@BilindaB
"People think of transwomen as people who “have a sex change”.
They don’t know that all you have to do now is say you’re a man/woman and that’s it."
Maybe a lot of older people. Younger types like my kids and their contemporaries know better - and they're the ones most supportive of trans people, think they should use the toilets of their their choice, and what we all agree on about changing rooms - cubicles! We'd want them if there were no trans people, sod strangers having a gawp, and we don't want to see them either thanks.
Surely that's anecdotal. Coz my kids and their contemporaries think that if you're trans you have gender dysphoria, are homosexual and want to medically transition. And I discussed this with youngsters in two countries and they were quite consistent on that.
When I talk to them about self-id, they don't think that refers to anyone being able to identify as trans but to transsexuals who have not yet fully transitioned and in the meantime identify as the sex they are seeking to emulate.
It was amusing to be fair - talking of "cis white men" and of something being transphobic and at the same time rolling their eyes at the accusation that JKR is transphobic saying yeah, everything is transphobic today.
They also had little time for the non-binary crowd, observing rather cynically that it's always a particular type who goes for that "nonsense".
It's like they can see the underlying warp of the queer tapestry is illogical and unscientific but are distracted by some of the weft seeming substantial enough to hold it all together. Give them a few threads though, to worry at, like their own experiences as teenage girls, or sports, or prisons or the dehumanising language of menstruators and vulva owners and they're starting to pull it all apart.
(Neither they nor their parents believed me that in the UK health boards or government departments are using such humiliating terms just to avoid naming women and girls as women and girls. Point blank refused to believe anyone in an official position could be that offensive. Swore blind it couldn't happen in their country.)
So there we are BilindaB you have your youngsters embracing the doctrine of gender identity and I have my youngsters telling me it's bollocks and no one sane could possibly believe people become the opposite sex by declaring themselves to be the opposite sex.