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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Some thoughts on trans, the media and society

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Nefelibata33 · 01/08/2021 01:21

Hello everyone, I'm starting a new thread, cos I posted this message on a thread about Dr Helen Webberley, but people said they didn't want to discuss it, cos the thread was specifically about Dr Webberley. So I thought I would post my message for everyone to see, in a new thread. I think it's worth reading, I would like to discuss things with people. If you want to say something, please do. I will talk to anyone. Abuse me if you want, but I'd prefer if you didn't. I couldn't give a sh*t tbh. Sending love xxx. Here's my original message below

Hi everyone.

Just a post to say something. Firstly, if you are really concerned about big pharma, check that the NHS is in league with big pharma, and they dish out drugs like they're smarties. I have no idea what state you may be in, but you may have experience of this. I find it totally scary that so many people are getting hooked on drugs, cos a doctor prescribed it. This really isn't ok. As an example, a few years ago, they changed the blood sugar reading for which you can be described as diabetic. So more people could be diagnosed as diabetic, and more people could be given diabetic meds, and hey... a GP gets a bonus every time they diagnose someone as diabetic. I think the NHS is great, the nurses who are ready to sacrifice their own lives to help others, like Florence Nightingale. Like my Grandma. Like one of my cousins. But the ones who sit in offices and dish out drugs, they are a real problem.

Why am I saying this? Because doctors will dish out every drug going, even when they have horrendous side effects, make people actually feel worse than they were to begin with. Do we hear anything about this in the media? No. It doesn't sell papers. Any sort of backlash against big pharma? No. Because the media are onside with the mega rich pharmaceutical company directors getting richer and the poor getting poorer, not that the media would say that. Is there a type of drug doctors aren't allowed to dish out? Yes, oestrogen or testosterone.

This is the only thing no doctor can prescribe. There are plenty of countries around the world that take a different approach to trans people, and it's not so difficult to get hormones. With no disasters taking place. Keira Bell got a lot of attention. One person that made a mistake, amongst the thousands of trans kids who are happy as they are. One person. The media made a big deal of it.

Would it be wrong if I said that the media in this country have an axe to grind against any minority group? The Sun carried out a massive racist hate campaign against Raheem Sterling a few years ago. Britain's most prominent black footballer, it wasn't racist at all. You saw the racist abuse thing after England didn't win the Euros. It's absolutely shameful that so many people think it's OK to send someone death threats, JUST BECAUSE THEIR SKIN IS A DIFFERENT COLOUR. Encouraged by the Sun. The tabloids are the cancer of this country, our society would be much better without them I think, but we're stuck with them. They killed Princess Diana. A woman who was in the prime of her life, so happy, and bang... killed by the tabloids. There was a massive outpouring of emotion, but did it stop anyone from buying the tabloids? No. Nobody learns. I've read on this site, all this woke this woke that. Prince Harry has been accused of being woke. Cos he married a mixed race woman, and he doesn't want her to end up like his Mum. Think about it. Not "woke", a loving human being.

I don't get the woke thing. It's just a word that has been invented to describe someone who cares for social justice, and is right on. Can someone please explain to me why that's so bad? I really don't get it. Why are kind people a problem? Could it be, that there are just a lot of people who aren't very kind?

Back onto the media, they are totally corrupt, lying bullshtters. GB News is really struggling, so to boost ratings, they decided to attack the Trans community. To boost ratings! I guess that's more entertaining for the sort of people who watch it. I am now going to say something. I don't care who you are, but just realise this. Trans people are being treated just like gays were 20 or 30 years ago. The media do this to sell papers, and make money. Rupert Murdoch is Australian, he's an immigrant, but his papers bang on about immigration. Fcking hypocrite. The demonisation of Trans people is just part of a large scale war by the right wing/neo nazi movement. Are any of you reading this wondering now? It's part of a nazi thing. Caring for children is one thing, but demonising a group of people who just happened to be so unlucky that they were born in the wrong body is another. Have a heart, people. No transgender person wants to hurt you, or your children. They are not dangerous to anyone, the women's toilets, shelters, changing rooms in clothes shops... This is the truth. You don't get the truth in the papers. The papers don't have anyone's best interest at heart, they are just trying to make money.

