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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

LGB Alliance monkeypox tweets deleted

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pezdis · 30/05/2022 21:44

The LGB Alliance tweets from yesterday about gay men and monkeypox have been deleted by twitter for either homophobia or misinformation.

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Artichokeleaves · 01/06/2022 21:15

Apart from which I think you mean 'that is why TM don't date lesbians' - that would be their choice, since I as a lesbian have just said I'm perfectly happy to date TM. Confused

Thing being I only date females who are enthusiastically and reciprocally interested in doing so, and I don't try to direct other people to define themselves the way I wish, or to change their sexuality to suit me. Which would be weird and creepy to put it mildly.

Artichokeleaves · 01/06/2022 21:16

Unless of course - still trying to figure out your post - you mean by 'that is why lesbians don't date TM' is 'that is why PROPER, GOOD lesbians wouldn't say they would date TM?'

Are you going to report me and have me stripped of my lesbian badge for doing it wrong? Am I no longer allowed to call myself a lesbian unless I comply with you personally?

Needmoresleep · 01/06/2022 21:25

Will Twitter ban the Daily Mail as well
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10875645/Britains-monkeypox-outbreak-linked-gay-bars-saunas-Grindr.html

Not least because they quote the LGBA.

ResisterRex · 01/06/2022 21:37

The Mail has been suppressed before as regards matters of contemporary scientific matters in the public interest:

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9655057/Facebook-fact-checkers-cited-Lancet-letter-Wuhan-lab-funder-Peter-Daszak-debunk-lab-leak.html

Stealhsquirrelnutkin · 01/06/2022 21:50

Well, this article is very apt to some of the misinformation quoted in this thread.

Seems that overestimating the true number of homosexuals in the UK is surprisingly common. "Brits think 10 per cent of their fellows are bisexual (true: 1.3 per cent), while putting the gay and lesbian population at 15 per cent (true: 1.8 per cent)." So, no actual major increases compared to earlier years, just loads of ignorant people getting the numbers wrong.

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/9f8b3ed8-e1c0-11ec-baab-53d14c642149?shareToken=fd3efb592105d29e62e5610d4077dea7

Datun · 01/06/2022 22:29

Hearach15 · 01/06/2022 18:48

Trans women can be lesbians and trans men can be gay.

Trans people can also be straight or bisexual.

I know a really lovely gay couple where one is a transgender man and the other is a cisgender man.

Sadly, someone yelled 'faggots' at them the other day in the street while they were holding hands. Outrageous abuse they would never have received if they were straight.

So if someone wore black face, and was called a racial slur, that would actually make them black. And entitled to any programs designed to eliminate racism.

Got it.

As I said, absolute risible jibber jabber.

Also, in your world, it means that you're not trans, unless you pass.

I think you'll find that's transphobic.

Or, are you a woman if you're a biological woman, or are you woman if you look like a woman, but you're male, or are you a woman if you are male but you don't look like a woman?

Ludicrous nonsense. This batshittery says so much about the people who uphold it.

They shouldn't be allowed sharp objects.

ResisterRex · 01/06/2022 22:51

Nine of ten cases have been in London:

Nine out ten monkeypox cases have been in London.

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/f2376a3a-e1d4-11ec-8bdd-c253e043f5f0?shareToken=e0a2f6a20438190408a2b627cb5a3badd_

"Of the English cases, 86 per cent of those where a home address was reported were in London and only two were women, the UK Health Security Agency (UKHSA) said. A majority of the cases were in gay or bisexual men.

“Investigations to date have identified links to gay bars, saunas and the use of dating apps in the UK and abroad. Investigations continue but currently no single factor or exposure that links the cases has been identified,” UKHSA said in a statement.

The outbreak is the first time that the virus has been passed from person to person in England when travel links to a country where the disease is endemic have not been identified. The monkeypox strain being seen across Europe and the United States was first identified in west Africa."

What's not clear is - if the strain seen across Europe and the US is a new one, or not.

lightisnotwhite · 01/06/2022 22:57

People should only date people they are attracted to. If you don't want to date a trans person, don't date them! Seems simple.

so zero need for gay pride or diversity campaigns then.

Datun · 01/06/2022 23:29

lightisnotwhite · 01/06/2022 22:57

People should only date people they are attracted to. If you don't want to date a trans person, don't date them! Seems simple.

so zero need for gay pride or diversity campaigns then.

Or workshops on how to 'overcome' the cotton ceiling.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 02/06/2022 01:07

Hearach15 · 01/06/2022 19:20

People should only date people they are attracted to. If you don't want to date a trans person, don't date them! Seems simple.

Out of interest, if you think trans men are women, why do lesbians never date trans men?

