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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is this a man or a woman?

364 replies

GreatBigBird · 13/07/2021 23:21

YABU: woman

YANBU: man

www.cp24.com/news/woman-charged-after-allegedly-sexually-assaulting-boy-6-in-toronto-park-1.5507641

I can’t even begin to express myself.

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Changemaname1 · 14/07/2021 00:12

Who’s voting YABU ? Ffs

This is a man . And a disgusting sexual
Predator

TalkingOutYerArse · 14/07/2021 00:14

Taking the absolute piss this is. Twisted sick bastard.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 14/07/2021 00:15

@soolazy

No way knowing anyone could look at that picture and not know that is a man.

Will they go to a women's prison?

I believe that in Canada, any male sex offenders who “self identify” as women are indeed enabled to serve their sentences in the female estate. A situation which is every bit as detrimental to the women prisoners there as you might imagine.

So yes. It’s very likely that if convicted, this man-who-says-he’s-a-woman will end up in a women’s prison. Happy days.

(Heather Mason @Mason134211f on Twitter is excellent to follow on this topic. As a survivor of the Canadian prison system herself, she really knows what’s going on there.)

maddening · 14/07/2021 00:16

Male pedophile

RadandMad · 14/07/2021 00:16

To those who are shocked by this and haven't seen it before, it's happening all the time. Wake up!

GreatBigBird · 14/07/2021 00:16

This absolutely should stay in aibu, OP.
Why would you want it hidden away?)

I don’t want it hidden away, but I want the thread to stay - I was worried about it being deleted for being in the wrong place - I’d rather it stood somewhere than be deleted.

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RedDogsBeg · 14/07/2021 00:16

It's no surprise to see this has happened in Canada and no surprise that the individual is a man.

A child is being lied to and gaslight into believing he was assaulted by a woman.
The crime will be recorded as having been committed by a woman.
If there is a prison sentence given it will be served by said man in the female prison estate.

All those who believe and chant TWAW, this is what you are signing up for, this is what you are supporting, this is what you are championing, this is what you are condoning and celebrating.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 14/07/2021 00:17

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CovidCorvid · 14/07/2021 00:17

@Changemaname1

Who’s voting YABU ? Ffs

This is a man . And a disgusting sexual
Predator

People who would rather validate this paedaphile than speak the truth.
IndecentCakes · 14/07/2021 00:17

That is a person of the male sex.

It is upsetting that these crimes are falsely being ascribed to women. This is a specific kind of crime that historically has overwhelmingly been committed by men.

TrainedByCats · 14/07/2021 00:20

Disgusted at how Canada cannot see they are further abusing an innocent child by calling this attacker a woman.

olidora63 · 14/07/2021 00:20

@GreatBigBird…sorry am really tired,stressful day ..I didn’t actually look beyond the shoulders..💕

GreatBigBird · 14/07/2021 00:21

Just looked up @Mason134211f Twitter account and found this story retweeted. I thought this was a good tweet:

Natasha Nogoodnik
@NNogoodnik
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This is a man being reported as "a woman" because he claims to be one. If he also claims not to be a sexual predator, will they print that lie as if it's reality?

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GreatBigBird · 14/07/2021 00:22

[quote olidora63]@GreatBigBird…sorry am really tired,stressful day ..I didn’t actually look beyond the shoulders..💕[/quote]
No worries. Hope tomorrow brings a better day. Flowers

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TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 14/07/2021 00:22

Re the women’s prison question, bear in mind that many women’s prisons have mother and baby/child units. How happy this paedophile predator would be to find himself alongside one of those.

Some chilling testimony here from Canadian women who’ve found themselves in exactly that situation, from the Canada section of the Keep Prisons Single Sex website:

www.keep-prisons-single-sex.org.uk/canadian-women-speak-out

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 14/07/2021 00:22

It is monstrous.

Nonmaquillee · 14/07/2021 00:28

Not only a poor attempt to gaslight the Canadian public, but also - crucially - to do the same with the poor little boy.
Imagine: the boy tells police he was assaulted by a man. The perpetrator is found and identified. Police etc insist it was a female perpetrator. The poor little victim KNOWS it was a male. Everyone around him including the media collude in this.
The little boy is NOT ONLY ASSAULTED but also LIED TO.
I’m beyond appalled.

DismantledKing · 14/07/2021 00:29

I notice that the (currently) 6% who believe that this is a woman don’t have the bottle to come on here and argue their point.

IfNot · 14/07/2021 00:29

So some publications are not using the word ‘woman’ in articles about birth and women's health, and instead refer to ‘people’ or parts of anatomy, but are use ‘woman’ to describe a biologically male perpetrator of sex crime!

"Woman" is a dirty word except when describing a male sex offender.
If you had told me 10 years ago this is where we would be I wouldn't have believed you. One day many people are going to be very ashamed of themselves. And I for one will not forgive and forget.

JacquelineCarlyle · 14/07/2021 00:30

YANBU - that poor poor boy and that bastard deserves to rot.

EverythingWillFallInLine · 14/07/2021 00:39

That is a man who identifies as a rapist paedophile.

Throckmorton · 14/07/2021 00:39

Fucking appalling and a safeguarding fail - police need to describe people accurately, especially in sexual predator cases such as this where people need to know its a man involved not a woman

Furries · 14/07/2021 00:40

This is beyond nuts. That photo is definitely of a biological male. And this is the picture of what the problem is.

This picture is a perfect example of what the trans community will face. The trans community will likely face backlash over this, and more incidents of a similar nature.

When the actual problem is bloody men. Men who have been, are and will use the trans umbrella to abuse the use of self-id. THIS is the problem that lots of women are pushing back on - not to discriminate against the trans community. To push back on MEN who will abuse the rights of that community.

That poor kid - can’t even put into words how on Earth they are supposed to process and deal with the fact that they will know what situation took place, yet it will be phrased - in legal terms - in the completely opposite way.

And as someone else said upthread, the impact on records for crime data is going to start to become really skewed.

olidora63 · 14/07/2021 00:46

@DismantledKing

I notice that the (currently) 6% who believe that this is a woman don’t have the bottle to come on here and argue their point.
I did …looked at the shoulders…am so tired so didn’t look at the pic properly and agree I was wrong 😑
Furries · 14/07/2021 00:49

@Timeforanewnamemethinks

Pressed the wrong button, yes that is a man. YANBU
I’ve not used voting very often, but am sure I’ve seen posters on other threads say that you can go back and revote correctly. I may be wrong, hopefully someone else can advise.
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