I've said what I needed to say. I came on Mumsnet cos I'd heard of it, and I wanted to see how people think. I've received quite a bit of abuse off people, quite nasty, and some questions about my level of intelligence. Don't worry, I'm intelligent, and I won't stoop to the level of insulting someone else for being different, or having different opinions.

I am a feminist. There, I said it. I would die to protect a woman. So how come so many so called feminists are against Trans women? Do you actually believe a Trans woman is going to rape you in the toilets? NEWS! Trans women don't hurt or kill women, MEN DO. Trans women are not men. No Trans woman wants to hurt you. It's just the sort of fcked up shtbag men that want to hurt you.

If anyone wants to comment on anything I wrote, feel free. Make it intelligent, no gratuitous abuse please X

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Chickenyhead · 01/08/2021 03:30

@Nefelibata33

say what you like
I did.

Thank you for posting.

Chickenyhead · 01/08/2021 03:39

Here is CharleyParleys post:

Nefelibata33

Puberty blockers aren't damaging. They just prevent the onset of puberty, it just gives someone who's trans time before the onset of something that they really don't want to happen.

I don't think adults who aren't trans have the right to tell kids who are trans what they can or can't do.

I despair really. It's not about protecting children ultimately. That's just an excuse for a load of unnecessary hatred. In reality, it's just that lots of people don't like trans people. I wish people would come out and say it, just be honest. It's irrational hatred

*This is a statement betraying such profound ignorance I can only echo a previous poster: I am embarrassed for you.

If you're not too busy accusing strangers on the internet of hatred, I urge you to read up on GnRH analogues (only called puberty blockers when used in pediatric medicine), their history, the deaths they caused, including in children and the downright irresponsible way in which the FDA continues to ignore tens of thousands of reports of serious adverse side effects of the drug. Between 2013 and 2019, that's more than 46,000 including over 6000 deaths in the US alone. The FDA itself on investigating these reports (and other reports concerning different drugs) has publicly stated several times that it estimates that only between 1 and 10% of serious adverse side effects are ever reported to the FDA, so the true number of people damaged by GnRH analogues is likely more than ten times larger than the known figures.

Please note what this is a discussion of the facts of giving puberty blockers to children with precocious puberty or stunted growth. Objections to their use in these children has nothing whatsoever to do with hatred, irrational or otherwise and everything to do with preventing harm coming to children from a medical treatment.

Puberty blockers aren't damaging.

This is an insidious lie. It goes hand in hand with two other insidious lies:

Puberty blockers have been used in children with precocious puberty for decades without problems.

and

The safety of puberty blockers used in children has been very well researched and there are no longterm side effects.

For the truth we have to look to the US, where thousands of women who received the GnRH analogue Lupron to treat precocious puberty or ensure a taller stature are desperately trying to raise awareness of the debilitating, life-limiting longterm side effects of the drug.

By now, most of us here on Mumsnet know about the effect GnRH analogues have on bone health, causing brittle bones which has caused paralysis in cases where the spine was particularly damaged by the drug as well as incontinence. Most of us have heard about the chronic, debilitating pain puberty blockers caused in the young patients and now adult child patients.

What's less known is that GnRH analogues are extremely powerful neural function modulators, also causing debilitating mental health issues, including severe depression, personality disorders, suicidality, anxiety and other mood disorders.

The EU completed a review of mental health issues caused by GnRH-analogues in 2010. Since then warnings about the drugs causing depression and suicides have had to be added to the patient leaflets in the EU.

In the 28 years since licensing the drug, the FDA has carried out several safety reviews of Lupron, acknowledging its dangerous side effects in all patient groups for whom the drug is used, but it is unwilling to withdraw the licence. (If you know anything about how the FDA goes about licensing drugs, you'll know the process is neither transparent nor as thorough as it should be.)

After the company that developed Lupron was forced to enter into evidence all studies it conducted on the efficacy of the drug when used in women with endometriosis, Dr David Redwine analysed the raw data and found that the FDA had only been provided with summaries that misrepresented the findings and omitted data from patients who were adversely affected. When he submitted a 300-page report to the FDA it did not dispute his findings. A year after Dr Redwine's submission it merely published a response saying no regulatory action necessary.

In 2012, a law proposal in New York was tabled to prohibit the prescription of the drug without including a warning on the bottle stating that it could cause death, heart attacks, diabetes and seizures.

