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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Tom Daley "furious" at swimming trans ban

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flyingbuttress43 · 27/06/2022 11:51

www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/2022/06/26/tom-daley-furious-transgender-ban-swimming-diving-competitions/

Apparently Fina's ruling is "not on". Speaking at the British LGBT Awards Daley said: "I was furious. You know, like most queer people, anyone that's told that they can't do something they love just because of who they are, it's not on. It's something I feel really strongly about. Giving trans people the chance to share their side."

No one is stopping trans people competing Tom. Just stopping them from competing unfairly in the wrong sex category. Trans women are free to compete in the male category and will also be in future if sport decides to have an open category.

Should we be surprised at his attitude? Not really, after all he thinks it's OK to rent a woman's body to produce a baby for him and his partner. He seemed to know what sex was then.

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Thereisnolight · 27/06/2022 13:47

riesenrad · 27/06/2022 13:23

Why is it that the opinion of a medal-winning Olympian who is part of the LGBT community can be dismissed because he used a surrogate

LGB is not the same as trans and should not be conflated. Stonewall only did it to keep itself relevant. Tom has no special understanding of the trans community.

Really good point.

Gnomechange · 27/06/2022 13:48

So by that logic can I, as a 35 year old, compete in an under 5s swimming competition because I identify as such?

The sad fact is I would probably still not win though 😂

MummyGummy · 27/06/2022 13:51

Then how about he works on making the mens category more inclusive/accepting to transwomen…

limitededitionbarbie · 27/06/2022 13:52

When it comes to something that doesn't affect them negatively well men are all for letting trans women compete in womens sports, use womens toilets etc etc.

But they'd have something to say if the doctor they chose lol picked a trans women to donate an egg to them if they couldn't have a baby with their partner ! It's all "it's a feeling" until it's not convenient for them.

But you try saying that to them about us having complete different biology and we are all terfs. Can't win.

achillestoes · 27/06/2022 13:52

‘So by that logic can I, as a 35 year old, compete in an under 5s swimming competition because I identify as such?’

Yes. The logic is, collect everyone who can swim at roughly, say, 5km/hour. Get them to race each other. If that includes an 88 year old man and a female 5 year old and one incredibly talented person with one leg, that’s okay. They’re all roughly the same ability so that’s the correct categorisation. Never mind that the information you get at the end has nothing to do with who is the best swimmer.

FemmeNatal · 27/06/2022 13:53

anystropheus · 27/06/2022 12:12

Just wondering (not aimed at any particular poster)

Why is it that the opinion of a medal-winning Olympian who is part of the LGBT community can be dismissed (because he used a surrogate)

But.

Opinions of various misogynists (Boris Johnson, Matt Walsh) can be embraced and separated (by some) from their well-documented bigotry.

Boris Johnson hates women?

That’s quite a claim, have you anything to back it up?

SpinningTheSeedsOfLove · 27/06/2022 13:54

I am loving the idea of the creature-inclusive Olympics. I'd like to see Tom Daly dive against a gannet or tern from the 45 metre board and not shit hisself. I'm sure some fair rules can be worked out around beak angle ratios.

Artichokeleaves · 27/06/2022 13:55

Beyond tired of men with no skin in the game getting all loud and indignant about females saying no to males. And believing they have the right to tell females what they may have, who they are, what they are, and that females should somehow care about this and do it, and not seeing the misogynist arrogance they are so very busy indulging themselves in.

TortugaRumCakeQueen · 27/06/2022 13:55

TinselAngel · 27/06/2022 13:18

How would it climb the stairs up to the diving board?

Thank you, I am crying laughing at this!!

TortugaRumCakeQueen · 27/06/2022 13:57

TastefulRainbowUnicorn · 27/06/2022 13:21

How would it climb the stairs up to the diving board?

I was just thinking, this would be the most entertaining Olympics ever. I'm 100% in favour of letting cheetahs in the men's sprint, trained gorillas into the shotputt - okay, it might not be 100% safe fair, but it would be very, very inclusive.

Maybe the dolphin could start in the water and kind of bounce on/bounce off the diving board?

OMG, I'm in bits....

PlattyJubes · 27/06/2022 13:57

I agree that he's shown who he really is with these remarks and I have zero respect for him.

(As an aside it really pisses me off that his knitting has been so lauded. I mean when women do it it's often seen as a sad, old fashioned activity carried out by middle aged or elderly women. BUT hang on a minute, Tom Daley knitting is front page news and isn't it wonderful, isn't he amazing blah blah blah. Same old shit I suppose. Women have been doing something for centuries but when a man does it we are all supposed to congratulate and admire him.)

Tirediam · 27/06/2022 13:58

He knew what a woman was when he wanted to rent a womb… he knows exactly what a woman is for that purpose…

FemmeNatal · 27/06/2022 13:58

The point about his hypocrisy round this is very valid. As others have said, he was perfectly aware that a trans woman would not be a good surrogate, and so completely excluded them from consideration.

If he meant what he is now saying then he should have equally been willing to use a trans woman to (try to) gestate his baby.

He didn’t, as biology is the only thing that matters when it comes to dividing on the basis of sex.

