FGS. No, Stella. Not engaging in this silliness and trying to negotiate through the salad any more. No more pretending, no more trying to reasonably argue, enough now.
TW are TW. There is nothing shameful about being a TW. And the one single qualifying characteristic required to be a TW is to be male.
Women are female. There's nothing shameful about that either.
What is shameful is insulting and erasing the entire female half of the population for head pats from male people. That's bloody shameful. Get a grip for pete's sake.