Given the immense commercial interests connected to this drug, which makes more than 600 million dollars annually in the US alone, it is almost impossible to get that licence withdrawn. And not just in the US. The 2010 EU report for instance is almost entirely redacted in order to protect those "commercial interests."

Here is Dr Redwine's analysis of the data btw.

So, yes, puberty blockers are indeed damaging and they have horrific side effects (just to add a few more: causing cancer, gastro-intestinal diseases, heart diseases, lung diseases, feral malformations, ovarian hyper stimulation syndrome, polycystic ovariansyndrome and so on). And it doesn't matter whether it's Lupron or Triptorelin (branded as Trelstar, Decapeptyl, Gonapeptyl), Goserelin (branded as Zoladex), Histrelin (branded as Vantas, Supprelin), Nafarelin (branded as Synarel) or Buserelin (branded as Suprefact, Suprecor). Lupron is merely the best known because most sold of the lot. All of them have a known adverse event profile. That's because GnRH analogues are bloody dangerous drugs listed as "Hazardous" for HCPs handling them btw, that cause a lot of life-long, debilitating and often disabling side effects.

So much for not damaging and used without problems. Now a quick foray into how well researched their safety is in children. In a development that should surprise no one, they're not well researched at all. Available studies are sparse, subject numbers are usually in the single digits. Studies frequently omit data from child patients with adverse reactions (or as in the case of children who died while receiving Lupton for precocious puberty, the study authors declare no connection between death and drug without providing any supporting evidence for such a declaration).

This is a well known problem in drug trials generally, owed in no small part to the conflict of interest that arises from having the drug company seeking to sell the drug fund and organise its safety trials.

The situation is so dire that in one paper I read recently, one study author researching treatment options for precocious puberty lamented the absolute dearth of reliable studies into the safety of GnRH analogues when used in children.

There is no comprehensive body of research into the safety of these drugs when given to children for precocious puberty or stunted growth. It does not exist in anywhere near the volume that it needs to to prove safety. Everyone assumes it does, because the drug is widely subscribed.

Lots of information about the dangers of Lupron can be found on this website:

lupronvictimshub.com/index.html

Some patient and parent testimonies are here:

www.hormonesmatter.com/lupron-precocious-puberty-parents-patients-speak/

Looking into this horror show of drugs however at least explains why the use of puberty blockers in children diagnosed with gender dysphoria has not been shown to improve mental health outcomes.

Because these drugs cause mental health problems. Several patient and parent accounts in the link above describe children who turned suicidal, some as young as 8, after being put on these drugs for precocious puberty.

We are constantly confronted with the claim that children diagnosed with gender dysphoria must be given puberty blockers because they are so severely depressed, even suicidal that not to do so is hateful and unjustified.

How do you justify giving drugs proven to cause depression and suicidality in child patients to children who are already depressed and suicidal?*

Igmum · 01/08/2021 03:47

Great post by CharleyParley, thank you so much for this. I hope the OP reads it, follows the links and thinks about it

GNCQ · 01/08/2021 03:58

No group should be seen as incapable of harm because of membership of that group.

People are people. All groups can and do contain individuals capable of all sorts of things.

Well I mean apart from newborns etc

My newborn certainly caused harm to me! 😂

GNCQ · 01/08/2021 04:03

Chickenyhead Here is CharleyParleys post:

Thank you for that

Nefelibata33 · 01/08/2021 04:20

Hi everyone. Me again.

I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes a few years ago. I had been fine before, maybe marginal, but they moved the goalposts so to speak, and I ended up being told I was diabetic. I got a diabetic nurse talking to me like I was an inferior human, so condescending. They were desperate to push the meds on me. I refused. I just ate healthily and exercised, and it was OK. If any of you reading this, maybe yourselves, or loved ones, have been offered meds, F*CKING REFUSE THEM. Unless it's absolutely necessary, of course. Meds are really good for some cases. But the whole big pharma thing is sickening. As I said in my previous post, the NHS is fantastic, we all know that. But Doctors are way too keen to get people on meds. None of it is healthy, it's really dangerous, and the motives are dangerous too. The NHS is great, but in league with big pharma. When your doctor offers you something, REFUSE. That's your right, stand up for yourself.

As for oestrogen, it may be easy to get it if you're biologically female, just try getting it if you're not. Impossible, almost. The papers like to spread these scare stories about how kids are having hormones rammed down their necks by doctors who will dish out hormones on a whim. Not true. Don't believe what the telegraph or anyone else says. It's all bollocks, believe me.