Like TastefulRainbowUnicorn, I'm also strongly getting the vibe here that you don't know any gay people. I'm sure you won't believe me, but did you know that the transwoman Julia Serano wrote an article complaining about lesbians dating transmen and not transwomen. Grin And about transmen being in lesbian spaces!

extract

I’ve spent much of the last decade writing about trans woman exclusion and trans woman irrelevancy in queer women’s communities. You would think that by now, I would have little left to say about the subject, but this is not the case. In deciding what I would write about this time around, I wrestled with so many possible themes: for instance, discussing how my views on this issue have evolved over the years; critiquing the masculine-centrism of modern-day dyke communities; highlighting the need for heterogeneous queer spaces that are accepting of difference; explaining how trans male/masculine folks who claim a place in dyke spaces by emphasizing their lack of male genitals or their assigned-female-at-birth status royally screw over their trans sisters;

(continues)

One trans woman friend told me about how she recently met a cis dyke, and they were really hitting it off, until she realized that this person was misreading her for a person on the trans masculine spectrum. When my friend told the cis dyke that she was in fact a trans woman, the cis dyke seemed to immediately lose interest.

So, given all this, I figured that I would have better luck with personal ads, which are often driven more by shared interests rather than appearance or dress, and in which I can disclose my trans status beforehand. On numerous occasions I have looked over the “w4w” section of Craigslist, but it inevitably leaves me traumatized. There is so much trans hate speech on that site, and the very few ads that mention being open to trans are specifically looking for trans men or tranny bois, not trans women.

(continues)

Sexual attraction is a complex phenomenon, and of course there is lots of individual variation. I certainly do not expect every cis queer woman to swoon over me. And if it were only a small percentage of cis dykes who were not interested in trans women at all, I would write it off as simply a matter of personal preference. But this not a minor problem—it is systemic; it is a predominant sentiment in queer women’s communities. And when the overwhelming majority of cis dykes date and fuck cis women, but are not open to, or are even turned off by, the idea of dating or fucking trans women, how is that not transphobic? And to those cis women who claim a dyke identity, yet consider trans men, but not trans women, to be a part of your dating pool, let me ask you this: How are you not a hypocrite?

The Daily Beast

All bolding is mine.

LunaLights · 02/06/2022 04:07

Hearach15 · 01/06/2022 14:48

That's a shame. One day there might be a cure for heterosexuality but we're not there yet.

Just imagine the justifiable outrage if someone had said this with “heterosexuality” replaced by another letter! It shines brilliant sunlight on true objectives….

Artichokeleaves · 02/06/2022 08:59

But this not a minor problem—it is systemic;

The systemic problem being - females being homosexual. And refusing to stop being homosexual on request to validate a male person's identity choice.

I'm done even debating this, it normalises these disgusting attitudes and utter lack of respect for females' bodies, right to a sexuality that is not controlled and directed by what male people want, and an inability to see that a female's perceptions are not predicated on what a male person tells them. People pushing this have a very serious problem.

Helleofabore · 02/06/2022 10:49

The bitterness, hatred and jealousy is right there in Serano’s words.

I believe they have some other choice quotes describing females too. And all because some people, likely males, started allowing other males to use the words that women used to describe themselves.

And people ask why women believe this gender identity movement is misogynistic to the core.

MagnoliaTaint · 02/06/2022 11:01

LunaLights · 02/06/2022 04:07

Just imagine the justifiable outrage if someone had said this with “heterosexuality” replaced by another letter! It shines brilliant sunlight on true objectives….

Well, yes. Hearach thinks all lesbians, gays and bisexuals want to be part of Hearach's 'rainbow tribe'. While also managing to sneer at anyone whose sexuality Hearach doesn't consider 'cool' enough.

Reminds me of kids in primary 6 making up little gangs and then trying to mock anyone who's not in theirs.

Datun · 02/06/2022 11:06

Helleofabore · 02/06/2022 10:49

The bitterness, hatred and jealousy is right there in Serano’s words.

I believe they have some other choice quotes describing females too. And all because some people, likely males, started allowing other males to use the words that women used to describe themselves.

And people ask why women believe this gender identity movement is misogynistic to the core.

Seranos misogyny is off the scale.

"While I never really believed the cliche that women were good for only one thing, I found that sentiment kept creeping into my fantasies... it's called forced feminisation".

Helleofabore · 02/06/2022 11:47

When you have males describing women as Long Chu has:

The “barest essentials” of “femaleness” are “an open mouth, an expectant asshole, blank, blank eyes.” - Andrea Long Chu

There is no doubt in my mind that this is the same old, same old.

Maybe others are proud to include these people in their ‘tribe’, but they certainly should not be attempting to shame others for reviling the hatred towards females displayed by these people.

Toosoups · 02/06/2022 12:34

A pound to a penny if it had been Stonewall who'd made this announcement and not LGBA many of the (supportive of LGBA) posters here would have been calling SW homophobic.

dolorsit · 02/06/2022 13:24

Toosoups · 02/06/2022 12:34

A pound to a penny if it had been Stonewall who'd made this announcement and not LGBA many of the (supportive of LGBA) posters here would have been calling SW homophobic.

