from what I've been able to determine from extensive searching, nobody or at least vanishingly few of the 750ish of us in the same situation as me has ever tried to actually engage with GC spaces like this before
Going to burst your bubble here, butterfly. Others have pointed out that there have been many transwomen before you who post here.
In fact, you’re not even the only one on this thread.
Have a read back, check it out.
😊 good to know you’re not alone?
However most of the women here arrived at our positions, please do rest assured that it wasn’t from ignorance. You don’t have to wear yourself out enlightening us, that burden has been shared by many others.