I said I would respond to everyone's comments, but chickenyhead, you absolutely exhaust me. I felt drained after I'd read your post. Not trying to insult you, I guess we are just different. I would reply to it, but here's this... women, men, trans women, trans men, intersex. Does it matter? As long as we are all good people?

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GNCQ · 01/08/2021 04:32

Sorry to hear you have diabetes.

Do "good" people with a penis put themselves in female only spaces?

Do "good" people prescribe drugs to gender non conforming prepubescent children that are off label and known to cause long term health damage?

GNCQ · 01/08/2021 04:34

How can you tell which people with a penis are "good" in your female space or not? Do they come with a label on their foreheads?

So many questions.

I hope you're okay.

Chickenyhead · 01/08/2021 04:35

I do so apologise for exhausting you, that must be difficult.

Yes, all good people are lovely I agree. Labels are irrelevant in 99% of cases. Everyone can get along respecting Everyone else's choices. Agreed.

But sometimes a Muslim wants to go to a mosque, sometimes a Christian wants to attend a church. Sometimes sports people want to play with people in the same league of ability. And sometimes women by sex need to be protected from men by sex, including Transwomen. That is fair. That is just.

And for anyone reading this thread, please take the medical advice your medical professionals give you. They are qualified and if you doubt them, ask for a second opinion. Please do not take OP well meaning advice without knowing what the consequences could be.

Chickenyhead · 01/08/2021 04:45

It does seem like such a shame you know.

You wrote out a long post and I and many other posters went to such lengths to provide reasoned responses.

If you find my post too difficult to answer, or challenge, perhaps you have evidence to answer some of the other responses?

Otherwise I wonder what the purpose of posting is? I thought you intended to convince us with hard hitting evidence and facts.

Seems that I am incorrect.

Helleofabore · 01/08/2021 05:00

If any of you reading this, maybe yourselves, or loved ones, have been offered meds, FCKING REFUSE THEM.*

Please do not post such irresponsible advice on a public forum.

No one should be telling others to refuse medication prescribed by doctors. What a seriously dangerous thing to do. By all means make choices for yourself but to make blanket statements such as this is very irresponsible.

Helleofabore · 01/08/2021 05:24

Keira Bell got a lot of attention. One person that made a mistake, amongst the thousands of trans kids who are happy as they are. One person. The media made a big deal of it.

You might find this study interesting. I did.

Effects of Medical Interventions on Gender Dysphoria and Body Image: A Follow-Up Study. 30th August 2017

The aim of this study from the European Network for the Investigation of Gender Incongruence is to investigate the status of all individuals who had applied for gender confirming interventions from 2007 to 2009

The main objective of follow-up on the cohort was to provide a description of the current status of all applicants after 4 to 6 years after clinical entry and describing participants with and without medical transition

135 natal males (119 living in the female role, 12 in the male role, 4 did not report their current gender role) and 66 natal females (60 living in the male role, 5 in the female role, 1 did not report a current gender role)

So if you work the sums... 8.88% of males and 8.33% of the females detransitioned (this does not include those who did not answer the question which if the answer was to detransition would make these figures higher). And in Figure 3. 22.2% of those who socially transitioned, detransitioned.

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5580378/

Are we to believe your assertions? Or a team of researchers who followed up on real patients in Europe ?

And I also add, this was from before the massive unexplained increase in young female transitioners such as Keira Bell.

If you truly wanted the best health care to be given to all, you would surely be very supportive of producing in-depth research into how many people detransition over time. Because your assertion that it is one person is blatantly false and ridiculously so.

I am very glad though that you are saying many “trans kids are happy as they are”. That means they are receiving excellent care, individually tailored to their specific needs and that have been made comfortable to be in the body they are in. They have no need being under 18 to be making life limiting, potentially life shortening and irreversible decisions. And organisations that encourage them to do so should be dealt with harshly.

ItsLateHumpty · 01/08/2021 05:31

If any of you reading this, maybe yourselves, or loved ones, have been offered meds, FCKING REFUSE THEM.*

Agreed - no children should be taking puberty blockers and cross sex hormones because they are gender non conforming or think they are ‘in the wrong body’

Helleofabore · 01/08/2021 05:56

No transgender person wants to hurt you, or your children. They are not dangerous to anyone, the women's toilets, shelters, changing rooms in clothes shops... This is the truth. You don't get the truth in the papers. The papers don't have anyone's best interest at heart, they are just trying to make money.