Wrong.

Most of the posters here do not judge if something is right or wrong on the basis of who said it.

It tends to be the anti LGBA posters who do that.

titchy · 02/06/2022 13:50

Toosoups · 02/06/2022 12:34

A pound to a penny if it had been Stonewall who'd made this announcement and not LGBA many of the (supportive of LGBA) posters here would have been calling SW homophobic.

Don't be daft. MNers on the whole are well educated and recognise sensible evidence based thinking when they see it.

Plasmodesmata · 02/06/2022 14:09

You could equally claim that if Stonewall had made the announcement all the twittites would have nodded along and said "sounds like a sensible idea".

LangClegsInSpace · 02/06/2022 17:13

From an interview with Maria Van Kerkhove (WHO):

www.statnews.com/2022/06/01/monkeypox-response-challenges-maria-van-kerkhove-who/

It feels like there’s so much we don’t know about this virus. We don’t know the R-naught — how many people, on average, an infected person will infect. Though the transmission rate in a household in Nigeria, say, might not tell you a lot about how much the virus can spread if it gets into networks of men who have sex with a number of male partners.

I think that the behavior of this is quite different. Because we’re seeing spread through social networks, through sexual networks. If you look at the numbers of contacts per case in a household that’s obviously very different than what we’re seeing among the cases that have been detected so far in terms of how many sexual contacts they have had. And in this network sometimes there are anonymous contacts; we don’t always have the names of individuals that need to be followed up.

Our surveillance is biased so far towards MSM communities. We’ve been working with countries to expand that and several countries have expanded surveillance to emergency departments, and ID clinics, to dermatology clinics. But they’re not finding additional cases so far outside of the MSM community.

There have been a couple of health worker infections, but they were men who have sex with men. Based on the discussions that have been had with these cases, it’s far more likely that it’s MSM-related transmission than as a result of their occupation.

There are a number of women among the cases.

There are some women but we’re not seeing it expand like we have within the MSM community.

This should be an easy virus to contain. It needs much closer contact than something like covid and, as far as we know, people are not infectious before symptoms start. So contact tracing can work, but only if people know who their contacts are.

It's not an STI and it's not a 'gay disease' which means if it's not contained it will likely start spreading in the wider community.

If it starts circulating among children we will see school closures again.

KPem · 02/06/2022 17:39

it's not a 'gay disease'

@LangClegsInSpace I think you're wrong - the Daily Mail article linked above has this as the headline

Britain's monkeypox outbreak is linked to gay bars, saunas and Grindr, 86% of cases are in London and just TWO women have caught virus - as total UK infections rise to 196

ResisterRex · 02/06/2022 17:40

If it circulates among children, people will be worried:

"Severe cases occur more commonly among children and are related to the extent of virus exposure, patient health status and nature of complications"

And

"The case fatality ratio of monkeypox has historically ranged from 0 to 11 % in the general population and has been higher among young children. In recent times, the case fatality ratio has been around 3–6%."

We closed schools and shut vulnerable children off from agencies that kept them visible during the pandemic. I very much hope this will be contained because I can't see people doing another lockdown. I personally wouldn't want one but if I thought this was circulating among children, I'd be thinking about my own decisions as I'm sure most parents would.

ResisterRex · 02/06/2022 17:41

ResisterRex · 02/06/2022 17:40

If it circulates among children, people will be worried:

"Severe cases occur more commonly among children and are related to the extent of virus exposure, patient health status and nature of complications"

And

"The case fatality ratio of monkeypox has historically ranged from 0 to 11 % in the general population and has been higher among young children. In recent times, the case fatality ratio has been around 3–6%."

We closed schools and shut vulnerable children off from agencies that kept them visible during the pandemic. I very much hope this will be contained because I can't see people doing another lockdown. I personally wouldn't want one but if I thought this was circulating among children, I'd be thinking about my own decisions as I'm sure most parents would.

Forgot link

www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/monkeypox

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 02/06/2022 18:48

KPem · 02/06/2022 17:39

it's not a 'gay disease'

@LangClegsInSpace I think you're wrong - the Daily Mail article linked above has this as the headline

Britain's monkeypox outbreak is linked to gay bars, saunas and Grindr, 86% of cases are in London and just TWO women have caught virus - as total UK infections rise to 196

It is not an STI- it is not exclusively spread by sexual contact, and it is not more likely to be spread by male same-sex sexual contact. So it is not a 'gay disease'.

It is a virus that has only had a few outbreaks, which have so far been linked to gay bars, according to the daily mail.

There is no biological reason why it should stay confined to those spots. If an infected person has close physical contact with people in other locations (e.g. heterosexual swingers' parties), it'll spread there too.

This is not a time for lulling ourselves into a sense of false security.

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