@Allthegoodnamesarechosen "i think they want to be the only women in the room. When women first started to achieve positions of power and influence, it was noticeable that they often did not want to promote or mentor other women. I think this is a similar phenomenon; they want to be the only women in the room ( because they know in their hearts that the women with penises are not really going to rival them )"
For the vast majority of my time in work I was the only woman in the room. I'll admit when more started coming in I did not originally feel happy about it.
It had taken hard work, long hours, putting up with soooooooo much shit to get to where i was. And I don't think I particularly wanted to share the goodwill and change in opinion of some guys i had worked with if I'm honest.
Of course I gave my head a wobble and reminded myself that I was putting up with all this shit for exactly this purpose. To make life easier for the ones who came after me.
Now I still wasnt going to particularly help the ones who were the same age and level of me. After all we are all going for the same jobs and no one is gong to help their direct competition.
But the younger ones, I bloody helped them.
This lot like Stella are stuck in the "I don't want to share" phase and are too bloody selfish to get past it.