We know that media lies. They keep stating that males committing crimes are the opposite sex. It is so very wrong.

A good thing that many who will post on this thread and many reading along have seen the threads where the links to males who identify as women committing crimes are detailed. Because we have so many posters telling us transitioned males are not committing crimes when they are.

I would instead point you to the UK prison statistics for the crimes types that are committed for each sex. 98% of sexi crime is committed by males.

Currently the proportion of males who identify as women in UK prisons that are in prison for crimes that are sex crimes or violence is high. It is no where near the proportion of sex crime committed by females.

The statistics do not support your assertion. At all.

In fact, no study says that males who transition reduce their propensity to commit crime and the type of crime to anywhere near the rate of females.

Shall I also post a link that show just a few examples of transitioned males masturbating in female toilets on the porn channels. This is a growing category of porn and there is an ever increasing and rapidly increasing selection of male doing exactly what we are told they don’t do!

And maybe we can also post you the links to the evidence that transitioned males who have used female refuges and caused harm to the females there. Such as masturbating in a shared dormitory with traumatised rape victims.

Perhaps you might like to look at the facts rather than dismissing women and their concerns the way you have.

Chickenyhead · 01/08/2021 06:15

@Helleofabore

Unfortunately as a survivor of severe rapes and sexual assaults, (like many, many women in the UK) I have come to the conclusion that nobody cares about rape victims.

From being doubted, victim blamed, the appalling rate of charging and convicting, to the paltry sentences handed out.

Nobody cares at all.

And now, to top it off, the very things that have kept me alive, the refuges, rape counselling services and even the toilets I have hidden in, are being made man accessible.

Nobody cares about women.

I'm sure that the statistics are that 25% of women have suffered sexual assault after age 16. I think it is higher in my experience.

So that 25% of women by sex, or 12.5% of the population matter less than the demands of the 1% of transwomen (men by sex).

Helleofabore · 01/08/2021 06:15

I am a feminist. There, I said it. I would die to protect a woman.

Lovely to know you would protect women. However, feminism centres females. And only females.

So how come so many so called feminists are against Trans women?

Feminists are not ‘against’ transwomen. Feminists are about ensuring the rights of females are upheld and strengthened to ensure females do not experience negative discrimination because of their female bodies, as we have experienced for millennia. Transwoman are not part of that remit because they are male. Part of the sex class that oppress the other sex. Historically and currently.

Do you actually believe a Trans woman is going to rape you in the toilets? NEWS! Trans women don't hurt or kill women, MEN DO. Trans women are not men. No Trans woman wants to hurt you. It's just the sort of fcked up shtbag men that want to hurt you.

I think I covered this off last post. Please do some research and post links that support that ‘Trans women don't hurt or kill women,’

Trans woman wants to hurt you. are you honestly telling us that you have never seen the males who identify as women posting threats to women on social media? Are you telling us the males who identify as women who posted pictures of their dicks and porn on Joanne Rowling’s ickabog tweets for children we’re not harming children?

Do you think those same males sending threats to the author directly are not hurting her? That none of them meant the threats, that women should consider those jokes.

Do you think the males who are trans who post threats to women every single day are not hurting women?

Because I think you might be surprised at the truth.

Nefelibata33 · 01/08/2021 06:18

Hi everyone

To respond to some posts... someone says is it wrong that some "good" person comes to a female space? OK, so I have a penis. Just wanted to share that with you, though there's absolutely no reason why anyone should ever know what's down there. Should I come here? Absolutely, as a feminist, I don't think I am doing anything wrong here.

Going off on a tangent here, but shouldn't all women feel some sort of feeling for each other? All women? JK Rowling posted a load of crap. What is happening to feminism? All women are valid. Why should any woman feel threatened by trans women? There have been some comments, like, trans women are just like men. Rapists just like men. It's absolute crap. Seriously, do you believe that? Trans women are NOT men. If you believe that, you've got no fcking clue, and you don't know what you're talking about. Sorry if that insults you, but the world is changing, if you can't handle it, tough sht.

