a flying fuck if Billy Bragg is taking 'cheap shots at feminists'? Other misogynists?

PronounssheRa · 10/07/2022 14:03

Meh, I'm not going to take any lessons on womens rights from Billy Bragg.

IDidntKnowItWasAParty · 10/07/2022 14:03

Posie is fab. Absurd to call her a liability OP.

MerchedBeca · 10/07/2022 14:04

JoodyBlue · 10/07/2022 13:38

@MerchedBeca - gotta say I love your user name :)

In terms of effectiveness of PP and her campaigning. Here's one thing - her "Woman - adult human female" campaign is cited by Keira Bell has being the point at which she considered her transition and began to see cognitive dissonance. Then began a new life phase that is happier and began courageously to campaign so that other youngsters could avoid the trap, that the adults in her own life didn't guard her against.

Ha! Thanks. Flatter will get you everywhere Grin

I didn't know that about Keira, but I'm not surprised, and I'm really glad posie was able to help her.

Posie is indeed great at getting messages out to people. I'm not saying Posie is all bad. She's great at PR, as I said.

But, I am criticising her dodgy politics and wishing people understood why this is an issue.

Anyway, family life calls. I need to get off here and go take the DC out.

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