SweetSenorita · 27/06/2022 14:02

TinselAngel · 27/06/2022 13:18

How would it climb the stairs up to the diving board?

We could make 'reasonable adjustments' to assist.

This is all such fucking shit 😡

KookaburraSits · 27/06/2022 14:03

Gnomechange · 27/06/2022 13:48

So by that logic can I, as a 35 year old, compete in an under 5s swimming competition because I identify as such?

The sad fact is I would probably still not win though 😂

The fact that you wouldn't win would work for you. It'd be seen as proof that you had no advantage. Just like when Laurel Hubbard, incredible out of shape and about 50 years older than his competitors (okay, 20-30 years....), managed to get injured and had to pull out, it was seen as proof that there was no unfair advantage.

Artichokeleaves · 27/06/2022 14:06

KookaburraSits · 27/06/2022 14:03

The fact that you wouldn't win would work for you. It'd be seen as proof that you had no advantage. Just like when Laurel Hubbard, incredible out of shape and about 50 years older than his competitors (okay, 20-30 years....), managed to get injured and had to pull out, it was seen as proof that there was no unfair advantage.

Which absolutely definitely wasn't staged as a strategic thing by the political lobby in question. At all. Nuh uh.

ReneBumsWombats · 27/06/2022 14:07

anystropheus · 27/06/2022 12:12

Just wondering (not aimed at any particular poster)

Why is it that the opinion of a medal-winning Olympian who is part of the LGBT community can be dismissed (because he used a surrogate)

But.

Opinions of various misogynists (Boris Johnson, Matt Walsh) can be embraced and separated (by some) from their well-documented bigotry.

Because the point is that Tom is pretending that femaleness isn't relevant, when he used a woman to grow a baby for him. Clearly he knows as well as Johnson what a woman is. It would be hard to recognise himself as a gay man if he didn't.

Johnson may be wrong on many things but he knows what a woman is and he's not lying about THAT. Tom is pretending that he sees nothing unique or distinct in womanhood when it comes to sports, yet somehow knew who to use when he wanted a baby.

Oppressors of women always know who the women are. When the supposed liberators pretend they don't, and therefore can't identify sex-based oppression and unfairness, they're worse than useless in the fight.

achillestoes · 27/06/2022 14:07

‘Just like when Laurel Hubbard, incredible out of shape and about 50 years older than his competitors (okay, 20-30 years....), managed to get injured and had to pull out, it was seen as proof that there was no unfair advantage.’

Rather than proof that they let an average athlete compete against the best athletes in the world.

AryaStarkWolf · 27/06/2022 14:09

DialSquare · 27/06/2022 13:31

How would it climb the stairs up to the diving board?

With porpoise

bahahahahaha

Slothtoes · 27/06/2022 14:10

Well, OK, I’m furious about the Supreme Court decision in the US. Tom Daley can be furious about this issue if he wants to be.
However, there isn’t any chance that:

  • his sporting career will be derailed by anyone with the physical advantage of opposite-sex puberty competing in elite sport, or
-his professional career would not even get started for the same reasons, or -his earliest attempts at regular swimming ever being put off by the presence of women in his changing rooms. And so on.

His fury really doesn’t stack up at all, the balance against the rights of women to have female-only sport. He might not accept this, but women’s rights just aren’t up to Tom Daley to give away on our behalf.

WalrusSubmarine · 27/06/2022 14:11

If he’s that’s bothered about including and cantering the trans community, why doesn’t he hand his training bursary, team place and sponsorship to a trans person.

No? But happy to give away someone else’s livelihood and career though aren’t you kid?

Sitdowncupoftea · 27/06/2022 14:12

He's not a woman so his opinion is irrelevant. Women are losing their rights.

ReneBumsWombats · 27/06/2022 14:13

achillestoes · 27/06/2022 14:07

‘Just like when Laurel Hubbard, incredible out of shape and about 50 years older than his competitors (okay, 20-30 years....), managed to get injured and had to pull out, it was seen as proof that there was no unfair advantage.’

Rather than proof that they let an average athlete compete against the best athletes in the world.

Hubbard clearly threw it, like lots of people predicted would happen. As if someone who stole gold in the Pacific Games suddenly forgot how to pick the weights up.

As you say, a 40 something male with a recent injury who had never been more than middling national in the peak of fitness, even competing among ultimate young women was all the proof we needed of the advantage.

It's women's sports, not shit or hobbled men's sports.

TortugaRumCakeQueen · 27/06/2022 14:16

BinBandit · 27/06/2022 13:46

Tom was possibly laying the path for him to compete as a woman when he was no longer competitive as a man. So, he wasn't actually gay, just a women in a man's body. No wonder he's angry - how many golds could he have won as Thomasina?

Fantastic post!

CousinKrispy · 27/06/2022 14:17

Oh no, I quite liked him, how disappointing.

Trans and non-binary athletes could have a wonderful time having their own category, think of how much this could encourage additional young people to take up sport and benefit from physical activity. Why can't Tom look at the positives!

Men and women have separate categories of sporting competition for good reason, except in something like equestrian sports where the horse provides the muscle so competition is evened out. It's very simple and straightforward and allowing trans/NB athletes have their own category is entirely appropriate.