The vast majority of men are total d*ckheads. It's not the fault of men, it's just the way they are, and we have a patriarchy, and that's how it is. Men are generally tossers, totally. Not all of them. The sad thing is that men can't ever be themselves. It's not allowed. Half the population have been brainwashed into thinking that they can't even express their own emotions. As humans, don't you think it's sad? As feminists, we stand up for ourselves, but wouldn't you like men to be happy? I am starting to go off on another tangent, why shouldn't anyone be happy? Irrespective of body parts,

I have a penis, so you can send me abuse. You are all biological females, I'm not. See me as a human being just like you, I don't mean any harm.

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Helleofabore · 01/08/2021 06:18

Flowers chickeny

I think that some people will simply never be able to acknowledge the truth about the males who commit these sex crimes.

Whinginadeville · 01/08/2021 06:19

I'm a feminist.I would die to protect a woman. that's not what a feminist is.

Chickenyhead · 01/08/2021 06:23

You are a transwoman by gender and a man by sex. You are not a woman. Never can be.

Please stop trying to insert yourself in to women's sex based right. You have a man's sex based rights.

Please stop.

I'm happy to call you by your chosen name and pronouns, because I treat people with respect. But I will not lie for you and call you a woman. You are a transwoman, be proud.

Third safe spaces, separate but safe.

Nefelibata33 · 01/08/2021 06:24

men who commit sex crimes, I just don't know what is going through their head, how that works. These people are very very sick

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Helleofabore · 01/08/2021 06:37

shouldn't all women feel some sort of feeling for each other? All women?

Why? Who led you to believe this? Or are you confusing that many women, not all, may have shared experiences that resonate with another’s experience. As a female. Not as ‘women’. There are so many ways to be a woman. The majority of shared experiences are because we are females, with female bodies. Not because of this nebulous thing people call womanhood.

JK Rowling posted a load of crap.

Please tell exactly what she has posted that is ‘crap’. What specifically do you disagree with?

What is happening to feminism? All women are valid.

Feminism is for females, whether they identify as a woman, or not. Transmen and NB females have needs that feminism fights for, because of their bodies.

Why should any woman feel threatened by trans women?

We have covered this.

There have been some comments, like, trans women are just like men. Rapists just like men. It's absolute crap.

And the statistics show this.

Seriously, do you believe that?

Yes. Because statistics and facts. Do you have any that support your statements? Just telling us repeatedly is unconvincing.

Trans women are NOT men. If you believe that, you've got no fcking clue, and you don't know what you're talking about.*

Males cannot change sex in the UK in anyway but legally. If a male cannot accept they remain male, perhaps the treatment they have received has not been up to standard. For instance, If a male did not tell the doctors they are male when it came to receiving blood that was donated by a female who had been once pregnant, they may have very serious health repercussions.

And again, male pattern behaviour is not necessarily changed through transition. Certainly, some male socialisation still comes through when people anonymously post on the internet over time. Including misogyny.

Sorry if that insults you, but the world is changing, if you can't handle it, tough sht.*

And this is an example of that behaviour.

Nefelibata33 · 01/08/2021 06:55

I find it really weird this whole feminism against trans women sort of sht. If you're that bothered about it, call me a trans woman and that's fine. Can we agree on that? I can't talk for everyone, but we just would like to be accepted as human beings, not HATED no DISCRIMATION. No human being should have to experience that. I wish I wasn't how I am. I can't help how I am. It's not a choice. It's really sht.

I am making a plea to all of you - stop hating on trans women. PLEASE! Whatever you think, we are just human beings. I am a human just like you. I don't mean you any harm. No trans woman does, we are sisters. Call me what you like, if I'm not allowed to call myself a woman, so be it. I'd like to call myself a woman, but it seems that women won't let me. TM.

Life is hell. Please spread the word, stop hating transgender people. GB News just tried to boost their failing ratings by starting a hate campaign against trans women. Just stop! PLEASE! I really want everyone who reads this to realise that it's cruelty. There seems to be so much hatred. We need less hatred, more tolerance, love, acceptance.

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WorkingItOutAsIGo · 01/08/2021 06:58

OP you have very rapidly come down to the old trope of ‘just be kind’. Please make that demand of your own sex first. When men stop flashing us, groping us, sexually assaulting us, wolf whistling us, demeaning us at work, etc etc then we can talk about being kind. But let your sex do some work on it first before you ask more of us.